A Size Queen's Dream: The Black Bull Experiences of Playboy Savage

Ever wanted to know what it's like to be a black bull in the hotwife and cuckolding lifestyle? Meet Playboy Savage, your guide to this fascinating world. Our conversation covers everything from his surprising first introduction to the lifestyle,  to his most recent experiences at hotel takeover events and the upcoming HotWifePalooza event happening September 15th to 17th.

How does a black bull navigate interactions at hotel parties full of potential playmates? Playboy Savage provides a rare insight into the complexities of lifestyle interactions, from the cost of entry for single males to the ways he connects with couples before the event. As our conversation unfolds, we tackle the tough issues that pervade the hotwife/cuckolding lifestyle, such as the importance of intimacy, the pitfalls of performative sex, and the boundary lines that need to be respected in these unique situations.

This chat with Playboy Savage isn't just about the wild experiences, it's also a deep dive into the psychological aspects of the lifestyle. We explore the concept of poly relationships with cuckold couples, the considerations around breeding, and the reactions of women - both those excited by his size, and those who are intimidated by it. And, of course, we couldn't resist talking about his OnlyFans page, a treasure trove of experiences and insights for anyone curious about the lifestyle. Whether you’re seasoned in the lifestyle or just looking to gain a fresh perspective, this episode is a must-listen. So, are you ready to journey into the world of Playboy Savage?

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Transcript

Speaker 1: 0:00

Coming up on the show.

Speaker 2: 0:03

It would definitely and ultimately have to be, you know, the perfect harmony. It would have to be a great situation all the way around the board, Because it's not even as a bull that would breed. You wouldn't even just breed anybody that you're playing with. It would still be even selective out of those people, Big dick guys, we have to do foreplay. I enjoy foreplay because that's part of you know soothing her and getting her ready for what's to come. You know lube and everything up, making sure everything's nice and wet, make it sloppy, nice and smooth. You know what I mean. So you could just slide it.

Speaker 2: 0:50

Yeah, so we have to do the foreplay thing because of, for that reason, even though I do it anyway and they have to do it because, like I said, they're diggaming too strong, so they got to eat the fuck out of the pussy, because that's, you know, what they have to focus on.

Speaker 1: 1:08

Yeah, they have to work on outer course.

Speaker 2: 1:12

Exactly yeah.

Speaker 1: 1:16

Were you like what the fuck is that thing that's exactly, especially because it was so small.

Speaker 2: 1:21

Honestly, listen, I'm gonna be honest and not to, you know, not to dig shame anybody or cockshares or whatever we want to coin that phrase right now. But yeah, I had never seen a dick that small. You know, it was just like wow, damn, that's crazy. I was like I could never fit one of those, never Like, maybe a ball, I can get a ball in there.

Speaker 1: 2:02

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Speaker 1: 3:05

I have someone by the name of, or goes by the name of, playboy Savage, and he is such a good friend of mine and he's been in a black bull in the lifestyle for like a decade now. He's going to share what it is really like for him as a black bull in the hot wife thing slash, cuckolding, interracial lifestyle and this episode is a ton of fun. We're going to talk about all the really great things and all the real shit things and everything in between, and he's just so much fun to chat with. So this is definitely good. By the way, just a heads up we talk about some really hot shit too, so you might want to listen to this when you're not in public. Just saying that's the disclaimer on this episode. So you know it's going to be good.

Speaker 1: 4:03

Him and I actually are going to be attending an event together coming up. It's called Hot Wife Palooza. It is the third annual Hot Wife Palooza event and I have not been before, so this will be my first one, even though I have sponsored them before. I was not able to go, but I will be at this event. This time this is happening the weekend of September 15th and it is in Arizona, and Playboy Savage will be joining me. We'll be there together. So if you are going to be attending the event, then come on over and say hello if you see us.

Speaker 1: 4:46

And for those of you who don't know what Hot Wife Palooza is, this is my little spiel about what it's all about. All right, so this is the third year of Hot Wife Palooza. It is produced by Hot Wife Palooza Community, genie Wishes Events, lifestellers Magazine and Arizona Fantasy Club. So if you have not attended the previous parties, imagine more than 48 hours of hotel takeover fun, including four parties, two bonus activities, a clothing, optional pool and jacuzzi, an epic group play facility and a great group of single gentlemen who understand how to conduct themselves. These are the kind of events where you can really let your hair down and enjoy, like every hour, of the weekend experience. It's going to take place in a charming boutique hotel in Tucson, arizona, from September 15th, and more than 300 people attended the previous Hot Wife Palooza event, and the number of sexy participants continues to grow every time they host a new party. So, needless to say, this one is definitely going to sell out, if I hope it has not sold out already. So you best be buying your room package, like now, if there are still some available. They do have 14 hour day passes as well, so RSVP and register at HotWifeCommunitycom. The link is also in the description notes for today's episode. Oh, and I have to mention my friend Doc Chocolate from the Bulls and Queens podcast. He's going to be there as well, so of course you want to be there.

Speaker 1: 6:35

And the last announcement before we jump into the show today is there's a brand new episode of the Cook View talk show that just got released, and it features my co-host, cook Next Door, and the goddess Kayla herself. Some of you may remember her from her fucking amazing episode she did on this show about humiliation. Well, we're going to be talking about Cuckporn Woo-woo, one of my favorite topics and in this episode of the Cook View talk show, goddess Kayla has a special challenge for all the cucks out there, so you got to check this out. You can find it on the private podcast at venuscuckledresscom by becoming a member of any one of the support tiers, and it's also available on Apple podcasts. So check it out. That's called the Cuck View, the new talk show about everything cuckolding. All right, that's it for announcements. Are you ready to jump in to this show? Because I sure as fuck am. Let's do this With me. On the show today I have my very good friend, playboy Savage. Welcome to the show, playboy Savage. Say hello to all the listeners.

Speaker 2: 8:06

Hello, hello, I'm glad to be here. Thanks for having me.

Speaker 1: 8:10

Isn't his voice so sexy, oh my God. Okay, so Playboy Savage is someone who I met at a hotel takeover event last year and had so much fun with and we have connected in person since then most recently actually and he is a black bull in the lifestyle and the cuckolding hot wife, wife sharing I hate that term lifestyle, but that's how we met last year and it was an interracial party and I just wanted to ask you Like being an interracial themed event, mostly black men and white couples like, do you like? I'm assuming you obviously have a preference for white women when it comes to couples in this lifestyle, is that? Am I correct with that?

Speaker 2: 9:10

You know what? I'm not even going to say that I have a preference for white women in the lifestyle. But what I will say is that in this lifestyle, as far as cuckold relationships go, it's usually white women. That's more so the truth of that situation. I don't necessarily have a preference. I do love white women. I love black women. You know what I mean. I love beautiful women.

Speaker 1: 9:36

Yeah, and so how did you find out about that party? I don't. It's not. It wasn't your first time that you've been to that party before right, it wasn't.

Speaker 2: 9:45

No, it wasn't. That was my second event, my second splash.

Speaker 1: 9:50

Okay, and have you been to other lifestyle events other than that?

Speaker 2: 9:55

Yeah, I've been to plenty of lifestyle events. I've been in the lifestyle for, like I said, about 10 years, on and off, so I have plenty of experience and I've been to lots of different clubs and events. I will say the one that we met at is definitely one of a kind. Yeah, yeah.

Speaker 1: 10:18

So he's talking about splash mocha events and I have talked about this a little bit on the show before. That was my first one last year. I have been to, like I guess, swinger type events before, but that was my first one. That was kind of like cuck hot wife kind of themes event and yeah, it was a lot of fun. So 10 years you've been kind of into this. How did you get introduced to it? Like, how did you get into it?

Speaker 2: 10:46

I honestly I got approached by I forgot where I was, but I think I was just like at a regular bar or club and I got approached by a couple and, yeah, I played with the hot wife and, while getting to know them and becoming friends, she told me about what else they were into and the lifestyle. Then I had them take me to my first party and it's been history ever since. It's a wrap, I've been knee deep.

Speaker 1: 11:20

Balls deep. You're in balls deep.

Speaker 2: 11:26

Yeah, exactly, that's definitely a better description, more accurate.

Speaker 1: 11:34

Okay. So when they approached you, that couple that approached you in the bar where you this is weird like, are you sure you're your, your husband, you know, at first it was a little weird.

Speaker 2: 11:46

Only for like the first and 30 seconds, that's how long it took me to adjust. She was really hot. So I'm like listen. If that's what you guys are looking for, I'm all for it. Like count me in.

Speaker 1: 11:56

Was. He was the cut there in the room.

Speaker 2: 11:59

Yes, he was.

Speaker 1: 12:00

Oh, was that weird for you.

Speaker 2: 12:04

You know what I'm gonna tell you about my first, so my first experience. Yes, the cuck was in the room. He was caged, he was sitting in the corner. He was being humiliated by her I guess she hadn't even had sex with him. She wasn't going to until they got married, so they were just a couple at that point in time and and yeah, so I was just sitting there Fucking her, having my way with her, while she was talking shit to him how he'll never get that pussy until he puts a fucking ring on it.

Speaker 1: 12:40

Yeah, okay, but that was it?

Speaker 2: 12:42

That was interesting. That was definitely a different dynamic than I was accustomed to.

Speaker 1: 12:49

Is that that's got some like kind of you know fringy kinky stuff going on, correct?

Speaker 2: 12:57

Yes, I think so, definitely. I mean, you know, a different people are into different things. I'm, you know, I'm here for it. I'll participate how I can. You know, whatever I'm comfortable with, I'm here for it.

Speaker 1: 13:10

Were you like what the fuck is that thing?

Speaker 2: 13:13

Exactly, especially because it was so small. Honestly, listen, I'm gonna be honest and not to, you know, not to dick shame anybody, or cockshares or whatever, we want to coin that phrase right now but yeah, I had never seen a dick that small, you know, it was just wow, damn, that's crazy. I was like I could never fit one of those. Never I. Maybe a ball, I can get a ball in there, I get one of my nuts in there.

Speaker 1: 13:47

My god, that's so funny Because I remember the very first time I saw just Chastity Cage.

Speaker 2: 13:54

What the fuck is that? No?

Speaker 1: 13:57

I actually saw it in in porn and I was like the fuck is that thing on his dick? I was like, is this like fashion accessory or something?

Speaker 2: 14:10

One of the one of the first things I thought about is how painful it would be if he actually got hard.

Speaker 1: 14:15

Yeah, yeah. Well, that's the point.

Speaker 2: 14:18

That's the point. I fucking sucks.

Speaker 1: 14:20

Yeah, poor him, yikes, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 2: 14:24

I'm good.

Speaker 1: 14:26

So you weren't. So that was your first experience that you weren't totally like this shit's Wack, I don't, I don't want to know it was.

Speaker 2: 14:35

It was very, very interesting and no, I was intrigued.

Speaker 1: 14:40

Yeah, okay.

Speaker 2: 14:42

I wasn't, I was intrigued, it was. It was enough for me to, you know, delve back in and see what else the lifestyle had in store for me.

Speaker 1: 14:50

Oh, did she do a comparison picture? That would have been amazing. You next to him, oh my god.

Speaker 2: 14:57

No, but I do have a couple of those with the other couples.

Speaker 1: 15:00

That's so awesome, oh my god. Okay. So Okay, wow, okay, we're gonna get to your only fans soon because I want to talk about that. Okay, but I have a few other questions first. But okay, what I wanted to ask you is what is it like for you at these hotel parties to be a bum? And for those of you listening when I'm talking about what these hotel take Of our parties is like the.

Speaker 1: 15:25

These are parties where they actually Rent all the rooms privately in this hotel, so no one else can actually come into that hotel for the weekend, only the guests who've signed up for this event, and it's like a full-on play party. If you want, you know, I certainly don't have to, but it at the splash moka party there's, like I don't know, like a thousand guys there, black eyes, and then lots of not I would. It's not all black eyes. I think it's interracial, as in like any kind of interracial theme, but that's mostly what it is, and then a lot of couples, and so I was just like holy shit, like there is a lot of guys to choose from. I was a little, I want to say, overwhelming, but like I was pleasantly surprised, I was like wow, so what is it like for you to walk into something like that?

Speaker 2: 16:18

You know what, walking into that experience for the first time was definitely something that you have to Adjust to as well. That was my first time being to an event where I feel like the focus was on black men. Yeah, I've been to Hot wife events and parties before Going to splash mocha, but none that were focused on black men and even so to the point to where they cater to black men, even in the pricing like this is the first event period that I've ever been to were single males pay less than Couples single females is that right?

Speaker 2: 17:01

I didn't know that on the event error oh.

Speaker 1: 17:05

Wow, okay, that's awesome. I really I think that's that's the right move. That's good.

Speaker 2: 17:11

So the way it works for a splash is If you're a single male and you don't mind splitting a double bed room with another single male which, if you have a friend that's going or somebody that you you know mean like your cool way that you could just have, you know, give them the name and you guys can come make sure that you guys are room together. It's 300 bucks, exactly exactly. And and on top of that, if you buy, if you Purchase two events at the same time, you can get over just 500.

Speaker 2: 17:44

Really so then it's $250 each. But yeah, that's for a shared room, but even that's not the cost of what it would actually cost to rent a share or a room. You know what I mean? Oh, I know, because I know the rooms are like $1,200, $1,500.

Speaker 1: 17:57

Yeah, I know they are.

Speaker 2: 17:59

Exactly so. Like I said, this is the only event that I'd know of that the single males pay less than everyone else instead of more, that is Considerably more.

Speaker 1: 18:11

That is great. I think that's wonderful.

Speaker 2: 18:14

So that's another reason why, one of the reasons why it's a favorite- so what is your usual thing that you do when you're there?

Speaker 1: 18:24

So you go and you obviously know people who are there, because you've been doing this for a lot of years. So is your thing to just like go and mingle, or do you like prearrange, like before you go?

Speaker 2: 18:36

I do a little bit of everything. I go and I mingle, I socialize and see who I connect with, naturally, but at the same time, if there's any way for me to find out who's going ahead of time, I'll try to connect ahead of time and kind of chat and get acquainted ahead of time before we meet in person at the event.

Speaker 1: 18:58

Right, and so do you get a lot of like women who are referrals from other women.

Speaker 2: 19:07

Yes.

Speaker 1: 19:09

No, I knew that was going to be the answer, because I am not surprised.

Speaker 2: 19:15

Women love to share me.

Speaker 1: 19:17

So you are in demand, I'm popular.

Speaker 2: 19:23

I'm popular in the lifestyle.

Speaker 1: 19:24

So do you interact a lot with, like the husbands, or yes, I do.

Speaker 2: 19:31

I think it's about 50-50 as far as who I interact with whenever I'm dealing with couples.

Speaker 1: 19:38

And do they usually interact with you in the same way, or are some like ultra submissive and other guys are just talk to you like they're just a bro?

Speaker 2: 20:46

That's exactly the way it is and it shows the difference in couples at the same time, because there are like the hot wife, cuckold couples, and obviously those guys, even in speaking with them or texting them, you can tell in their demeanor they're a little bit more submissive, they don't have a lot to say, it's just more like a yes, sir, you know, thing like that. But with the stag vixen couples, you know, those are the guys that don't just watch you fuck their girl or their wife. They join in somehow. Some way they might join in, even if it's just by talking. You know what I mean, right, but you know, in texting and talking to those guys, yeah, that's more like a bro type situation, like, yeah, you know what I'm saying, but yeah, it's completely different.

Speaker 1: 21:37

So what do you look for? You don't have to go out and look for couples. It sounds like they just like you, I don't.

Speaker 2: 21:46

They do find me, but I still look.

Speaker 1: 21:48

Okay. Where do you look to find them? I'm curious.

Speaker 2: 21:52

Oh well, I look on swing sites, because you know there's sites like Fedlife and Cassidy, and then there's also this little gym called Double List.

Speaker 1: 22:05

Double List. I've somewhat heard of that.

Speaker 2: 22:10

Like. So technically basically double. Do you remember what Like how the Craigslist casual encounter section used to be back in the day?

Speaker 1: 22:20

Tell me, it's that.

Speaker 2: 22:22

So what Double List is is only the casual encounter section of Craigslist, or a style in that fashion. That's exactly how it's laid out, so that Double List is the new Craigslist casual encounters.

Speaker 1: 22:34

Fuck me, I was just talking about this today.

Speaker 2: 22:38

Like you just made me expose that for the world. That was my little secret.

Speaker 1: 22:48

Double List Damn Okay.

Speaker 2: 22:52

So like. So you can go on Double List and you can create an ad and have it sit in there for you know whatever you're looking for. If you're a couple looking for a single male, if you're a couple looking for a female, if you're a couple looking for another couple, you can leave an ad like that and you can also go and look for that. I'm a single male looking for a female or a single male looking for I mean single male looking for a couple. Pretty much you can make it very specific to what you're searching for and there's Pretty much you know there's. There's some for everybody there. So whatever, whatever it is you're looking for, is there Females for females, males for males? All that's there.

Speaker 1: 23:32

So when you put an ad on there, what does it say?

Speaker 2: 23:36

Hmm.

Speaker 1: 23:42

I'm going to put you on the spot with this one.

Speaker 2: 23:46

Okay, let's see In a nutshell when I post an ad, all I kind of do is really just say who I am, how old I am and what it is I'm looking for. You know, if I post an ad looking for single females, I say I'm looking for a single female to have fun with, um, I might mention what my availability is and include a picture and attach, you know, basically include a way for them to contact me, and if they reach out to me, then it's game on. Or if I have a ad, okay. So basically, I post an ad, I leave all that information on there. It's basically like a little bio about me. Yeah, kind of what I'm into sexually. You can't be too graphic though, because they will like flag your shit.

Speaker 1: 24:29

Okay.

Speaker 2: 24:30

And you can't post nude pictures. So you have to. You know you've got to have clothes on, you've got to keep it kind of classy in the fucking bio too, but enough to get your point across Like this is what I'm looking for tonight, this weekend. And then you know they'll respond with like a picture and another way to contact them so that you're not emailing, maybe a kick or a telegram or we can text Right, um, but if I'm looking for a couple, then I'll say I'm looking for a couple, um, it doesn't matter to me, I don't have a preference over stag vixen couples and or hot wife cuckold couples, like it's all fun for me, it's all fun yeah.

Speaker 2: 25:09

It's all fun for me, it's a listen. I'm going to be honest, it took me a little bit, a couple of times, for me to adjust, like just being watched like that, yeah, while I was like so intensely, so intensely, while I was fucking somebody's wife, um, but I just zone out like I'm you know, I'm in my zone, I'm here handling business. I just do what I do.

Speaker 1: 25:33

What? And I'm assuming sometimes the guy's like filming you too. So there's that right.

Speaker 2: 25:39

Yes, yes, absolutely.

Speaker 1: 25:41

Okay, um have you? Have you ever been catfished?

Speaker 2: 25:46

You know, if on it funny enough, I have never, I've never, I've never, I've never, I've never been catfished. But I do have people that use my pictures and videos. So it's kind of like a reverse I got people to use my images to catfish other people.

Speaker 1: 26:04

I got the same issue.

Speaker 2: 26:06

Right, it's. It's so crazy, it's so weird to me. You know, maybe one of these days I'll have catfish call me. Like hey, this chick thinks she's been dating you for the last six months. Could you let her know? She I'm like. Listen, I'm sorry that wasn't me, so I'm. I'm expecting a call from catfish sometime soon, cause I got a couple of people that are actively using my pics and stuff, like oh, that's annoying.

Speaker 2: 26:28

Messaging people. Like they've messaged people that I know you know they've. They've messaged somebody before I messaged them. So then the when I messaged them, they thought I was the catfish. I'm like I put the how the fuck? How am I in a situation where I got approved that I'm the real, me Like really?

Speaker 1: 26:46

Yeah, yeah. You know, that's so annoying when that happens.

Speaker 2: 26:50

It is. You know, a lot of people think it's, it should be flattering, but no, that's just annoying. Yeah, you know it's, it's flattering at first, like maybe the first time and maybe for a couple of pictures, but when you literally have somebody trying to, you know, steal your identity in that way, it's like it's pretty lame, she's, she's weak, it's. You know, it's like 50, 50,. It's flattering because it's like, yeah, somebody thinks I'm so dope, they want to be me Cool, I get it, but on the flip side of that, that's just lame as fuck. Be you. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1: 27:20

Yeah, well, it's because your dick is fabulous.

Speaker 2: 27:24

Oh well, and I'm an amazing person.

Speaker 1: 27:26

That too.

Speaker 2: 27:27

Yeah.

Speaker 1: 27:30

That happened to me. I there's very few photos and videos of me that have leaked out there, but, um, I have had. It's usually people who, who know me, who were like, messaging me, like, oh, this dude is using your photo.

Speaker 2: 27:46

Yeah, yeah. Or like, did you? They're like did you create a new profile? I'm like no, I'm like, this is the only one. So they're like it's funny because I always have people hit me up telling me that somebody else is using my pics and stuff. And then we kind of go into a little mission to try to catch them up and they always end up just like blocking them and stuff. So it's a fun little game we play now, but you know, at the end of the day I think it's pretty wack. So anybody out there is using my pics and shit. You can do better.

Speaker 1: 29:09

That's right.

Speaker 2: 29:09

You can do better, just be you better.

Speaker 1: 29:11

Be better. Yes, absolutely.

Speaker 2: 29:14

Exactly.

Speaker 1: 29:15

Um. So in your opinion, do you think that like this, um interracial part of cuckolding is more popular now than before?

Speaker 2: 29:27

Definitely. I think within the last maybe five years or so is when I've really been hearing a lot more about, like the infatuation with BBC.

Speaker 1: 29:43

Okay.

Speaker 2: 29:44

And do you the fetish, whatever you want to call it. Yeah, it's definitely something.

Speaker 1: 29:48

It is yeah.

Speaker 2: 29:49

And I am at the forefront.

Speaker 1: 29:53

Have you noticed it's mainly like from couples, or do you notice that this is like a lot of white dudes out there who are obsessing about like BBC porn?

Speaker 2: 30:05

I'd say it's Well, I don't know what's going on privately. Yeah, it's what I deal with, definitely couples. Yeah, you know, and then you know, when you're dealing with these couples, you don't know whose idea it is.

Speaker 1: 30:19

Yeah.

Speaker 2: 30:21

You don't know if it's because she wants to do it or if it's because he wants her to do it. Either way, it's getting done and I'm there to do it.

Speaker 1: 30:29

I'm all in a bet. It's the guys. It's the guys who are the ones that are driving it, which is it's an interesting psychology.

Speaker 2: 30:38

You would be surprised. I mean, I'm sure it's the guys a lot of time as well, but I know for a fact that it is the women a lot of times, just because of the fact that I have, like I build relationships and connections and bonds with these women, so I have lasting relationships with these couples, so I learn exactly what their dynamic is and who's running the show. Yeah, most of them are women.

Speaker 1: 31:08

Yeah, okay, so that was.

Speaker 2: 31:11

I'm going to just keep it. You know, I'm going to just keep it honest. Most of them are the women.

Speaker 1: 31:15

Yeah, that's what I was going to ask you about was.

Speaker 2: 31:20

All the queens of spades.

Speaker 1: 31:21

Falk. Yes, I was going to ask you about that, like, do you Is this about sex or is this about sex and connection with? For you?

Speaker 2: 31:36

Yeah, For me it's definitely about sex and connection. Like, honestly, we might not even have sex if there's no connection, like even if we're both very physically attracted to each other, like there's certain things that and it's not even really some things that I can list as far as to check off it's more of like, you know, it's a vibe, yeah.

Speaker 1: 32:00

It really is a vibe. Has it always been like that for you, or is that?

Speaker 2: 32:04

No, it's okay, just like some things that have changed for me. I noticed that back in the day I used to be a lot more, I'll say, open and eager to do gangbanks, but now that I'm more experienced in the lifestyle and my life is set up the way it is, I prefer not to do gangbanks unless I have to, which is rare, because I enjoy intimacy.

Speaker 1: 32:38

Yeah.

Speaker 2: 32:39

You know what I mean. And being sensual, I don't always like to put on a show. You know what I mean. Yeah, and then another thing I've learned is that when in gangbang type situations and threesome type situations I don't get to fuck the way I like to fuck when the female Like if I Okay. So if Okay, doggy style is my favorite position. So if I want you face down and ass up, and that's the way I get it, I'm not going to get it like that if you got to have your head up focusing on sucking another dick. You know what I'm saying. So I don't get to fuck the way I like to fuck in situations like that, which is the reason why they're not something I generally go for.

Speaker 2: 33:20

On top of that, a lot of other single males out there are, so I don't know. So I feel like thirsty for pussy. Sometimes they don't really know how to share. You know what I'm saying. So once they get in there, you know you're going to have to tap them a couple of times before they try to jump out and they're going to try to bust their nut first, like that's not usually the way that goes. I'm like, bro, if we was doing that I'd still be in the pussy right now. I wouldn't have ever handed it over to you. Yeah, so it's just. You know I play well with others, but sometimes you know when I'm being like that and then I see it's not the same way in return. I'd rather just not be in that situation, especially if I can have her to myself. You know what I'm saying. Like I'm only sharing it because she wants to be shared. You know what I mean? Yeah, yeah.

Speaker 2: 34:18

But you know, it's just the way that goes sometimes it's all good.

Speaker 1: 34:22

That's interesting. I just thought about that, like I guess gangbangs are kind of more performative than they are really about.

Speaker 2: 34:28

Exactly. There's a lot of positions that look great on porn that are not actually fucking comfortable to do.

Speaker 1: 34:35

Yeah, like the picking her up thing, the picking her up upside down.

Speaker 2: 34:41

I was like what? Yeah, that's crazy. Sometimes DP is uncomfortable, DVP is definitely uncomfortable. You know what I mean. But you make it work and if that's what the female wants, we're definitely going to try to make it happen.

Speaker 1: 34:54

I've had DVP once and I loved it. I'm just, I'm not out there.

Speaker 2: 34:57

That's what I'm saying. I bet Exactly If you had seen what it looks like from the outside in the uncomfortable positions we got to get into. Try to make that work. You be like damn, you know what I'm saying, and sometimes it's only for a couple of strokes. All right, cool, we did that.

Speaker 1: 35:20

Poor guy.

Speaker 2: 35:21

I'm all for it. I'm a team player. I'm a team player. And the one more thing like when, when, during DP, I don't usually like to be the guy underneath. I'm usually the guy in the back or up front, dependent on how you're positioned.

Speaker 1: 35:40

Is that just because visually it's better or easier?

Speaker 2: 35:44

No, it's because usually that guy is not really getting too much action. He's kind of just sitting there so say we're doing DP, where the girl is riding the guy and then you know there's a guy behind her. I would be the guy behind her because the guy under her is just getting sat on and the guy behind her is having all the fun. You know what I'm saying? Right? So I'm never the guy just sitting there underneath, like I don't need both of you. I body weight on me and then in DP. And the other way, when she's flipped around and kind of riding one guy, reverse cowgirl, and then there's another guy up front, I would try to be the guy up front and have her leaned all the way back, but once again the guy underneath is just laying there.

Speaker 1: 36:33

Yeah, yeah, Okay, that makes. That makes a lot of sense. I have a like my ultimate fantasy is to have a gang bang a BBC gang bang on my wedding night. But because I've never had a gang bang before, so I want.

Speaker 2: 36:49

Hey, say that again. What do you say?

Speaker 1: 36:51

I've never had a gang bang before.

Speaker 2: 36:53

What's your ultimate fantasy?

Speaker 1: 36:54

A BBC gang bang on my wedding night.

Speaker 2: 36:56

This is my RSVP.

Speaker 1: 37:00

But this is the thing. Just going back to what you said, I want to be very, very choosy about who these guys are, because I do want everybody to work well together. I do want it to be. I want the vibe to be right between everybody. Otherwise, if the vibe is not right, I don't want it.

Speaker 2: 37:18

I don't want it Absolutely, absolutely, 100%, all the way around.

Speaker 1: 37:22

Yeah, so there you go.

Speaker 2: 37:24

We, we listen. We got to be fucking giving high fives and shit when we change. And I was saying when we swap it out, like all right, bro, here you get in your high five band Exactly, exactly. You know, we got to be so cool that you know why I'm fucking. I got somebody bringing me, you know, a towel and some water.

Speaker 1: 37:41

Yes.

Speaker 2: 37:42

You got to be a team player.

Speaker 1: 37:44

No, that's my cuckie dude. That would be good. That's his job.

Speaker 2: 37:49

As long as somebody does the shit, I need towels and water.

Speaker 1: 37:53

Okay, another question I wanted to ask you is what's this been like? You obviously really enjoy this lifestyle and you enjoy, you know, the all, everything that comes with it. What has it been like, kind of navigating, like romantic relationships for?

Speaker 2: 38:11

you? You know what that's. That's, honestly, a very, very good question. It's been hard, it's been very hard, it's like I don't know, it's kind of hard to explain, but I feel like the lifestyle is, I feel like the best thing that's happened to me, one of the best things that's happened to me because of the freedom that it allows you. But on the flip side, I know for a fact that I have gained and lost. You know, a lot of beautiful women, a lot of great, amazing women, normal vanilla women, because they didn't understand, wouldn't understand or didn't wanna be a part of the lifestyle with me.

Speaker 2: 39:06

But, like I said, in any other circumstance outside of the lifestyle, you know, these probably all would have been women I would have married. It would have been great. You know what I mean. But that one little thing you know. So it's kind of, you know, in a way it's like a gift in the curse. You know what I'm saying. It's like you have to. You know, like you're like I'm turning all the good women away for all the bad ones. You know what I mean, but I've been. Hey, you gotta live your life the way you choose and the way you see fit, and I choose to have fun, you know.

Speaker 1: 39:44

Have you ever considered being in like a poly relationship with a couple?

Speaker 2: 39:50

I have. I've thought about it. It's not something that has been presented to me, it's something that I do and it's also like a situation that I would be in, like orchestrate myself. I'd be in a poly relationship as far as one that I put together, and I'd also, you know, potentially join someone else's. I'd be open to that.

Speaker 1: 40:17

Have you had couples approach you for that before or talked to you about that before?

Speaker 2: 40:25

You know what I haven't had couples talk to me about? Okay, I've had couples talk to me about, you know, maybe like being the wife's boyfriend, you know stuff like that, but it's never really. It's not any local couples, it's more so couples that aren't close. So it's not really something that's actually realistic for me. But yeah, I mean honestly, I've had couples ask me to breed.

Speaker 1: 40:59

Oh, I didn't think to ask you this question, but this is a good one, Okay so.

Speaker 2: 41:05

I knew you were gonna say that since I said breeding, I was like I know she wouldn't think about breeding.

Speaker 1: 41:11

Okay, because my first cuckboy friend, this was the big fantasy for him and I was like, yeah, it's hot, it's flock. But the more I thought about it, the more I thought about realistically, in real fucking life. These are human beings that we're talking about. These are relationships that we're talking about. This is kind of.

Speaker 2: 41:31

It would definitely and ultimately have to be, you know, the perfect harmony. It would have to be a great situation all the way around the board, because it's not even as a bull that would breed. You wouldn't even just breed anybody that you're playing with. It would still be even selective out of those people.

Speaker 1: 41:55

It would have to be, because there's even like legal ramifications to this. Even if everything is agreed upon on the day, of shit could change a year later, five years later, 10 years later and shit hit the fan. And it's complicated as fuck.

Speaker 2: 42:14

I'd be scared of that. You've seen that movie. You've seen that movie foam with Dick and Jane.

Speaker 1: 42:19

No, okay.

Speaker 2: 42:22

So that's your homework assignment now. Oh, dang, I want you to go watch foam with Dick and Jane, and then we'll talk later. You let me know what you think about that. There's gonna be a certain part that you are gonna get a kick out of because of this conversation.

Speaker 1: 42:36

Okay. Okay, you know what we can talk about that when we see each other next, for sure. Okay, let's talk about boundaries. This is the last question I have for you until we talk about your ONLYS fans. That's what I'm really excited about. But as far as boundaries, do you go into situations with new couples with your own preset boundaries, or is this something that you kind of are more flexible with going into?

Speaker 2: 43:08

I definitely go into every situation with my own boundaries. Okay, and so I guess one of them would be like Well, I mean, it's like this like, as far as just a baseline, a bottom line, a straight male. So you know, it's like anything outside of that we can talk about. You know, just don't talk to be about no guy on guy.

Speaker 1: 43:32

Yeah.

Speaker 2: 43:32

You know what I?

Speaker 1: 43:33

mean what about? Like the humiliation or the teasing of the cuck.

Speaker 2: 43:40

I'm open to that. That's not something that I naturally do. Obviously, when I'm meeting with couples, my focus is on the woman. So asking me to, you know, give attention to the male counterpart besides just a normal conversation, pre-sex or post-sex is a little different for me. I just, like I said, when I'm having sex I'll be in my zone. So if that's something like that has to be, you definitely have to ask me ahead of time to do it, so I could be like okay, yeah, I got you, so it's something that I'll do, but it's not something that I do naturally. Right, right, right.

Speaker 1: 44:25

I imagine that was an evolution because, like it sounds like, the very beginning was a bit harsh, like that first one.

Speaker 2: 44:32

Oh, yeah, yeah, exactly To go from that first time to oh, now you want me to talk to him? Yeah, yeah, while I'm talking to you.

Speaker 1: 44:43

Yeah, I totally understand how awkward that would feel, especially like you say it doesn't come naturally. That's how I felt too as a woman in the beginning. I was like you want me to tell you your dick is tiny Like what. I don't understand.

Speaker 2: 44:56

I'm like. You already know that.

Speaker 1: 44:57

Yeah, you want me to tell you.

Speaker 2: 45:00

I don't need to tell you, I can show you right here. You see how big mine is. That tells you how little yours is.

Speaker 1: 45:07

Okay, wait, before we talk about your only fans, I want to talk about that size queen stuff. Like, obviously you are like I think size queens are your women, correct?

Speaker 2: 45:20

Correct.

Speaker 1: 45:22

Okay, so do you mention that to women beforehand? Do they know this beforehand? Is this something that you talk about? Or have there been some times where she's like she takes one look at your dick and she's like, oh my God, you're going to split me in half?

Speaker 2: 45:37

Yes, I've had women that say exactly that. I've had women that were ecstatic and so excited about it and I've had women that were terrified. I've had women that seen like a picture and they decided that they didn't want to have sex anymore. They decided no thanks, I'm cool, I don't need my insides rearranged, I like them the way they are. I'll pass on that, sarah, thank you. And that sucks, and so that is another gift in the curse is having I'm not going to say having a big dick, but maybe a big, so big, and my dick's not like gigantic or nothing, but it definitely scares some women off.

Speaker 1: 46:25

Yeah, so your dick is perfect for a size screen. That's all I'm going to say, and I know this because you sent me the most amazing epic heavy dick flop video.

Speaker 2: 46:41

There we go.

Speaker 1: 46:42

I was like jaw hit the floor. I was like, oh my God. And for those of you listening and if you've listened to my videos where I have reviewed people's favorite cuck porn or BBC porn videos, the dick flop is like one of my all time favorite fucking things, like an impressive dick flop is truly something beautiful.

Speaker 2: 47:10

I'll send you a helicopter video next. Oh damn.

Speaker 1: 47:14

I that video. I was like holy shit. So I can totally understand how a woman would see that video and be like a small pussy woman. Right, she would be.

Speaker 2: 47:28

Keestat, a small pussy woman.

Speaker 1: 47:29

Small pussy woman as big pussy women. We're like, oh, this is good.

Speaker 2: 47:33

Exactly the small pussy woman. You get excited. I could fill you up.

Speaker 1: 47:37

Yeah, I can see how they would be like scared, that that would be like kind of terrifying. But yeah, that would suck if you were, you know, feeling great about this chick and she was like no, I don't like that's too big.

Speaker 2: 47:54

Well, I'm in, especially in a situation where you might be her first bull Right and all she's dealt with is her micro dick cut.

Speaker 1: 48:05

Yeah.

Speaker 2: 48:06

There's a big difference. It's like fuck, no, get a thing away from me. I know I'm saying that shit's fucking huge no.

Speaker 1: 48:12

Yeah.

Speaker 2: 48:13

It's going to hurt me.

Speaker 1: 48:14

Yeah, that's what she would think it would be like. I don't know if that would even fit in me Exactly.

Speaker 2: 48:19

That's what they say and I'm like listen. There's only one way to find out.

Speaker 1: 48:25

Blossom loom, blossom loom, exactly.

Speaker 2: 48:29

There's lives. We got lots of loom. We're good to go.

Speaker 1: 48:31

Take your time.

Speaker 2: 48:32

I know how to work it. I ain't in a rush. We got all night.

Speaker 1: 48:35

This is a skill the warming up the woman to be able to fit in her. This is a skill that big dick guys have. This is a skill that little dick guys are so jealous of. They're like I've never had to warm a woman up to fit in her.

Speaker 2: 48:53

Well, stay OK. So here's they have a different type of experience, which kind of puts us both in the same position. Big dick guys, we I have to do foreplay. I enjoy foreplay because that's part of soothing her and getting her ready for what's to come Loop and everything up, make sure everything's nice and wet, make it sloppy, nice and smooth. You know what I mean. So we just slide it. So we have to do the foreplay thing because of for that reason, even though I do it anyway and they have to do it because, like I said, they're diggaming too strong, so they got to eat the fuck out of the pussy, because that's what they have to focus on.

Speaker 1: 49:42

Yeah, they have to work on outer course.

Speaker 2: 49:44

Mm-hmm, exactly yeah.

Speaker 1: 49:47

That's a good one.

Speaker 2: 49:48

I like that.

Speaker 1: 49:51

Whereas you yeah, you have to focus on that in the beginning, but you're gonna get it all.

Speaker 2: 49:58

Well, hopefully, hopefully, yeah, hopefully, Okay. So, and whenever they say whenever they can't take it all, I just tell them they can save the rest for later.

Speaker 1: 50:07

Oh, that's hot. That's hot. Okay, you can save the rest for later. Okay, do you get? Okay? So wait, real question here. I don't do anal cause like that shit hurts and I don't like, I don't wanna be in pain, but I did have a guy with a really really you might like it if I did anal with you.

Speaker 2: 50:25

I do. You might like it. Maybe I don't know. Yeah, we'll see. We'll see.

Speaker 1: 50:30

So I had a guy with a huge dick and he like slipped out of my pussy and like went in my ass like all in like a split second and I almost died. Like I almost died. I was like bury me in the ground. Right now I'm dead. Like that hurt, like a bitch.

Speaker 2: 50:46

That's definitely not the way that it's supposed to happen. That's not the way I plan on going in there. I'm not going in there like that.

Speaker 1: 50:52

It was traumatizing.

Speaker 2: 50:54

I could imagine.

Speaker 1: 50:56

But I don't really I'm not into like the anal stuff, although I like anal play.

Speaker 2: 51:00

Like anal play is like fun yeah see, so you're still just kind of traumatized.

Speaker 1: 51:04

I'm traumatized, but do you?

Speaker 2: 51:05

So, like I said, we'll work that out. You just haven't given another dick the opportunity to feel good in your ass.

Speaker 1: 51:12

I don't know, I'm scared, I'm real scared, but do you okay? So for a big dick guy, I'm assuming that women will be even more scared of like you fucking them in the ass like.

Speaker 2: 51:23

Emily, you would think that, but you know what? Some size queens are just size queens all the way around, and some women like literally beg me to fuck them in the ass.

Speaker 1: 51:34

That is so impressive man. That is some superstar level, Like that's awesome.

Speaker 2: 51:40

Honestly, it amazes me, to be honest, like, honestly, one of the last sessions I had that amazed me in that way like she wanted me to fuck her in the ass the whole entire time, all night. So our all night session was anal.

Speaker 1: 52:01

Really.

Speaker 2: 52:03

Yes, oh, wow, and that was a first. I mean, you know, I know some girls, like you know, they love anal, but never for the whole goddamn session and all night.

Speaker 1: 52:13

Oh, she'd need an ice pack on her asshole after that, for sure.

Speaker 2: 52:19

But here's the thing that was my first time playing with her and part of the reason why is because she had been anal trained. So I guess her husband, her ex-husband, had only fucked her in the ass or most of the time, whatever. So she just, I guess, got really used to it and maybe really really enjoyed it obviously. But now that's all. I'm not going to say that's all she wanted, because I did fuck her pussy obviously, but that's what she asked me for was to fuck her in the ass all night.

Speaker 1: 52:47

Wow, that's like, that's amazing. That is impressive. Okay, let's talk about your only fans. So I didn't. I didn't even know you had an only fans until like recently. But then I was like, well, lucky all the women who are watching that only fans.

Speaker 2: 53:07

I do have an, only fans. I should have a lot more content. You know what, if I was to show you all the content in my phone, your mind would be blown. A lot of that stuff I can't post on only fans because some of those women don't have only fans anymore because they got kicked off or whatever the case may be. So that makes it a little frustrating for me, but I promise you guys I'll get the only fans back up poppin' soon. I got so much content. If you send me a DM, I can send you some exclusive shit that I can't post online.

Speaker 1: 53:39

Oh, damn. Okay, it's time to wrap this up. It's been so much fun chatting with you. I know we're gonna chat again.

Speaker 2: 53:49

I know we're gonna see each other and chat again.

Speaker 1: 53:51

So I'm looking forward to that. But where can all of the listeners learn more about your find where you're at?

Speaker 2: 54:00

So much, so many different places. Let's see. Okay, so as far as my only fans, it's only fans at Playboy Savage XO. If you wanna go listen to some of my music, because I'm a music artist as well, you can go look me up on Spotify or iTunes. My music name is Influence. Look up a song called Something Serious or Step, what else?

Speaker 1: 54:24

I really like Step. That's a good one.

Speaker 2: 54:26

What else is?

Speaker 1: 54:28

on the menu Twitter.

Speaker 2: 54:30

Twitter. But Twitter is Playboy Savage XO as well.

Speaker 1: 54:33

Okay.

Speaker 2: 54:34

So that's easy to find. Yeah, I mean pretty much I'm here. I know that I should be a lot more visible, but you know how life goes sometimes you gotta fall back and focus on other things. So that's what I've been doing, but I'm about ready to make my way back to the forefront. So get ready for me. Here I come.

Speaker 1: 54:57

Awesome. So I'm gonna post the links in the show notes for today's show. So if you can't remember what we just said, it's all good, just check the description notes for today's show and it will all be there. Playboy Savage. Thank you so much for being on the show with me.

Speaker 2: 55:14

Thank you, beautiful. This was fun, I enjoyed myself.

Speaker 1: 55:20

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