Hotwife Queen of Spades Brooke Blaze

Ever wondered how a couple navigates the complexities of a cuckolding lifestyle while balancing parenthood and societal judgments? Brooke Blaze, the Hot Wife QOS, along with her supportive husband, pull back the curtain on their extraordinary life, sharing the intimate details of their journey into a world where trust, communication, and sexual empowerment reign supreme. This episode is a candid, revealing look at how one couple's unconventional choices have led to a profound sense of freedom and fulfillment.

Brooke and her husband's encouragement for embracing one's true desires is a rallying cry for authenticity in a world that often demands conformity. Their story is not just about the thrills of the bedroom; it's a testament to the strength of their partnership and a beacon of inspiration for those curious about testing the waters of their own desires.

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Transcript

Speaker 1: 0:00

Here's what's coming up on the Venus Cuckolders podcast.

Speaker 2: 0:06

I'm terrified of losing this, like what we have found in each other, and I was so afraid that if we were to do something like that, it was gonna ruin. You know, this like what people sometimes search a lifetime for. These women don't have kids they gotta take care of, you know, and I do so it's. I just feel like it's a little bit harder for me sometimes to go back and forth, and you know you're constantly with the pressure like, oh, when are you dropping a new video, bro? I'm tired.

Speaker 3: 0:41

I mean as a guy. You know if it's, if there's something that's weighing on your mind. You know something you've been wanting to bring up. Don't let it get to you that you know others might look at you as being weak or you know less of a man or something like that, because it's not. It doesn't change anything about you. You only have one life to live, so all my family and friends know about it hasn't changed me one bit. Still, the same person. They can too.

Speaker 2: 1:11

I get it now, like I fucking get it.

Speaker 1: 1:15

Where would you go?

Speaker 2: 1:16

Black people never go back and I'm not going back. This is the only back I'm going to. They're so sexy for some reason, all of a sudden I'm just like drummers girl To me. They just have a different demeanor about them. They walk in head high, chest out, confident, like I'm about to lay this fucking pipe on this bitch. You get a white dude come in and it's just not. It's not the same vibe.

Speaker 1: 1:54

This is the Venus Cuckolders podcast, a place to learn all things cuckolding for the curious, for the passionate and for the sexually empowered woman who wants it all. Welcome to the show, everyone. I'm Venus, your host. Today I have the hot wife QOS Brooke Blaze and her husband joining the show and, wow, she is really quite the sensational woman and together with her husband, they are seriously blazing their own path in the cuckolding lifestyle and she's hot as fuck too, so very appropriate name. Anyway, they're sharing their story to talk about how they are really making that path uniquely their own, and I'm talking about no shame, no guilt, being out and proud about their lifestyle. It's truly inspiring, it's amazing and I think you're really really gonna love this show. But first I have a really, really, really important announcement. I'm so excited about this, you guys. This is awesome.

Speaker 1: 3:18

So Crystal Welch is back. The woman is back. She's been on a bit of a hiatus for the last year with some personal stuff going on. She is back with her podcast Beyond Monogamy and she's blogging again on Medium and she now has her own, very own space on VenusCuckoldistcom called Crystal's Corner. She's in the Queens Quarters community as well. So if you go to VenusCuckoldistcom, just click on the link that says Crystal's Corner and you can find all the information to connect with Crystal, to see what she's up, to, listen to her podcast and even read her amazing blog posts. Oh yeah, and March 19th, mark your calendar.

Speaker 1: 4:11

Crystal Welch is going to be on GTFO Radio Live with me and that is gonna be at 12 noon. That's 3 pm Eastern time, so make sure you check it out. My link is on VenusCuckoldistcom. Just click on radio or you can go to GTFORadioca. That's it for announcements. Just one today, which is I think this is like the shortest intro in a very long time. So lucky you. We get to jump right into the show with Hot Wife Cuckoldist, queen of Spades, brooke Blades. Here we go ["Bloodline"] Joining me on the show. Today I have a very special guest. I have Brooke Blades. She is a Hot Wife, queen of Spades, cuckoldress, and she's joined by her hubby, mr Blades. So welcome to the show. You guys Say hello to everyone. Hello.

Speaker 2: 5:09

Thanks for having us.

Speaker 1: 5:10

Yeah, so happy to talk to you. So it was one of my listeners who recommended you as a guest for the show. Can't fucking remember who it was, but thank you to whoever it was that recommended you. I had a little look at your Twitter page and you're so beautiful. I love your hair. I just I think you're like you just got this amazing body and everything, great smile and just the full package. So I had a little look at your Twitter page, but other than that, I really don't know much about you guys. So all I know is that there's the title Hot Wife, there's the title Cuckoldress and Queen of Spades in there too, and that your Twitter timeline is pretty hot. There's a lot of material on there and it's a lot of only fans kind of stuff that's on there. So, having known that, I want to know, like Brooke, what is your story Like? How did you get to where you're at today with all of those labels and in this relationship that you're in?

Speaker 2: 6:17

Well, first of all, I still wake up every day and I'm just like what is my life? Because I just never imagined doing all this, but it was never even a thought really. When him and I got together I guess it was it really wasn't long at all, like a couple of months, a few months maybe into our relationship I guess he kind of got the idea and realized that I'm a little dirty, a little freaky, I like to have fun, and so he had brought it up to me about I want you to just want to watch you fuck somebody else Is that how he said it?

Speaker 3: 7:00

I mean, Kind of sort of it starts off with nine times out of 10, it usually starts off with better and talk yeah.

Speaker 2: 7:07

And it kind of progressed from.

Speaker 3: 7:09

There to watching Coco porn on TV and let her kind of zone out into it to see how he is. But that's how it started.

Speaker 2: 7:19

Yes, it was all his idea and it was actually his thing to do the interracial part of it too. And I was just like, first of all, this is a lot of information, slow down so, and I'll be honest, I was very hesitant. I was for a long time and it took months to, I guess, convince me or whatever you want to call it. But my thing was not. It wasn't the interracial cuckold part of it that worried me. It was I had a history of terrible relationship, like terrible, and so when I met him, it was just like it was one of those things where you just knew right away, you just knew immediately like this is my person, like this is who I'm meant to be with, and I'd never had that and I'd never felt that like overwhelming love for somebody and from somebody. And so my thing was really like I'm terrified of losing this, like what we have found in each other, and I was so afraid that if we were to do something like that, it was going to ruin, you know this, like what people sometimes search a lifetime for, I feel like. And so that's the part that took convincing for me for a long time was, you know him, just reassuring me. It's nothing but love, it's nothing but fun, like it's so hot, he's like I'd be so turned on, I would just like it's just, it's wild, all the emotions that like end up happening once you actually do it.

Speaker 2: 9:06

But so, anyways, months go by and I'm like you know what, the more I think about it, I'm like sure, let's try it. And so he found the person like always, you know, just sends me pictures, and I'm like yes or no, you know. And we did it, and I don't think there was a question at the end of it. Yeah, yeah, when we left the hotel, he just had this huge shitty grin on his face and I'm just like why are you fucking staring at me, like what? And he's like I know you want to do that again. And I'm just like stop. And then I was like fuck, yeah, I want to do it again and again and again and again. Like you have created something that can't stop now.

Speaker 3: 9:56

So that's how that started, yeah there's me being me and being a cuck or whatever you want to say. I was over there like yeah, I got a nail.

Speaker 2: 10:06

I got a hook nail.

Speaker 3: 10:08

OK, so I have so many questions about this.

Speaker 1: 10:11

So usually what I've heard from many people is that when the guy brings us up to the wife or girlfriend partner, he says something to the other person and usually it's a shock and like worry and stress and what does this mean? And all of that right, and it usually yeah, it doesn't go well at first. There's very rarely the oh my God, yes, kind of reaction. You know that kind of reaction. What I got from was are you fucking?

Speaker 2: 10:51

kidding me. Yeah, I mean you know, because I was just like I'm not kidding. I didn't say it out loud at the time when it was first brought up, but in my mind I'm like I am so in love with you and you're asking me to do something like this, like you don't love me.

Speaker 2: 11:10

You know, I just I didn't know what to think. So, yeah, I can see how it's like a big shock for and I get that all the time. I get guys message me all the time they're like how can I convince my wife to do this?

Speaker 1: 11:21

Yeah, I firmly believe that 99% of the guys out there bring it up wrong. They don't, they could definitely do better in the way that they bring it up and because let's, let's face it Okay there's usually the three, three most common reactions that women have this is going to be a threat to our relationship. You must not love me, I'm not enough for you, or this is some backdoor way of you sleeping with other women. I know it. There's must be something to this.

Speaker 2: 11:55

What's the catch? I don't know if it's me. All of those are me. Because yeah, because I told them from the gig go, like, if you think that I'm going to do this and then later on down the road you're going to say, hey, I want to fuck other women. Look, put this out there for the world to hear. I don't want to watch my man fuck another woman. I can't handle it. I can't, genuinely, I cannot and I will not. And so I I made it clear from the gig go. I'm like, look, if you think I'm going to do this, and then later on down the road you come to me and I'm like, uh-uh, and then you want to come back and say, well, but I, you know you do that. Don't just miss me with all that bullshit, because it ain't happening. If you're okay with that, we're golden.

Speaker 1: 12:40

So I have questions about your first time. Tell me exactly what that was for my first time Cuckolding. He wasn't there, he was listening on the phone. It was wild. For me, it was fucking really hot. Listening to his reaction was really hot. So what was it like for you, brooke?

Speaker 2: 13:58

So I think I struggled a lot in the beginning, just because I've always been the type that's like I'm not a huge people person, Like I don't just throw myself out there. So the idea of you know he's going to be recording it, he's watching, like I just felt so much pressure and so I had some drinks before I had to us. I was just so nervous I'm like we've never met and it was right in the middle of COVID so we wanted to go to like a hotel bar, get some drinks. You know, chill, get to know each other, talk, feel the vibe and we didn't get that opportunity. So it was either just jump right in or sit in the parking lot with a 40, and I wasn't doing that, so we just had to jump right in. So yeah, it was. It was a nerve wracking, Like for sure. But once we got in there and I got lost in the moment because it's easy to do I just forgot all about it. I look up and I'm like, oh, you're still here.

Speaker 1: 15:02

What did you guys talk about? Like anything around like kind of I don't want to say scripting it, but expectations of what you wanted it to look like. Not really.

Speaker 2: 15:13

We just I think we both just wanted to go into it and just see what happened, like see what naturally just happened, and I think that was the best way to go into it first time because, that alone just made me feel that much more comfortable, not having to worry about, like you know, him saying, well, I want you to do this, I want to see, like, just let me do me, you know, and so that helped a lot. So it really didn't take long for like for it to just, I guess, come natural, yeah, and not thinking about it as like I have all this pressure on me to be a certain way or do a certain thing. I, like you know, and I told him I'm just going to be myself, we're not like you can give suggestions or whatever. And if I think about it in the moment, then fine, if not, it's just going to be what it's going to be, yeah, and that's it. And we're still like that?

Speaker 3: 16:12

Yeah, you know we don't like script nothing. You know it's still a date, you know, because even what she's talking about, that's before we got into content stuff. We didn't know about. We didn't know about OnlyFans and all this stuff. You know, we heard about it, but you know, we thought it was just a place where chicks went and sold feet, picks or something.

Speaker 3: 16:29

Yeah, I didn't even know what it was, so we were just doing our thing and people kept telling us, oh, you ought to make OnlyFans, you ought to do this. And we were like I don't know, you know, I don't know.

Speaker 2: 16:38

And all the recording in the beginning was honestly just for him to beat off to yeah, I mean really yeah. And then we just kept like I had kept seeing this girl on my Instagram talk about her OnlyFans and you know, if you want to see more of this, check my OnlyFans. And I'm like what is OnlyFans? Like I had no idea. And then we checked it out and he's like you want to post some of our stuff? Fuck, no, I don't. Are you kidding me? Like I hate every inch of my body. I am not posting just to be humiliated. No, we can keep this fun between ourselves and just live life. And that was that for a little while. And then other people kept mentioning OnlyFans and you know other sides and I'm just like there's just no way. It took a lot of convincing too for me to do that just because.

Speaker 2: 17:32

I am a mom, I've got two kids, you know been through it. So I got mom bod, you know, of course, and so I was just afraid of like the humiliation. I didn't want to just be ridiculed online and it was the complete opposite. I'm still surprised to this day. I'm like I don't get it. I don't know why guys like that, you know, and I even get messages that I'm like, oh my God, your stretch marks are so sexy, and I'm just like, okay, I'm like I'm cool, but you know so I love the fact that women are fucking killing it on only fans like yeah, I'm fucking loving it.

Speaker 2: 18:16

I think it's amazing. I'm great, everybody on my girl. I'm making only fans, yeah.

Speaker 1: 18:21

There's something that I've always worried about only fans is that, like when you start it even if you started just for fun to post stuff I would worry that eventually I would feel so like pressure to be on that hamster wheel of producing content and you know these people, you know all of these requests and all of this time and effort that you're putting into it and it start to feel like a job no, not as fun anymore. Has it been like that for you?

Speaker 2: 18:49

Absolutely it has been like that for me yeah.

Speaker 1: 18:52

Yeah.

Speaker 3: 18:52

Hard and poor.

Speaker 2: 18:54

Like you, I could not have said it better myself it does get very overwhelming. Yeah, because, again, like you know, we started this just for it to be between us, you know, and then it just escalated and then we started posting and I was like we ain't going to get nobody subscribed on here, like just whatever. And then from one, from the first month to the next, shit just fucking blew up, like I just I'm still shocked at how fast the attention came, like I don't know. And so, yeah, it does, it gets very overwhelming, like I can't miss one day of getting on there and checking, you know, messages and things, because it just it'll get so much that you just can't even catch up. Wow, but you know, I do get a lot of like customer requests and you know things like that, but I just don't have time to do it.

Speaker 2: 19:57

I just don't Like. I'm a mom, I've got a house full of teenagers, I've got pit bulls run a while that I'm chasing. I got nephews that, like you know, I'm the aunt, I'm the person in my family, so it's like anybody needs me, like my phone's ringing because they know I will be there, like I'm just, I'm the big sister, I'm everything, and so our lives, just in general, is so chaotic and so busy and so, yeah, it's. It's very difficult to balance that.

Speaker 3: 20:30

You know, connecting with fans and just it's a lot, because they expect, I mean people. You know some people expect like, like we don't shoot, like we don't shoot porn. I mean I know it's it, I know it's porn, you know pornographic, but like we're not, you know, and everybody's different, but this is the way we are, you know it's. It's still a date. She still only fucks when she's horny. You know she doesn't fuck just because, oh shit, you know we need to pay some bills or something and everybody will shoot Nice when she gets horny, you know.

Speaker 3: 21:03

And I'm not exhausted you know, and you have people that are expecting like video after video after video after video after video and it's like you know we're just normal people, that that like the lifestyle. You know we're not porn stars.

Speaker 2: 21:18

And I don't know like the facts or the stats or whatever, but just from my observation, I feel like a lot of women that do this, but do it like, not professionally, but you know they solely live off of, like, only fans, income or whatever. These women don't have kids they got to take care of, you know, and I do so it's. I just feel like it's a little bit harder for me sometimes to go back and forth, and you know you constantly with the pressure like, oh, when are you? When are you dropping a new video, bro? I'm tired. I've been busy all week, like you know, when I get around to getting some dick, I know.

Speaker 1: 22:00

I have like guys who are. They will say to me like oh, you're going to how many BBCs you're going to fuck this weekend. I'm like, are you kidding me? I have so much laundry to do. I got to go renew my car insurance. I got groceries like I got real life shit happening.

Speaker 2: 22:17

You fixed. You know like stop. I have a life outside of this.

Speaker 1: 22:23

Yeah.

Speaker 2: 22:23

Yeah, I do feel like I do feel like a lot of people, not that they come off like they're being ugly to me, but maybe a little bit of aggression as far as, like them, them asking why you ignoring me, why are you not answering my messages, and I'm just like, look, I really have been so busy. I'm doing the best I can and I do I really do because I enjoy connecting with you know, the fans and talking to them, answering questions and being present, you know. But, yeah, people can be pretty demanding, like at your throat, like if you don't put your pussy on this internet right now.

Speaker 1: 23:07

I'm going to be mad, basically, you know so, as far as like discretion goes, like for me to make that decision to go from like veiling my face to putting my face out there, that was took a lot of consideration because I'm scared of, like stalkers I've been there, had that and not fun. Don't like that idea again. People out to like harass you, ruin your life no thanks, like it could do without. And then also just like, do you really want, like your friends and family to know even though mine are no, but like there's those concerns that people usually have, you guys just took the leap and decided to go put your face out there. So how has it been for you, like, do people know what you're up to?

Speaker 2: 23:55

Well, at the beginning, before we started posting online, we had a long conversation about, you know, showing our face and you know all of that, because that was a concern like people finding out, and I mean, really, it just came down to me just saying fuck it. You know, this is my life. Don't nobody pay my bills but me. You know, like I don't answer to anybody and, coming from the family that I come from, I just felt like and let me get vulnerable for a minute but having a preacher for a dad was my biggest concern because growing up I was, I was like this, I mean, attached to my daddy's hip and I was always a daddy's girl and he was my everything and I was very tomboy. I grew up drag racing, street racing, all cars, dirtbites, bmx, there's all the boy things. My daddy wanted sons. So bad knock he got was me here I am.

Speaker 2: 25:07

I'm cute but I can fix your car and so, yeah, that was that was. That was probably the biggest thing was letting my daddy down but then again I was like, if he claims to be the man of God that he is, then he will love me unconditionally, no matter what. And I found out a year, a whole year, after my dad had found out.

Speaker 2: 25:37

I never knew. He knew. Never once did he try to preach to me. He never treated me any different like and yeah, he's the one who come home and told me because he was hanging out with my dad, he's like you know, your daddy knows. I was like what I mean? I was like what do you mean? He's like, yeah, he's known for about a year and I was just like I started bawling and I'm not a crier, I just don't just very rough around the edges type person, but I started crying. I was like everything that I thought of in the beginning before we started, like everything just fell into place, you know, and still to this day, like he's never said anything discouraging about it, never tried to get me to not do it, never preached to me about none of it, you know. And so like now we're good, like we're past.

Speaker 2: 26:40

That I know, he knows, you know the whole family knows and honestly, I personally have not lost a friend, family member, none of that amazing, I do this unfortunately he cannot say that, but you know, I feel like that was a blessing because I do have genuine people in my life that are supportive and do love me, no matter what kind of freaky, crazy shit I'm doing with my life.

Speaker 1: 28:04

Okay, hubby, I have questions for you. You said that you've lost some friends over them finding out.

Speaker 3: 28:11

Yeah it, I mean it first, like our first couple of years, everything seemed okay. You know, I was still talking to the same people I've always talked, you know, my whole life and family members and all that kind of stuff.

Speaker 2: 28:23

But we also do play and it's when they started seeing that, when that stuff started getting out of the internet is when I started having family members and friends, kind of drop off the picture okay, and but to add to that, we're both from, like, the deep south, you know, and that's just not yeah, I'm from a I'm from a real small town.

Speaker 3: 28:49

I'm from one of them, one red like one, red like towns. You know so and you know there's nothing to do but gossip. So when they hear about somebody doing something like that, that everybody knows, you know the whole town finds out.

Speaker 1: 29:07

Okay, this is like a huge fear that cucks have women too, but cucks especially. A huge fear that if anyone were to find out about them having these fantasies or sexual interests, that their world would be over. You seem to like not give a fuck about that. Is that right?

Speaker 2: 29:27

yeah, right but I think we're both just that type of person, just in general. Like to begin with, I just I was, even though he's a preacher. I was raised like that, like don't give a fuck what nobody thinks about you, just do you be happy, live your life, be happy if they're not paying your bills. If they're not, you know doing the things.

Speaker 3: 29:51

Who cares, what they think, who cares, and so that's just always how I've lived and I did tell this to one of the guys that one of my old friends I guess I don't talk to tomorrow, when he started, you know, sending me like little screenshots and stuff you had found on the internet, and I was like I was like yeah.

Speaker 3: 30:11

I was like but you know, we've been friends for 20 years but if you let something that I do in the bedroom like determine our friendship, like they're like, all that meant nothing to you, yeah then, like I guess we're not friends you know because you know. My sexuality or what I do behind doors has nothing to do with me as a person, doesn't change anything.

Speaker 2: 30:32

I'm the same person you know for 20 years yeah, and because he's, he's a very masculine manly man just in general. But then when it comes to bedroom stuff, which I hear is like a big, it's a big thing I guess for men, like if you're a hardcore manly man outside to the rest of the world, like sometimes you want to be a bitch in the bedroom thing, you might not want to drink cuz baby, I'm funny oh my god, I hope you guys are such an inspiration to so many people out there who are just locked in the fucking cut closet and so terrified of ever opening it.

Speaker 1: 31:14

Just crack. I'm like, just live your best life like these folks nothing's changed.

Speaker 3: 31:21

Nothing crazy bad happened, you know, by everybody knowing the end of the day, we're, we still doing a thing, we still sit watch TV, pair of bills, whatever. And you know it's not like a bunch of people stand outside with with with signs saying you know, y'all weirdo, whatever okay, let's talk about the interracial aspect.

Speaker 1: 31:44

You said brookie said that your husband brought it up was it right away that you were like, jumped out at you're like, yeah, yeah, let's do this? Or were you just like, oh, I don't know, I don't know?

Speaker 2: 31:52

I kind of was in the middle like I didn't really know because up until that point believe it or not, shocker for everybody in the world I'd never been with a black guy ever. And it's not like I didn't have anything against it, it's just the relationships I had throughout my life never fell together with, you know, a black guy. And so he was like you mentioned it or whatever, and I was like okay, the longer he fine and and he's packing, then yeah, we could do something and so, eventually, you decided to only have black bulls, is that?

Speaker 2: 32:32

right, I guess after the first, you know the initial day, and then when, when he brought his buddy and I was just like I get it now, like I fucking get it and I'm not going back. This is the only back I'm going to. It's dark meat from here on out, that's it. Like I don't know, I don't know what it is, I guess I don't know. They're so sexy for some reason all of a sudden I'm just like subscribers girl To me they, they just have a different demeanor about them. You know, they walk in Head high, chest out, confidently I'm about to lay this fucking pipe on this bitch. You get a white dude come in and it's just not. I don't have to go into details, you know it's not the same vibe and so that's sexy to me, like that, that confident that you're about to come in and just have your way with me. Yes, sir, please come on. I Don't know, I don't know what it is, but Okay, so how be.

Speaker 1: 33:55

Yeah, how be what you said you have like a fetish. This is your thing for interracial. Has it always been that way and why is that? Why are you, like, so obsessed with interracial?

Speaker 3: 34:07

Oh it. It may have something to do with my upbringing. You know, I've been a little small country town and you know that was just crazy taboo, like that's some herd of rock I'm from, you know, and that might have something with it. And in early on, you know it was VHS. Vhs tapes and magazines.

Speaker 3: 34:28

You know, back then and just seeing like the, the skin contrast and Just like the naughty mist of dirtiness, like you're not supposed to go there and it's, I don't know this, I just I like, I like that, that's what it turned me on. You know, and and and that just stuck with me, you know, until the point where I, you know, when I become an adult and got in first relationship, where you know we actually had a black guy come in and then it just solidified what I thought, you know, because it's hot as fuck. You know, and and then, and then, throughout my swinging days, when I was a full swap swinger, you know, when we were swing with with couples, with white guy, and I can send every white guy, but a lot of the white guys like, just like she said, they just didn't have that, that demeanor to him, that alpha male Company, and I'm gonna fuck your brains out. You know we're goofy and shit like that and and.

Speaker 2: 35:26

Let me add to that real quick. Actually, another thing is like I mean, isn't part of the point of, like, the whole cook thing for me to be with a man that's bigger than you, you know, and he's not small. So it's like I'm not gonna find a white man? I mean I will, but I'm not gonna go through them all, find somebody that's Bigger than he is to like satisfy me or whatever. When, quite a bit, I'd say like 95% of black guys, you know they're home, yeah, so that's, that's another thing for me. It's like I don't want to bring some white guy that's the same size of him. Though, what's the point? Yeah, I thought what is the point? What am I getting out of this? I could go home and fuck you if I wanted. That Sounded ugly.

Speaker 3: 36:16

But no, as far as interracial goes, I mean that's, I guess you know that's how it kind of stemmed, you know, from there, and then, Once I finally did it went through with it. You know it was like, yeah, that's as hot as I thought it would be you know, and so, brook, do you you have?

Speaker 1: 36:32

you consider yourself a queen of spades. Do you ever sleep with white guys? No, okay. Do you have sex with your husband? Yeah, okay. Do you have a queen of spades tattoo? I do. I thought I saw one. It's on your ankle right. Yeah, it's beautiful, I love it. I have the same one Um the same place, but mine doesn't have the little crown on top. I like that touch. It's very, very nice.

Speaker 2: 36:56

Are you planning?

Speaker 1: 36:57

on getting any other tattoos that are queen of spades related Maybe.

Speaker 2: 37:01

I want to be like Full sleeved up, so I'm sure I'll add a few. Feel a little something in there, yeah.

Speaker 1: 37:10

Um, okay. So, hubby, you said you are bisexual, correct Okay?

Speaker 3: 37:15

and I never brought it up. I guess I said I never brought it up until her. Okay, I never brought it up. So all of my past relationships I just didn't bother with it.

Speaker 2: 37:27

You know, yeah, Was it because I was so open?

Speaker 3: 37:31

and yeah, it's because she was open. And then, you know, you got so many people messaging about oh man, you don't get your husband to do this, Y'all are gonna do this. And I was kind of like you know, I'm I'm game for you know. You know I'm cool with it. You know, if you want, if you want to try it, and uh, and that's how it kind of came out. You know, we had our first little bi experience and and I was like so would you think about it? You know, and and that's that star, that's that came up, you know.

Speaker 1: 37:58

Yeah, it's so great to have you on the show to talk about it because, like, it's something that I don't want to say, like a lot of couples participate in, but it is the thing within the lifestyle, obviously, and um, and, but getting guys to talk about it has been like crickets, you know so. So I'm glad to have you on to at least talk about a little bit about it. So, um, what, like, what kinds of things have you done with bulls, and what do you enjoy most with bulls? Is it like the forced by aspect, that you dynamic that you guys are into, or is it just like a sharing experience kind of thing?

Speaker 3: 38:37

um, I'll Like when we're like, when we play with somebody it kind of depends on the vibe, on that date because I kind of like both, I kind of like being, you know, like I said, like in all aspects of life, like um, um, alpha is alpha, ish, whatever you call it alpha. But then in the bedroom it's hot, this, you know, this bull telling me to get that on my knees and do this and that, and I'm like it turns me on.

Speaker 3: 39:04

But then there's other times where it's more just sensual, where I just it's not, uh, it's not about humiliation and it depends on the bull also.

Speaker 2: 39:13

Yeah, because you just have different vibes and different like chemistry and connection with each different one.

Speaker 3: 39:19

You know, so it does um, and my thing is more of a Uh, I guess a oral fetish, whatever, like I don't, okay, I don't know. Like as far as like kissing a guy, like I like I like, when I like soft women, you know when it comes to that, but you know, uh, oh, that's interesting.

Speaker 1: 39:41

Yeah, it's also very difficult for me to find uh bulls that want to talk about um being bi in the dynamic.

Speaker 3: 39:47

So yeah, I understand Okay.

Speaker 1: 39:52

It's my hope that people become more comfortable and open about enjoying that dynamic and it not be so.

Speaker 3: 40:00

If a girl's bi, oh me and love that. But if a guy is, oh, you know it's.

Speaker 1: 40:07

That's why I think the swingers community is hilarious, because it's it's like. It's like. Bisexual women are just fucking amazing, but you never hear fucking thing about bisexual guys.

Speaker 2: 40:19

And I will say at first, like the thought of it at first, I was just like I don't know, I don't want to see, I don't think I want to see you do shit like that, you know. But then I started thinking about it just Myself. I didn't talk to him about it, I just it just kept popping up into my head and I'm like why am I having these thoughts like what is the problem? And I just chalked it up to okay, I guess I want to see my man do shit like this. And so I said let's do it, but baby steps, yeah, like I need baby steps.

Speaker 2: 40:51

I don't care what you can go in there and what you're capable of doing right off the bat, but you can't overwhelm me with that whole visual. Like let's just take it slow. And I love that we've done that. Yeah, because not only do I feel like it shows like the progress in the journey, but it's helped me become more than just comfortable with it. Like I eat that shit up. I think it's so fucking hot and I never thought I would like something like that. And here I am, just like it just drives me crazy, and so I feel like a lot of women Maybe like that too. You know like they think about it and they're like fuck no, I don't want to see my man suck a dick like they're kidding me. But now I'm just like Suck it, baby, get it.

Speaker 3: 41:42

I'm like.

Speaker 2: 41:44

I'm gonna take a break and go to the bathroom. You keep doing your thing. I come out and you just yes, yes, you doing great.

Speaker 1: 41:54

I felt the same way about pegging. I never thought I would like it, and then I tried it and I'm like oh my god, that's missing out this whole time.

Speaker 2: 42:04

I will say I still feel kind of weird all strapped up because I'm like I probably look like a fool, but you know what, fuck it, I actually suck the wheel because that's what I'm doing.

Speaker 1: 42:16

Yeah, Well, it really does feel weird standing there with this thing hanging around in your head. What I know.

Speaker 2: 42:24

That's the weird part. I'm like this thing is supposed to be hanging off of me in it.

Speaker 1: 42:28

Yeah, but it's fine. Yeah, it really is fun. It's that power thing, it's just yeah, and it's very intimate. And guys like they, when they get fucked, like they make such like these sexy, as hot as fuck noises that they don't normally make when they're fucking you. Yeah, so I just love it so much. I think it's just like yes, please. One last thing I wanted to ask you guys about and this is really important because this is a big fear for a lot of guys and couples who are, you know, not quite sure if they want to do this and it's whether or not you have romantic feelings for bulls. And if, like, do you guys, have you had discussions about the rules and boundaries and limits around that? Is that a thing for you guys? Is it a possibility, the whole kind of having, you know, falling in love with your bull? How has that been with you guys? For?

Speaker 2: 43:26

me. I went into this knowing that we had a rock solid foundation and, like he said before, like when I was younger, I guess, just the way I was raised, that attitude that I took on and being very tomboy, it was so easy for me to be one of the guys because no female does stuff like that Like I never had girlfriends that wanted to go to the track, go ride dirt bikes, go. You know, women don't, girls don't want to do that shit. I did that's, that was my life, and so it was so easy for me to just if one of my guy friends, you know, needed to nut, fine, let's fuck. I mean, it's funny to you, but it's easy for me to talk about because that's just how I am. I've just always been able to separate that. So I was able to, you know, get your rocks off and mine and let's go ride our dirt bikes or let's go racing or you know whatever, and there was never, like Florida or you know, no suspicions. Like it was just naturally really easy for me to separate that and so it just followed over into this and, like I told him from the get go, you don't have to worry about that with me. Like I know that for a fact ahead of time and to this day I have never caught feelings or anything like that with a bull.

Speaker 2: 44:49

Do I have strong connections with some of them? Fuck, yeah, I do, and that it's. It's evident, you know. It's evident in the, in the videos, like it's very passionate and intimate and and all these things. But as far as like the love part of it or fallen for a bull, I could never, because my heart is here, like 1000% here, and so I just feel like I just feel really lucky that I'm able to do that and still have the fun that we have, because it's not jeopardized any part of our relationship at all. It's just been so easy to take this journey, just effortless. And I know it's not like that for a lot of people. I get that and I hate that it's not. But yeah, for us that's never been an issue. But there's some that I'm like hey, you need to call someone so because I need some you know, but she definitely has her favorites.

Speaker 2: 45:49

It's not like, oh, I miss him and I like I want to just spend time with him. It's never been anything like that. Okay, but I love that yeah.

Speaker 1: 45:59

What do you mean?

Speaker 3: 46:00

The uh. When I can tell that she's like uh, like it almost looked, like it almost looks like she's damn near fixed to say I love you. Like like she's so into it and just lost in a moment and doesn't even know I'm there, rather than like like somebody's just shooting a porn. You know I'm saying trying to do all your different positions and all this kind of stuff and you can tell there's like really no chemistry there, like I can't, really, I can't, I can't jack off to that, I can't get into that. I like it when she, I like it when she's I mean she's into it. You know, when she's really really into it, like that's, that's what I, that's what I love, that's, that's, that's my best material.

Speaker 2: 46:47

And you love that I'm able to to separate that.

Speaker 1: 46:51

Yeah so yeah, he was getting right excited, he gets really animated.

Speaker 2: 46:56

Sometimes you gotta calm down, but I love it.

Speaker 1: 47:06

Um and so, Brooke, what is like? What do you find is, are the best characteristics of a ball? Your size, queen. I'm assuming you were talking about size is important to you. Black eye for sure. What else is it that that really does it for you?

Speaker 2: 47:23

Honestly, to me it's just like it's, it's the chemistry, because everything that I do I refuse to do anything scripted. There's times when we'll be like driving to a hotel and he's like it'd be cool if y'all would do that, and I'm just uh-uh, just shut up, don't put ideas in my head. I will say that I'm like I just want to go and be myself, like just let me have fun, and so I've just I don't know, I've just been able to just go in and just be natural, and the ones that can follow that and go along with me and just completely forget that anybody else is around, any cameras, whatever is in the room. If I can find somebody that can get on that level with me, that intimacy level, that passion level, that's fucking it. I will explode Like it's the passionate kiss in and like touching on just just all the passion is what does it for me.

Speaker 2: 48:30

So and that that's not for everybody. I know a lot of women that are like, oh, just fucking pound the shit out of me. No, please, don't like give me the passion. That's what turns me on the most. And a good kisser, my God.

Speaker 2: 48:44

If you don't like a good kisser. It's over with.

Speaker 1: 48:50

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Speaker 2: 49:14

I'm simple, so this may sound dumb to some, but I just love looking over, whether he's jacking off or not, and just seeing just even in his face. You can see in his eyes just how turned on he is by me just doing my thing and being myself. That part drives me nuts. I've watched some of your episodes and I've listened to other girls talk about it and I, like some women, don't want their husband there at all. To me that probably will never happen, because that's a big part of it for me is I get to look over and see that and that shit excites the fuck out of me. I don't know why, but just to see how excited he is just drives me crazy. That's what I have to have.

Speaker 1: 50:12

What about you, Mr Blaze?

Speaker 3: 50:17

The kind of same thing. Looking over, and I can tell by the look on her face and her actions if she's really into the bull or it's like okay, it's mediocre or whatever. But when I can see that her toes are curled up and she's lost in a moment into it, like yeah, that's it for me, that's because that's what I want for I want her to have everything.

Speaker 2: 50:51

Can I add to that from our last date Sure what part. Our last date, on the way home he said something to me about. He looked over and from his point of view he said it was almost like I was just completely somewhere else. He could just tell that I was in the zone. I didn't care about him, cameras, nobody. He said. I was like, did that upset you? He's like fuck, no, he's so horny to see you over there just in your moment, as if I'm not even there. Fuck, yeah, that was hot. I was like okay, that's all I wanted to add.

Speaker 1: 51:46

Oh, I love that so much. It has been so great to get to know you guys. I love you guys so much. I think that you're going to be such an inspiration to so many people out there. Before we go, I just want to ask you to let our listeners know where can they find you more information about you, your OnlyFans and all of that sort of stuff.

Speaker 2: 52:14

Well who got our OnlyFans. Most of our story is pinned on my OnlyFans, apart from a few details. Twitter.

Speaker 3: 52:28

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Speaker 2: 53:05

Yeah, I noticed. Yeah, we'll get lost in it real quick yeah.

Speaker 1: 53:09

Well, carry the way. I will have all of those links posted on the show notes for today. Do you have any last words you would like to say before we say?

Speaker 2: 53:22

goodbye. Just like you said, I hope that it does inspire other people, because it's really not as scary as it seems. You know Everybody asks me all the time how do I get my wife to do it? Just be gentle, you know you got to approach it gently. It's a hard subject to talk about, but when you break it down and you take baby steps, it can be the best time of your fucking life, you know. So don't be, don't be scared, just you know. Let your guard down, take that leap of faith and if you really want to do it, you know, and just just see what it's about. It's not as scary as people think. So I hope to be an inspiration for other women, because, just like other women, I was scared to death too. Yeah, but here I am. Love women.

Speaker 1: 54:13

What about you, Mr Blaze?

Speaker 3: 54:16

I mean as a guy, you know if it's, if it's something that's weighing on your mind, you know something you've been wanting to bring up. Don't don't let the you know. Don't let don't let it get to you that you know others might look at you as being weak or you know less of a man, or something like that. Because it's not. It doesn't change anything about you. You know it's, it's, it's fun, it's. You only have one life to live, so go ahead and take that chance. Yeah.

Speaker 2: 54:44

It's okay to be a different version of yourself in the bedroom.

Speaker 1: 54:47

Yeah, my word.

Speaker 2: 54:49

It's okay.

Speaker 3: 54:50

I mean the whole, I mean all my family and friends know about it hasn't changed me one bit. Still the same person. They can too.

Speaker 1: 55:00

Oh, I love that so much. You guys, yay. I think that's such a great message and I really hope that lots of people hear it and lots of people are inspired by that. I just think it's amazing what you guys have done together, but in the way that you've done, it has been just awesome, so it's been such a pleasure to have you on the show. Hey, thanks, thank you. Thanks for joining us, thanks for joining me today. Make sure you go to venuscuckledrisscom. That's where you can book a private chat with me, you can check out any cuckolding events that might be happening, and you can even ask a question for the show, as well as, of course, join the Queens Quarters fan club and get all the benefits for that. You can also follow me on Instagram, the Venus Cuckledriss podcast. I haven't been banned there while I have, but not recently. You can also follow me on Twitter or whatever the fuck you want to call it. My handle is at cuckoldrissv. That's it for today. We'll see you next time, thank you.