The Venus Cuckoldress Podcast

Venus's BBC Confessional: Origins of a Queen of Spades

• Venus • Season 4 • Episode 11

WARNING: This episode is so hot that listening in public might be...awkward! 🔥

If you have a deep desire for interracial cuckolding and enjoy the overwhelming allure of BBC, this is the episode for you. Venus kneels at the BBC altar for QoS worship as she recalls her origin stories about her interracial journey and the experiences along the way.

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Taboo Sex Podcast with Venus & Dr. David Ley: audio https://episodes.fm/1533606473/episode/YzY3YTBkYmEtZDRjZS00N2FmLThlNGMtYWY2MTM0MTI4OWY2 and the video https://youtu.be/n5a1mdta2i8?si=THWjBDm84UuSF8uJ

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Speaker 1:

This is the Venus Cuckoldress podcast, a place to learn all things cuckolding for the curious, for the passionate and for the sexually empowered woman who wants it all. Let's go. Welcome to the show everyone. I'm your host, venus. Today's show is hot so hot, in fact, that I need to issue a warning.

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If you are listening to this, you're a white guy and you're walking down the street in public and you really really turned on by interracial, then listening to this in a public space might be a little awkward, Although that could be a little fun too, but I'm just putting it out there. I had a lot of fun talking about my BBC origin stories confessional in this episode. So I have a feeling it might be slightly fun to listen to for a lot of guys out there. So I'm just putting it might be slightly fun to listen to for a lot of guys out there, so I'm just putting it out there right now. You might want some privacy when you're listening to this one. So this was originally recorded in one of my new Queens Quarters live chats that I've been doing. So the Queens Quarters community there's limited free access. If you want to just sign up and get access to certain things, you can and if you support the show by being a Friends with Benefits tier supporter or a Helpful Cuck supporter. Thank you to those of you who do. You're the reason why I'm able to do this for a living. If you subscribe to those tiers, then you get extra access to all sorts of goodies in the Queens Quarters. I'll post a link to the Queens Quarters free access in the show notes for today. There is going to be an interracial discussion, just like this one today, every single month, so make sure you check that out. But this is where this was recorded. I shared my origin stories around interracial cuckolding and also took some questions from some of the audience people that were there for the event. But first, before we get started, I have a couple of announcements. This one was so cool.

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Okay, so I've been on a lot of other podcasts lately as a guest and this one was definitely one of my favorites and it's called the Taboo Science Podcast. You probably heard of it because it's a massive show and they have such great topics. But I was a guest on their show as well as Dr David Lay, who has been on this show many times, and him and I were discussing cuckolding and he talked a lot about the research part of it and the psychology behind it, and that, to me, is always so fascinating. I shared my stories about what it's been like for me and what my perspective is for cuckolding. The whole show was put together so well. Okay, so she's gone and provided some commentary around cuckolding and then she adds in bits from Dr David Lay and bits from myself and kind of put it all together in this really amazingly well done show. So there's the audio podcast version, which is great, but I highly recommend her YouTube video. So that is just. The production value is like amazing, and you know I love this shit. So she did a really, really good job with it. I highly recommend you watch this video Super informative. So if you have anybody who wants to learn about cuckolding or is fascinated by psychology, run it, like this is the episode for you to listen to. So it is called the Taboo Science Podcast, and the link is in the show notes for today.

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My second announcement is that I'm going to be off on medical leave for a couple of weeks, the first two weeks of June, and I will be back, though, for the next live Pillow Talk event. That will be Tuesday, june 18th live on Crowdcast with my special guest, confident Cuck. It's going to be at 12 pm Pacific time, that is 3 pm Eastern. So just go to venuscuckledresscom, click on the events page and you'll be able to register for that. That'll be live on Crowdcast June 18th.

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All right, now it's time to jump in to this special Venus Confessions episode. When we jump in, it's going to be me talking all about my love, affection and sexual preference for beautiful black men and interracial cuckolding. Here we go. To date, my biggest, most popular, most downloaded episode of all time is episode number six, when she Goes Black. That was the very first episode I ever did on the podcast about my love and affection for my sexual preference for black men, and if that tells you something about black guys and the sexual allure of black men, then you'll understand it's a big topic. So I talked about kind of like my backstory on how it was that I came to realize that I really, really enjoy sexual encounters with black men for the most part, and so I'm just going to talk a little bit about that to start out. This is a big thing, with not just women who enjoy black men sexually but, like white guys, have a real fucking infatuation with it and I think that that's awesome, but it is a real thing. Um, I'm going to go back to my early days and, um talk about what that was like for me. So I'm pretty sure I talked about this at some point on the podcast. I'm pretty sure I did, but I don't remember when that was.

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So when I was in high school, I think I was in grade 10. Yeah, it must have been around grade 10. Grade 10. Yeah, it must have been around grade 10. I lived in a predominantly white city, like there were hardly any black guys. Anyway, I was out with my friends and we went to this like house party and I had this boyfriend at the time who was really funny. He was hilarious Actually, he had such a great sense of humor, he was so funny. His name was Brian and he was kind of this kind of like kind of skinny, kind of tall, skinny guy I don't want to say awkward because he wasn't, but he was just like not usually my type of guy that I would date, but he was so funny. So I think I've been dating him for like maybe two weeks or something like that.

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Anyway, he came with me and my friends to this house party. I'd never been to this house before it was packed, I mean, it was like packed full of teenagers and the guy who owned the house I don't know how old he was, but anyway he was this black guy and he hosted these parties, I guess every once in a while, my first time being there and we were, of course, course we were all drinking and stuff like that and at some point I don't really remember how it happened, but at some point the black guy that owns the house, I ended up with him in like the downstairs basement and we were having sex. Like my boyfriend was Brian, was upstairs and didn't know, obviously, what was going on, and I don't remember the sex being really great, but I do remember, like when we finished, I remember walking upstairs and my boyfriend was like Brian was like where have you been? I've been looking for you all over the place and everything, and I was just like, totally looked like I had just had sex. Anyway, I don't remember a lot of the details after that, but I do remember thinking like, oh my god, it was so close, I almost got caught. I think I cheated on pretty much every guy in high school and I did. I definitely did cheat on every guy in high school, but that was a funny one. I think that was my first black guy that I had sex with. It probably was like I don't know. I fucked a lot of guys so I don't really remember, but, um, that one was memorable because I almost got caught and I think that the black guy had a girlfriend too, if I remember correctly. But anyway, we were just up to no good. Brian was none the wiser. He had no idea what happened. Why is your hair disheveled? Yeah, so it was just a funny story. I almost got caught.

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I know I dated another black guy and he was like super hot and everything, but I really don't remember if I fucked him. That was like I was quite young. I really don't remember if I fucked him. That was like I was quite young. Anyway, when I was in my early 30s, I went to a swingers club. This is funny I went to a swingers club. No, I went to. Yeah, it was a sex party. Basically it was not a club. Well, it sort of was they hosted parties, they would like run out of Airbnb and like host a party, sort of was they? They hosted parties, they would like run out of airbnb and like host a party anyway.

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Um, I went with my girlfriend and we we were just hanging out having some drinks. There was it was all couples there, it was all white couples there and then all of a sudden, all of a sudden, walked in this fucking beautiful black guy and his wife, and she was beautiful too and I was just like, immediately, both me and my girlfriend were like, looking, we're like hello, who are you? And then, um, at some point I came up to him and initiated some conversation throughout the night and, like I don't really remember a lot Cause I know I've been drinking that night, but it was a lot of fun that night, it was a lot of fun. Anyway, I came up to him and I talked to him and I was like, hey, like I'd be really hot, like to hook up with you. Anyway, we didn't hook up together that night, but I do remember him telling me that that was the first no, I don't know if it was the first time but that it was uncommon for him to get approached at parties. And I was like, really why? And I don't remember what he said, but it was something to the effect of, like you know, people just are intimidated for some reason and I was like, huh, interesting. So anyway, he's hot as fuck, he's from Jamaica and his wife is from Trinidad and they were just beautiful couple and just gorgeous Anyway. So I got his contact information and him and I met up several times after that and they were a swingers couple but they played separately. And so he just came over to my house like a few times and, damn, we had some fun together, like it was great. So I really really enjoyed the chemistry that we had, like we had fun.

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And I remember like at some point, like his wife was not really enjoying the fact that I guess we were having so much like really good chemistry in the back in the bedroom. I think she was getting a little upset by it. But, um, so anyway, she started getting jealous and then she was like no, you can't hang out with her anymore. And he told me and I was like, damn, it really, like that sucks, but that that's okay. And then at some point, like months later, he said, okay, well, I have, I have permission to come and see you again. And I was like, sweet, come on over. And so he did, and he stayed for several hours and we just had some really really great sex. And, um, I guess he got home quite late. Anyway, that was the last straw. She was pissed. So after that, uh, he was like I can't see you anymore. I'm like fuck my life. So anyway, um, I was kind of bummed about that.

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And then it was like a few months after that that I met my first cuck boyfriend and not long after that that he was like why don't you look for black guys? And I was like, yes, like I have had great experiences, like, yes, I would love to. And so it really didn't take any convincing for me to do that. And I was like I really actually just wanted to find somebody to kind of replace the guy from Jamaica. So, um, so I was like, yeah, totally going to do that. And so, um, that's when I put out an ad on Craigslist way back in the day, and for black guys, I just said I'm looking for a black man who are well-endowed, who wouldn't mind having my boyfriend listen on the phone. And that was it.

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And that one of the first guys that I came across was from where the fuck was he from? Oh God, it was in a country in Africa. Fuck, and I have forgotten now. Anyway, such a cool guy and we I just made like a date to like hook up with him. I went over to his apartment and fuck me, that was some of the best sex I've ever had in my life. And, um, for real, it was amazing and I also hooked up with several other guys, black guys from that same ad. But the guys that most of the guys that I did hooked up with several other black guys from that same ad.

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But the guys that most of the guys that I did hook up with were really great, especially the guy from Africa and him and I we ended up hooking up for a long time, becoming good friends. We hooked up for like a couple of years and that is absolutely the best sex I've ever had in my life, like he was different. And some of the pictures and videos if any of you ever were ever around during the vault days, you remember some of these pictures and videos. He's in a lot of them. Hmm, it's impressive. But unfortunately there was some feelings caught and not and he wasn't happy that it wasn't reciprocated. So so that ended and I have definitely had partners who are bulls black bulls who have been fun since then, but nobody really sexually on the same level as him. He was just different. There was like a different kind of chemistry there, but he was memorable all some of the times that we had.

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He's the one who I was so loud with that the neighbors phoned the police and we had five police officers banging on the door thinking that I was getting murdered. And really I was okay. It was just my pussy that was getting murdered. So there was that RIP my pussy. I've talked about that story a couple of times. It's so funny, but the sex was just so good. Okay, so that's okay.

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It wasn't long after I met the guy from Africa with the big, fucking, amazing dick who you know I was loud as fuck with. It wasn't long after that that I got my first Queen of Spades tattoo that's the one right above my pussy, and it was probably a year after that. A little over a year after that, I got my second Queen of Spades tattoo on my ankle. That a little over a year after that, I got my second Queen of Spades tattoo on my ankle and then, I don't know how long after that that, I got the one on the back of my neck. All right, so that's so it basically that's how it started.

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Once I got that Queen of Spades tattoo I think it was that was around the same time that I was like all right, I'm done sleeping with white guys, and that's not a regret, not at all, and that just kind of happened. Naturally, it wasn't like someone told me or encouraged me to like not sleep with white guys anymore. That did not take any encouragement. I was just fully enjoying the bowls that I had and didn't see any reason at all to go back to sleeping with white guys. Do you still date white guys? Of course, yes, good question, miles. I get that asked often. Actually, I guess there's women who like date black guys exclusively and sleep with black guys exclusively and they are queen of spades. And then there's queen of spades, cockle dress, which is where I fit in, which is just like I am a queen of spades. My bulls are black but I date white cocks, if that makes sense.

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Sean said do you like being dominated by them, at least in bed? Oh, great question, sean. So yes and no, I enjoy the what's the right word the vibe that black guys have, which is a very powerful vibe. It is it's not to say that they can't have a very sensual vibe that still has power in it. If you ask me, but do I like power exchange with black guys? I'm not really into that. No, I wouldn't say so. I can get into a little bit of like dirty talk, race play, talk um with guys and that's fun, but do I really like, want to be like, quote unquote, submissive to a guy? I don't think so, not really, um, yeah, so I hope that answers your question, Subby, is that the story about the neighbors called police for loud sex fetus?

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Yes, that was the story. I was really loud. We went to, I think we went out to a club together. We came back to his apartment. He started fucking me and I guess I was a little too loud. It was in the summertime, the windows were open, it was an apartment building that we were in, plus an apartment building that was right across from us that apparently they heard too. So there was that.

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Is it possible for a queen of spades to ever allow white guy penetration out of pity? Oh my God, I love this question, ryan, ryan Cuck, is it possible for Queen of Space to ever allow white guy penetration out of pity? Yeah, I mean a Queen of Space, she can do whatever the fuck she wants. I mean people ask me like, if I had like a white cuck husband, would I ever have sex with him? Honestly, I am not going to make any straight up rules about that. Sexual denial is a game that you play. It ebbs and flows and it's I don't know, it's a very few couples I know have like hard rules around it. I'm not going to be one of those people with hard rules around it. I'm not going to be one of those people with hard rules around it. Would I really enjoy sex with my husband, piv sex with my cuck husband, more than a black bull? That's doubtful, but it doesn't mean that I still wouldn't like go for it once in a while.

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I think there's a whole for me anyway, a whole different type of quote unquote sex for me anyway, a whole different type of quote unquote sex with. When it comes to a cuckoldress and her husband or cuck partner. There's so much fun that you can have with that, like I don't know. For me the fun part is about a bit like taunting him a little bit during sex. A bit like taunting him a little bit during sex, knowing that this turns him on and I would just be honest about not being able to really feel him or um, things like uh, um, kind of teasing him a little bit during sex. I really enjoy it. I might be different in this way for most women, I don't know, but I really do enjoy it when I have sex with my cuck partner and I taunt him or I tease him at the same time about his size or lack thereof, or I can't feel him, or telling him about my bulls or whatever during the moment you know how fucking hot that is and when he can't control himself and can't last, like if he is able to only last like 30 seconds or a minute. I love that Because obviously I'm not going to be having sex with him for like the same kind of feeling, like fulfillment, as I would with a black bull. I would not be having sex with a white guy for the same kind of fulfillment, but I would feel really fulfilled with having see him lose control and not be able to last more than like a minute, and like knowing that I'm able to tease the fuck out of him so hardcore that he loses his fucking mind in like a minute. That's fun. I've done that before and I really enjoy it.

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I remember that one of the very first times I I cucked a guy this was in LA and um, this guy, this was like I really didn't know this cuck very well. This was way back in the beginning and um, we like lined up a whole bunch of black guys for this hotel room for the weekend and, um, so afterwards, after I'd fucked all these guys, like I remember this was so hot. I was really stretched out obviously and um, I remember like he was pretty small size obviously this, this cuck, and I remember so you guys all probably are aware that I really enjoy being fisted so he put his hand inside of me and he slid his little wiener in next to it like and so he was like inside and he was like able to like jerk himself off in my pussy. That was hot as shit. That was truly one of the most hottest, like most humiliating things for a guy and oh, it was just great. So there are really fun little games that you can play.

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I think quote unquote sex is the queen of space cuckold. Just, there's a lot of fun things that you can do. Do you get any comments about the queen of space tattoo? Aj asked that. So for the longest time, I mean, here in Canada, nobody knows what it is literally fucking nobody. This is very much an American thing.

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Um, when I went to LA the last time I went to LA, I was at a hotel with one of my black bulls and a cuck friend and I was wearing a dress and I had my on heels and I had my queen of spades tattoo on full display on my ankle. I was in the lobby with these two guys and I noticed there was a black guy who was behind the front desk, who worked at the hotel, who was looking, and anyway. So I went upstairs with my bull, my cuck friend stayed in the lobby and while I was upstairs with my bull, this black guy who worked there came up and spoke to my cuck friend and asked him you know about the tattoo and stuff like that. So they're technically, yeah, somebody did recognize my tattoo and said something, but they didn't say it to me. But other than that, nobody has ever said anything about my tattoo ever. And I am like all summer long and have my tattoo showing. So it's not a big thing. Here at least.

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Okay, hot Tyler says, shouldn't it be at least his dick bigger than mine to get cucked? Okay, this is the thing. If your girlfriend, wife, partner is going to cuck you, you have zero say in how big the guy's dick is going to be. You have zero. Say in what he looks like. You have zero. Say in anything. Basically, she is going to cuck you with whoever the fuck she wants and you're going to shut up and enjoy it, and that's that. I get really annoyed with this mini Spielberg cucks that want to like, direct their ultimate fantasy and really use their partner as their personal porn star to create this whole fucking scene. That is has has nothing to do with her. It has everything to do with him and what he wants. And and that's bullshit Let me tell you, this is a partnership. This is about her, and she's going to do what turns her on. She's going to do what makes her happy, what makes her feel safe, what makes her feel good, and you're just going to shut up and enjoy the ride.

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Thanks for joining me today. Make sure you go to venuscuckledresscom. That's where you can book a private chat with me, you can check out any cuckolding events that might be happening, and you can even ask a question for the show, as well as, of course, join the queen's quarters fan club and get all the benefits for that. You can also follow me on instagram, the venus cuckoldris podcast. I haven't been banned there well, I have, but not recently. You can also follow me on twitter or whatever the fuck you want to call it, my handle is at cuckoldris v. That's it for today. We'll see you next time. Bye.