The Venus Cuckoldress Podcast

The Massive Success of Ciren Verde: Kinky Cuckoldress & BBC Lover

• Venus / Ciren Verde • Season 4 • Episode 20

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She might be the hardest working adult content creator in the cuckold/hotwife realm. Ciren Verde shares her story of her marriage with her bisexual cuckold husband, the pros and cons of content creator life as a full time job, being a size queen, and her favorite ways to cuck her husband - along with much more!

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Speaker 1:

Here's what's coming up on the show.

Speaker 2:

Oh my gosh, how we met. I was actually 18 when I met him and I was already seeing a friend of his and his friend wanted to gift me to him. So I hid in the bathroom and my husband got blindfolded and tied to a bed and I came out and started fucking him and took off the blindfold and that was how we met. So, yes, him and took off the blindfold and that was how we met. So, yes, I love having a husband that I can talk to about all the dicks and all the dudes and all the stuff, and us both just love all of it. Be like, yeah, I love that dick, you want to suck that dick too. Like both of us being into it is the best it's. It's such a wonderful feeling.

Speaker 1:

I have to ask the question what's the biggest you've ever been with?

Speaker 2:

Probably Dread.

Speaker 1:

Okay, hold on, hold on, Hold on. You fucked Dread. Mm-hmm. Oh, this is the Venus Cuckoldris Podcast, a place to learn all things cuckolding for the curious, for the passionate and for the sexually empowered woman who wants it all. Let's go. Welcome to the show everyone. I am your host, venus. Thanks so much for joining me today.

Speaker 1:

I have on the show siren verde. She's a kinky cuckold, just black cock lover. She's hugely popular. She's been professionally producing adult content for more than five years now and she might be the hardest working woman who's doing that that I have ever met. So it is such a great show. She talks about her cuckold marriage, her bisexual cuckold dynamic, the pros and cons of creating content, being a size queen and filming with none other than dread. I was shook. I was shook, I tell you. And of course, she talks about her favorite ways to cuck her husband. So I know you're going to love this show. Big shout out to my helpful Cucks, grunky and Sean, who recommended Siren as a guest for the show. And if you're not sure about the helpful Cuck tier, I have a special supporter tier that helps to support the podcast. That's for fans who really want to be more involved in things and help me out with the things that I need help with, but also we have a private Snapchat group and we do weekly live hangouts on Crowdcast. It's tons of fun. If you want to learn more about how you can become a helpful cuck, the link is in the show notes for today or go to venuscuckoldresscom.

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Speaker 1:

A very special guest. Her name is Siren Verde and, oh my God, I'm so happy to have you on the show. I had a couple of fans who said you know what, you have to have her on the show. She'd be an excellent guest. And I'm like all right, I've seen you on Twitter and stuff and heard your name here and there, but I really don't know a lot about you. So I'm so happy to have you on the show and share your story. So welcome to the show.

Speaker 2:

Say hello to everyone. Siren, hello, thank you so much for having me. I've actually known about you for years and have a local guy who's an author and has actually mentioned your name years ago when we'd been talking about me wanting to write a book. So it's really neat how, eventually, paths cross.

Speaker 1:

Yes, absolutely so. Okay, for those of you who don't know, I'm sure you've all heard about Siren, because she's just got, I think, like 300,000 followers or whatever on Twitter and I'm going to dead name Twitter forever, by the way but on your Twitter it says a little blurb about you. On your profile photo thing it says kinky cuckoldress and black cock lover. So that's how I'm explaining to the audience what you're into right now. But I want to know what exactly it is, what's going on for you in the lifestyle, and I think you're married to a bisexual cuckold. Right, I am. How long have you guys been married for?

Speaker 2:

Legally coming up on two and a half years, but we've been together over 10 years and we've known each other for 16. Oh wow.

Speaker 1:

Okay, and was it always a kinky relationship?

Speaker 2:

Yes, Really, oh my gosh, how we met. I was actually 18 when I met him and I was already seeing a friend of his and his friend wanted to gift me to him. So I hid in the bathroom and my husband got blindfolded and tied to a bed and I came out and started fucking him and took off the blindfold and that was how we met. So, yes, definitely par for the course in the rest of our life.

Speaker 1:

Holy shit. Okay, this reminds me of my last, my last guest on the episode before uh this, uh recent episode. Um, he met his wouldbe wife in like a similar situation and so I'm just like holy shit. Like I don't hear about that very often, where like it starts like Just right off the bat.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, right off the bat Like let's fucking go. Yeah, we didn't even know each other prior to meeting that day.

Speaker 1:

Oh, wow, Okay. So when did it start into like a cuckolding relationship?

Speaker 2:

Pretty much right off the bat. It was one of those things that the friend introduced us and then we ended up kind of getting together one or two times, just him and I, and very quickly he went to. I'm sure you're familiar with Adult Friend Finderer yeah yeah.

Speaker 2:

So even back then he jumped on there and would find me guys, and very quickly if they weren't very big. I've, man, when you're 18 and you're meeting these dudes who are coming to have sex with you, and they're so excited but also super nervous and can't even get hard, I'm like like I'm down for this. This is great, like I love that you're finding me dudes to have sex with, but but I mean, they can't even perform. So it was very right off the bat with us in terms of having that dynamic. But even before him and I, when I was in high school, there was a guy who I probably cheated on I don't know close to 20 times, and every time he kept taking me back. So it was almost setting the groundwork for well, a dude's still going to love me if I'm just banging a bunch of others.

Speaker 1:

Isn't that funny how that happens. Oh yeah, I love it. Okay, so was your husband always open about being bi, or was that something that kind of like evolved?

Speaker 2:

It was always something he had already dabbled in and had played with, so it wasn't something that I was like, hey, you should like do this thing, okay, um, he was the one who brought it to me very early on when we started getting together hey, I'd love for you to peg me with a big black dick strap on. And I was like, cool, like, no problem, I love that you'll, you're willing to just tell me these things. And then again, it evolved as we went into it. It was more him coming out to the world what he was interested in, more so than him coming out to me, sort of thing. That was the bigger deal, because he had a public service job that, for until he was retired, we had to, you know, mask, hide all of his tattoos, do as much stuff as we could before we like really jumped off and took off his mask.

Speaker 1:

Okay, yeah, because this was the other part of the conversation I'm excited to talk to you about. What's it been like for you to be like out Cause you show your face, you show like there's, you know, hide anything. What's it been like for you to do that, but? And what was the process like to decide to do that?

Speaker 2:

So when we did Adult Friend Finder, I did hide my face, but I have pretty distinctive tattoos that obviously, like, if you know me, you're going to know. And the first probably three months we hit my face and ultimately it came down to this is a pain in the ass for editing. I don't really want to do this and at the time I had just been transitioning from having a massage practice and like very involved in local business stuff that then I was moving out of that. I have no interest in public office. I have nothing that I want to do. I was like who cares? I don't care, let's just, let's just go all in.

Speaker 2:

And I'm not sure if my parents exactly know what I do, but I know that family members follow my Instagram who are very nosy people that I highly doubt that they don't know what I do, but we're good Like. I see them, you know, a couple of times a month like touch base. They know that I'm happy, I'm healthy, my life is very stable. So nothing's really changed and I've always been on my own in how I operate. So I've been recognized. Maybe like a couple of times when I'm out and the people who say something to me. I'm like good on you. Like you, you are openly admitting what you're doing when you see who I am. Like good on you, Like hey, thank you Super appreciate it.

Speaker 1:

So people have recognized you in public and said something to you.

Speaker 2:

What?

Speaker 1:

do they say what, what?

Speaker 2:

are they? One was at the grocery store and he was like I need, like I was walking through and he, like this dude is I mean I like most of the time I'm just oblivious to anything going on and eventually he came over to me and he's like hey, I'm, I'm a really big fan of yours.

Speaker 2:

And I was like, oh, thank you so much, I really appreciate it. It like thanks for the support. And he ended up messaging me later that afternoon on my only fans. And I was like, hey, like I sent him his like a you know little picture, you know, as a thank you for acknowledging me. And then I went to a coffee shop a few weeks ago and same thing, like I was chatting with a friend and I'm sitting by the door and so he like comes over to me and he's like hey, like I'm a, I'm a really big fan of your work. And I was like, cool, thank you so much. I like gave him a hug, asked him what his name was, like thank you again and just kind of like went on with my day. So, you know, I think that's a big deal that people are going to do that and obviously, like I wouldn't have what I have without people watching what I do.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, Well, I think that's been, that's so nice, that they've been like nice and respectful and stuff like that. How does it feel to be fangirled over like that?

Speaker 2:

It's nice, like it's a good feeling. I very much don't allow any of the stuff that goes on on Twitter or any of that stuff to affect like who I am? Obviously there's somebody if they email and they're like hey, I want to collab.

Speaker 1:

Like also do you know who I am Like there's a level of that.

Speaker 2:

But like for somebody who meets me, like I'm not ever going to be this big headed like don't talk to me. Da da, da da. If you see me in the gym, don't talk Like obviously you have. You have some level of confidence to get out of your shell to admit what you do.

Speaker 2:

Yeah have some level of confidence to get out of your shell to admit what you do. So, yeah, my husband, it's not that it's deeply affected his life, because obviously, retiring your life changes in terms of your involvement with your coworkers and your stuff like that I think that for him it's been more of a drastic change in things. Um, so, hopefully, you know you're always more than welcome to chat with him one day if you ever want to get his side of the story.

Speaker 1:

Well, yeah, because I mean you talked about how it was a big deal for him to like come out to the world. Because, yeah, I can't even imagine like there's a different stigma with by women than there is by men, and so I mean by women, just get like a hall, pass, it's like whatever, it's all good, you know, by men that's just, oh my gosh, I for the longest time really difficult for me to come across by bulls and by cucks in this lifestyle who wanted to talk or even just just acknowledge that they exist.

Speaker 2:

That they want it, that they're like yeah, I do this, it's totally something I'm into.

Speaker 1:

Especially for the bi bulls, because I have all these bi cucks who are doing all these things and then I'm like, but where are these guys that you're?

Speaker 2:

Please lead me to one of them so I can show it.

Speaker 1:

Where are they? One of them so I can show it. Where are they? So I think that's so brave of him to be able to do that.

Speaker 2:

And it shouldn't be brave, it should just be like whatever you know, but it is in this day and age still.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, so has anybody recognized him? I?

Speaker 2:

don't know Honestly. I know that a lot of the people within his previous career know what he does because he was somewhat doing some of it while he was still working and obviously people saw me, so then they'd associate, but nobody will ever say anything to him based on his personality. So it's more just like always, like under the surface, type of thing. So I'm sure people recognize and know, but it's it's never become something that's interfered with our daily life, right.

Speaker 1:

I'm going to ask you about your venture into like the only fans world and stuff like that. But first I want to ask you about your cuckolding dynamic before that. So was there a period of time where you guys were just, you know, immersing yourselves in this like cuckolding relationship without filming for like content?

Speaker 2:

Oh yeah, no, there's. There's been plenty of times prior to filming, because there's people that we see who very much don't need to be filmed. So there's always been like little clips maybe that we have as kind of like our own personal collection kind of thing, but never to the level of what we have, you know, put out there. And so, yeah, I mean I don't feel as if there's really been a dramatic evolution in how we were as to now. The only thing that's maybe dropped off is not having to seek out people through group activities or trying to go through a lifestyle thing or a party, cause, that's, my husband's been sober over 30 years. I'm not much of like a social person, and so I it was like a lot for me to have to be like, oh, we have to go to this to try to like meet people.

Speaker 2:

So, that's kind of been the only evolution.

Speaker 1:

Okay, so how, what's your favorite way to cuck your husband? That's not like for filming content, like what? Like I cause I know guys are just who are listening and be like, oh, I want to know, like, what does she do to cuck him? Like how, they're all very obsessed with this. They all want to know all the details around how you cuck your husband.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, uh, I'd say I probably have top two favorites, one of them being I have somebody who I've been seeing for probably eight years and he'll come over and there's either my husband's in the other room or he's gone, cause we have cameras in the house and everybody who comes over they know that it's there. It's not like this like secret thing. So if the timing works out and my boyfriend will come over, I love that my husband can see that I'm just like immersed in this person and knowing that he's jerking off and like if he's home, he'll just like jerk off in the hallway and like come on the floor and then like close the door before he leaves. And there's been times that he's been out on the couch and like they say hello and then he leaves because they know each other very well. So it's not like a you know secret thing. So that's like top, because I get to like just again be immersed in it.

Speaker 2:

The second is when he is present. My like favorite way to come is when he's in between my legs eating my pussy when I'm getting fucked, like it's just the best. He actually did that with me when we first met when I was 18. And it was the hardest I ever came and I was like I love you for this, like I want to do this all the time.

Speaker 1:

I kept a guy in that position once before and before that I always thought god, that'd be complicated positioning and just like too much in my mind to focus and like kind of like 69, where you're just like oh, this is just like there's too much going on here, I just want to enjoy yeah, but I did it and I was like, damn, that's actually a great combination.

Speaker 2:

I really like that, like look down and like tell them how good they're doing, how pathetic they are in comparison. It's like it's perfect. They're just coming super hard.

Speaker 1:

Oh yeah, no. I agree, that's, that's really fun. Okay, so what's it like to have a bi cuck? I I'm not really into like the bi dynamic, but there's a lot of women who are and a lot of couples are out there doing them. They're living their best cuck lives like doing this. So tell me what's it like, from your perspective, to have a bisexual cuckold.

Speaker 2:

So from my perspective, I love it. I love having a husband that I can talk to about all the dicks and all the dudes and all the stuff and us both just love all of it. Be like, yeah, I love that dick, you want to suck that dick too. Like both of us being into it is the best. It's such a wonderful feeling. The experiences that we get to share together are even better.

Speaker 2:

Watching him is top things that I love in the realm of sex, because I loved watching gay porn when I was younger, like it's something that I'm like. Yeah, because he's like a man Outside of all of the stuff for humiliation and all this stuff, like he is very much a man and so watching him have to just be knocked down those pegs is fabulous. The flip side of it, which I'm actually really excited, we have a couple coming out in a few weeks, crush Daddy and Frankie Ray, and he's a by top and he's kind of talked about his challenges with women wanting to film with him because of him being bi, and my husband has had the same type of deal. We've had a lot of women that I've wanted to film with, and same thing with men. They'll see the content and they'll very quickly be like oh well, I'm not, you know, into him and I'm not, blah, blah, blah, and I'm like I'm very turned off to that when I get it.

Speaker 2:

We all have boundaries, we have stuff, but I feel as if there's a better way to present that you want to film certain content, because my husband and I always do stuff in terms of what people are most comfortable with, and so that assumption into well, I'm not into him, I'm not this, it just comes off, as you know, like that doesn't feel good for someone's feelings to be kind of put off like that. So I feel for him so much in in that constant rejection, but otherwise the pros of having somebody who's my best friend, that we can both be just loving absolutely everything and talking about all the dick that I get and talk about how much he wishes that he could get it to it's. I love it.

Speaker 1:

I never really thought about that, but the fact that you can your partner can be just as dick hungry as you, and you guys can just relish in that together.

Speaker 2:

I love it. It's the best.

Speaker 1:

No, do you guys like practice any kind of like kinky stuff, like chastity or sexual denial or anything like that?

Speaker 2:

We do not so much on a regular basis because he just doing everything that he does with working with my content, he would. He loves jerking off all the time and I love that he jerks off to me all the time. He's like honey, when you went to bed I jerked off to you with that video with so and so last night.

Speaker 2:

And I'm like great, like I love that you're enjoying that. And the chastity aspect. I love it for filming, I love it for when we do stuff. But he's not that small, so it's also comical watching him try to put on a cage and like busting out of it when he gets hard. But I'm like what's the point? Like you know, I have a bunch of cucks online that legit, are super tiny and like this is this is kind of pointless for your dick.

Speaker 1:

So um, but you are, you're a size queen. You really like bigger guys, oh yeah, okay. So, uh, like I have to ask the question what's the biggest you've ever been with? Probably dread okay, hold on, hold on, hold on you. Fuck dread. Oh, I don't know very many porn stars. I think I know Shane Neasel and dread and I think that's it Cause like I don't really watch porn, but like I saw dread I was like yeah oh, fuck me.

Speaker 2:

Yes, so great. Oh my God, oh my God, okay.

Speaker 1:

Tell me what. Tell me what that was like. Tell me what that was like. Were you like? Damn, are you going to break me open?

Speaker 2:

Oh no, I was super pumped. It was way earlier on and everything, so it was definitely before. Like we were talking about earlier, sometimes these things are just not on board. I was super on board that day and I don't know how I was able. I prepped before I flew out to LA like that day and had used like a gaping toy.

Speaker 1:

Oh, you stretched your pussy out to go see him. No, I stretched my ass out. Oh, your ass. Okay, okay, okay, yeah.

Speaker 2:

Now my pussy can take whatever I put in there. Just fucking rip open, girl, if you have to.

Speaker 1:

Oh my God, okay, hold on. So dread fucked you up the ass.

Speaker 2:

Oh dread, fucked you up the ass. Oh my god, I would be so scared. Oh my god, it was amazing, like that was one of the times that it just like and he. What's so great about him is he loves it already. So somebody who's into it makes the experience even better, because they're not forcing it in, they're letting you kind of open up to it. So he fucked me in my ass until he came and it was just awesome. Like he came in your ass.

Speaker 1:

Oh yeah, the shot of it he wasn't there.

Speaker 2:

My husband wasn't there. It was all filmed with stationary and I got to bring it home. This was Christmas Eve, I feel like that. I went out there.

Speaker 1:

Oh, best Christmas present ever.

Speaker 2:

It really was. It's super wise. I Christmas present ever. Yeah, it really was. It super was I was. I was beyond thrilled. So I feel like he's probably the biggest and there's been some off camera that have been like real thick, like equally as thick, just not as long. Watching one of those fuck my husband's ass, like having to like shift his hips because it's so thick, that was, that was intense. So that one I did not take in my ass. I don't think that was a long time ago, but yeah, I've taken some some huge. Have you? Have you done DP? I've done DP. Have you done DVP? I love DVP, me too, but I will not do double anal. That is not DVP too. But I will not do double anal. That is not. That's not on the table, even after dread, like I just I'm like I am a very petite person, that my bones have limits and I have not had children, so like those things are not moving, like there is there's no wiggle room in there there's only so much a dilator can do.

Speaker 2:

Yes, yeah, I've, I've, I've hit that bone. Yeah, now we're good.

Speaker 1:

Oh my goodness, okay, you are a true size queen. Oh my God Legit. You deserve a trophy. That's fucking. That's wonderful, Okay. So how did you end up starting to get into the whole only fans thing filming for content?

Speaker 2:

Ooh Okay. So obviously we had already done stuff for fun, did really well in popularity, and I had this sugar daddy kind of relationship guy who I was on off and he was just getting real rude and he goes you're not going to ever do better than me. And me and my husband got together and we were trying to figure this out and this was around the end of 2018. And he turned on Twitter for me and all of a sudden we just started doing that and right around that time so that was January 19. Yeah, January 2019, that we started doing OnlyFans and just started doing all of that stuff and just rolled with it and I moved on from him and have never looked back. Good for you, Like, screw you. Like. Of course, I'm gonna do fine in my life, Like I don't need you.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, I think it's amazing that so many women are doing the OnlyFans thing or they're filming for you know content kind of thing. In the cuckolding realm there's obviously a lot of demand for consumption of it. Some of these women are able to quit their day job and just do this full time. Yeah, she's putting her hand up, so I'm assuming that that's you. That's really great that you've had that kind of success. And is it like a full time job? Like is it something you have to work at every?

Speaker 2:

day it is. It's something that anybody who's ever asked me. You get out what you put in. You know you could do this part time and you can kind of have something roll in, but it's not until you just kind of devote everything into there.

Speaker 1:

Now.

Speaker 2:

I've people that I've talked to. I'm like everyone should have a husband like mine. He does the filming, he does all the editing, he does a ton of the posting, and I used to be very, very hands on with a lot of that stuff in the beginning, but then it just became overwhelming. You know, I mean, the longer you do this, the more you learn, the more you want to get better at something, and so the fact that he just lets me be the star in so much of it makes my life just heavenly.

Speaker 1:

So that's amazing, because I've heard from women that you know it. It is a bit overwhelming sometimes having to do all of that, and I could kind of tell from your Twitter feed that it's your husband that's doing that for you. Do you still go on there sometimes? Oh yeah, yeah, Okay, oh yeah.

Speaker 2:

No, I'm very much like watching what goes on. Yeah, okay, oh yeah. No, I'm very much like watching what goes on. Yeah, he's just amazing at making sure that, like traffic is coming through. But no, I'm very much like available.

Speaker 1:

You got to keep doing it like all the time, right, oh yeah, do you ever get like asshole fans that are just complete fucking dickheads? Yeah, they get blocked. Oh, is that what you do you? Just blockheads yeah, they get blocked. Oh, is that what you do? You just block them.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, if you want to do anything, you can pay me money. I've had people on my OnlyFans that man, they were just awful. But then I would send an audio note and lock it for like $50 to $200 and they'd unlock it to be yelled at and I'm like cool, cool, say whatever shit you want, I'm gonna yell at you and you're gonna pay me for it.

Speaker 1:

Like do they ever ask for like refunds?

Speaker 2:

and shit, like I guess I mean, I know that there's some in there, but because I have things run so particular, I don't. If somebody's gonna be that rude, you're blocked and here's your refund. Like, oh, you don't get to stay here and participate that way. Does that maybe hurt some of my numbers? For sure, but I am not living my life having to deal with any level of aggravation. That's going to upset my peace of mind. So same thing with Twitter. If you want to come at us with any type of proposition for shooting or whatever, just saying hey, let's collab with a page that has, you know, 200 to 1,000 followers, look, I'm not saying I don't want to give people a chance, but I'm five and a half years into doing this professionally that I don't have the patience to. You know, help startups anymore. It's too much work.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, there's a lot of time wasters out there, but for anybody listening, if you wanted to approach siren, there's a certain way that you need to do it.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, use your brain, use some critical thinking. It should be professional.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, this should be. You know basic stuff. But yeah, I know what it's like. Just having to deal with people online can be something else Horny guys sometimes it's a bit much.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, they're not thinking with the right head at those moments.

Speaker 1:

No, not usually Okay. So how much of your cuckolding, cuckoldress kind of life is performative and how much of it is like real I don't want to say real life, but like like doing it for you versus doing it for content, kind of thing and how much like how much of your lifestyle is lifestyle and how much of it is like just your real life? I got to go get the groceries today, you know, like that kind of stuff like that kind of stuff.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, so content and how much I love it. 95%. The 5% is when there's like a custom that comes through. That I'm like, okay, like I got to throw in like a little bit more. Yeah, I'm, I am verbal, I am active and stuff like that, but I've had to do ones where they want. You know, every other word is loser, fuck this. I'm like that's. I can be mean, don't get me wrong. The nice side of me. There is very much an equally like bitch mean-ness that exists, but yeah, no, I love Some of it's extra.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, extra, extra. And then, as far as our life, we we kind of anything ebb and flow. There's times that it's all the time we're texting throughout the day, we're, you know, going over stuff, but then, yeah, like I mean, yesterday I had a little bit of a. They don't happen very often but all of a sudden I went grocery shopping, I was like washing produce and I was washing scarves, and I was doing this and doing that, so it's like the whole day just disappeared and like there is no talk really about any kind of sex. So that's always going to be an ebb and flow. I couldn't even give like a percentage of like. Well, it's like 50-50. It's like depends on the day.

Speaker 1:

Do you take days off where you're just like, no, I'm not going to do anything lifestyle related today, nothing with the OnlyFans or anything.

Speaker 2:

Not really. I mean there might be times, yeah, I mean there might be times like if I had a surgery back in January, but even then, like, hey guys, I'm in the hospital, I'll touch base with you when I'm done. You know like well, we'll get through this, but no, I you when I'm done. You know like well, we'll get through this, but no, I mean, I'm always, I'm always pretty available. It's just kind of ebbs and flows yeah.

Speaker 1:

Wow, that's a lot of work that you put into it then constantly.

Speaker 2:

Oh yeah.

Speaker 1:

Is that a good work life balance that you feel like you have?

Speaker 2:

Oh yeah, 100%, Because I tell everybody you know like, hey, I have loads of content that you can get Right now. I've been training for a fitness challenge thing at the end of this month, so I'm way more focused on working out than I am on content.

Speaker 1:

Okay, okay, is that what that thing is behind you?

Speaker 2:

Oh no, I used to teach aerial yoga years ago, so no, this is, this is for something else. No, the challenge I'm doing think like tough mudder without the mud, sort of like level of fitness stuff that I'm getting ready for.

Speaker 1:

Wow, okay, all right. So there's been, like we talked about before, just this big like rise in women Joining the OnlyFans thing or filming their videos, cuckolding sex life for content, which I, like I said before, is, I think it's great, like women are killing it and there's obviously such a huge demand. Do you see any kind of potential downside to that? Um, like something that might not be positive.

Speaker 2:

It's something that I kind of have to anybody who's ever asked me like hey, like how great is this? How has it impacted your life? I'm like look, everybody has such a unique life that I'm glad that I got into this professionally. In my late twenties I had the time to assess my life. Anything that's on the internet I don't care what anybody says, it is there forever.

Speaker 2:

I pay stuff, like I pay someone to try to go through and take stuff down, and I probably have at least like 6,000 to 10,000 links regularly that are just stolen. So it's accepting that all of this stuff will be out there forever and being okay with that. You know, like really having an internal conversation, accepting that people are going to see this, people are going to make judgments Can you mentally handle that? That's like the biggest thing that I try to bring into people's attention. Like great, you can make a lot of money, you can do a lot of stuff, but this will significantly impact your life and how you move forward.

Speaker 2:

Like this is not. Yeah, I'm going to do this as like a quick, like part-time thing and I'm going to like move on, I'm going to go and like just have this normal life Like it, just it doesn't go away. So that's kind of my only cautionary thing going around this If you want to dabble in it, dabble in it. Have your own private stash. Don't let anybody ever have your content put it in a hard drive. Don't ever upload it anywhere. Go look at it on your like you know computer or just like plug it in like VHS style, you know like go go do stuff like that if you just want to enjoy it for yourself. But it is not for everybody putting all your business out there.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, I mean, that's crazy 6,000 to 10,000 links that get stolen, holy shit.

Speaker 2:

There's so much stolen content and that comes with filming with other people. You know, like I don't put a lot of stuff I don't put a lot on Pornhub, Xvideos, anything like that because it's all kind of getting it moved around. I don't really mess with certain clip stores because I don't like their formats, but I've co-created with a lot of people, so it's. You know, I don't know the lockdown that they have on that and that's fine. You know, like the joy of being a human and being creative is I get to continue creating. You know like there's always going to be more stuff that I can make. Fine, it gets stolen. Maybe somebody has never found me, Maybe they'll pay for it. Like, when people are like, oh yeah, I found you on on this site, I'm like did you pay for your porn? Well, no, and I just like quick block. I'm like, no, you don't get to talk to me. Then, Like you don't get to talk to me because you weren't even paying to jerk off to me Like, no, we're not, we're not going down this road.

Speaker 1:

Oh my God, I love that, okay, so, wow. Yeah, I really hope that women still like that. It continues to be such a beneficial and empowering kind of venture for women to be joining the OnlyFans and stuff like that. But I really appreciate how you warned about once it's out there. It's like really fucking out there, like you can't ever get that back. That is something very serious to think about as one of the big reasons why I do not have an only fans of people. Honestly, I like people are like shocked, like what do you mean? You don't. In fact, some guys are mad. They're like how could you not? And I'm like, oh, I'm so sorry.

Speaker 1:

I'm sorry I offended you I didn't feed your wank material for you but like fuck off, but that that's a big concern that that I've had too. Yeah, like do I really want to put all of that out there? Anyway, I really appreciate that you said that now we don't have a lot of time left, but I do want to ask you an important question about your relationship, and it sounds like you guys started out like from the get go kinky as fuck and just jumping in, and I love the fact that your husband was, you know, okay with coming out to the world, that you guys showcase that is as part of your relationship and that people really enjoy consuming your content and everything like that. I think that's wonderful. You guys have obviously had this, this great, you know evolving relationship together. Where do you see yourself evolving to next? Or are you comfortable with where you're at right now and that I'm kind of want to stay there?

Speaker 2:

That's also the other part of doing all of this stuff. Is there an exit? Is there an evolution available? You know, like, how? How does that work? Um, currently, you know, yes, I love big black dicks. They're great, they're awesome.

Speaker 2:

Not always able to become the most reliable and kind of getting things set up. So we've, we've morphed into all right, let's focus more on girl, girl, let's focus more on maybe you know fit white guys like, let's see what we can do. So we're, we're branching out, um, which ends up ends up making it very hard to stay within the niche that I've created for so long. Um, and then kind of moving on from that, if we ever kind of stop wanting to make content, as me being the main person is, you know, I can use my husband, or we can help be a producer for people. We can. We have just this wealth of knowledge that we can offer people. So there's always those options in terms of, you know, helping other people do stuff. And there's people that I've met throughout this time, that have been around this industry for a really long time, that just make cameos, you know, just sit in the scene and being like, hey, I'm here, like you know, and it's still be my content. Um, so we've we've definitely made sure to be aware of.

Speaker 2:

If I get tired of something, what do we move into? How do we make this work? Because it is full-time. You know what I mean. This is something that. What do you do from here? You?

Speaker 2:

know, if, if we wanted to stop so and that is not by any means something that I want to happen anywhere in the near future, but it is something that what is the saying Fail, failure to plan is planning to fail, kind of thing. So it's. It's always making sure that we have a planning place, that this money doesn't exist forever in terms of how it's rolling in. So how do you make sure that it works? That's why many of it's it's honestly one of my favorite things is I get to just have sales rolling in my sleep.

Speaker 1:

I'm like, yes, thank you, thank you I love this. Yeah, so I would like to believe that if we, as women in this sphere, decide to change or branch out and do something else, that we're doing that because we, you know, that's what we feel comfortable doing. But I do worry sometimes about like the technology changing or the laws changing around pornography and consumption and stuff like that.

Speaker 2:

And I'm just like shit.

Speaker 1:

Like you got to, you're talking, talking about planning, like you gotta kind of think about that as well. Right, it's crazy. Anyway, that's a whole other podcast topic, but but it's something to be aware of.

Speaker 2:

You know, food for thought for sure.

Speaker 1:

And um, before we say our goodbyes and you share your links and stuff like that, do you have any any last minute comments, advice, suggestions to any of the listeners that are out there?

Speaker 2:

My suggestion to anybody who has an interest, whether in this lifestyle or making content do it because you want to do it, not because you have to do it. Do it because you want to do it and it's always going to feel better when it's authentic. Don't try to perform, don't try to do anything, just immerse yourself in it, and people are always going to know and absolutely love it. And if you do it just for lifestyle communication with yourself, with your partners, with whoever your significant other is, that will always be key in making it a successful and enjoyable experience.

Speaker 1:

And safe for everybody.

Speaker 2:

Wonderful.

Speaker 1:

Okay, so where can people learn more about you? Consume your content, all that good stuff. What would you like to share with people?

Speaker 2:

So you can definitely find me on Twitter, or you know X at Siren V, underscore two and same thing for Instagram. Same handle and then the original one and only Siren V at OnlyFans and Siren Verde or Siren V at ManyVids ManyVids you're going to find the most like. Just you can consume so much in a membership, so Go on a porn bender there Wonderful, okay.

Speaker 1:

Well, thank you so much for coming on the show. It's been fascinating to meet you and learn your story, so I really, really appreciate that.

Speaker 2:

Thank you so much.

Speaker 1:

I really appreciate it thanks for joining me today. Make sure you go to venuscuckledresscom. That's where you can book a private chat with me, you can check out any cuckolding events that might be happening, and you can even ask a question for the show, as well as, of course, join the Queens Quarters fan club and get all the benefits for that. You can also follow me on Instagram, the Venus Cuckoldris podcast. I haven't been banned there Well, I have, but not recently. You can also follow me on Twitter, or whatever the fuck you want to call it. My handle is at CuckoldressV. That's it for today. We'll see you next time. Bye.