Confessions: Help for a Shy Wannabe Hotwife, A Stag's Hard No to Her Pussy-Free Fantasy, & Epic Ways to Humiliate a Cuck

It's the last episode of 2025 and wow what a year for the show! Confessions are back and these definitely don't disappoint.

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Year-End Reflections And Gratitude

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This is the Venus Cuckolders Podcast, a place to learn all things cuckolding for the curious, for the passionate, and for the sexually empowered woman who wants it all.

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Let's go.

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Welcome to the show. I'm your host, Venus. Thanks for joining me for the very last episode of 2025. It's been such a really interesting year. 2025 uh has I've had lots of really amazing highs and some really low lows as well. I lost a family member. That was really difficult, but I was able to travel uh earlier in the year quite a bit actually, um, to Mexico, to Europe, and um I did not do traveling to the UN United States this year. One of the many Canadians who are not traveling much to the United States right now, but I was able to go to London and do meet and greet there, which was pretty fucking awesome and got to meet lots of fans, and I went to um Dublin, Ireland, which was the highlight of the trip. It was so fucking great. Uh, it was such a fucking wonderful time and did meet meet and greet there and was able to meet lots of fans and my helpful cut group, and we just had a ton of fun. It was it was awesome, and then I did a little trip on over to Paris after that, too. So um, it was such a great year this year. It was really fantastic. I also did a big move, and um, that was not really that fun, but I'm glad that's over. So the podcast has continued to be super popular, growing all the time, which is amazing. Is this the end of year five of this show? This little show about cuckolding, which is my full-time job. And I love it, and it's been such a wild ride, and I just can't believe that it still continues to grow and it still continues to like become more and more popular, which is pretty fucking awesome. I would have thought that by the time year six rolled around that people would be kind of bored of it, but apparently not. So thank you all for listening. Thank you for supporting the show. For those of you who have joined one of the supporters, either a friends with benefits tier or the helpful cuck tier, thank you for supporting it and allowing me to be able to do this as my full-time job. Without you, I would not be able to do it. I wouldn't be putting out these shows, and I wouldn't be providing all of this amazing content for you to be listening

Favorite Episodes Of The Year

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to. So thank you. Thank you to everybody. Um, all right, and to for today's show, the last show of 2025, it's a confessions episode. I know you guys love these, and I love doing these too. I love hearing from you. Uh, so today I'm uh doing three uh callers who've called in to the show. The first one, um, he's a stag, and his wife has said he really, she really wants him to be in full-time chastity uh and no PIV sex, no pussy and vagina vagina sex, like no sex. And he's like, fuck no, I can't do that. No, no, no, no, no. So I'm gonna talk about that. And uh also there's somebody who called in asking about how to help his very shy wannabe hot wife. Uh, what are some steps on how he can help her kind of jump into the hot wife queen of spades lifestyle? So, yes, I've heard this question many times before. However, I think you're gonna really appreciate the answer uh that I give them, give him today. So, and then last but not least, this is fucking awesome, this guy who was called into the show earlier this year. Um, he shared with me some of the ways that his girlfriend or wife, I'm not sure if they're married, I can't remember, um, humiliates him as a cuck. And it's savage. I fucking love it. It's so good, you guys. You guys have to stick around and listen for that last one because it's so fucking good. And on that topic at the end of the show, I am asking everybody to please send me your little list of the best ways that you know of or have heard of how a woman can cuckold or humiliate her cuckold. Um, so ways to humiliate a cuckold. Because I really want to come up with the best list in the whole fucking world. Okay. I did on this show an episode once before with Miss Kayla, where she talked about her best suggestions on how to humiliate a cuck, and it was just the fucking best. Oh my God, we had the best time. So I want to come up with the best list. So make sure you check the show notes for today's episode so that you know how to send me your tips on how to humiliate a cuck. And let's come up with the most savage list ever. Um, all right, before we get into announcements, I just want to say on the topic of it being the last episode of 2025, I haven't been able to get my top episodes yet from my podcast platform. Apparently not coming out until January, which kind of sucks. I feel like they're late on this this year. Um, but anyway, I know what the I know the gist of like the downloads for the for the episodes have been, but I'm just gonna share with you some of my favorite episodes that I did this year on this show that were really great, I think. Um the first one, my most favorite, is because it for me was the most impactful. It really left me shook. It was such a heavy, uh, powerful episode. It's episode number seven, and the title is When Cuckolding Goes Dark or Becomes Dark. Um, and that one you have to listen to it. Episode seven, the dark side of cuckolding. Like, oh my god, it that was that was such a an amazing story, and I'm like so proud of him for for sharing that story, but wow, yeah, it was something. Um, next is episode number four. This is my friend Mike who show it shared his story on the show, and it was called Crushing Defeat and Unable to Compete with BVC. A cuck is born. Um, you guys, I got so much feedback from that episode. Most guys were like, wow, that was such a good episode. I can't stop listening to it. But I also got a lot of hate, hate mail about that episode. Guys thought that I was mean because I was laughing. This is my friend who was uh this guest on the show, okay? We are fucking friends. We've gone to events together, like we are fucking friends. Anyway, we like it's not mean. Anyway, I got tons of hate mail, but it was a fucking great episode. You have to listen to it. Episode four, Crushing Defeat. Two more that were really good were uh couples who shared their stories. So episode 15, Faith to Fem Dom Cuckholding, Scott and Whitney's story. They were fucking amazing. And then also episode number eight, Becca and Drew shared their stories, which included some of the hottest cuckolding stories. That was the title of the episode, the hottest real life cuckolding stories. And yeah, that they are so much fun. Those that story was like fucking amazing. So make sure you check those ones out. Those were for me the highlights of the podcast for this year.

Live Pillow Talk Event Announcement

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Okay, just one announcement for today. I have a pillow talk event that's coming up, a live pillow talk event that's happening in the Queen's Quarters community. It's free to join live, and it is gonna be uh Sin and his wife is going to join as well. Apparently, it's what he told me. And uh he was on the recent episode called Cuckolding Uh Crash and Burn, A Cautionary Tale, and such a cool story about how he fucking had an emotional breakdown uh when his wife first cucked him. But they made some changes and they ended up like totally thriving in their cuckolding relationship after that. So it was actually a great story. But he's gonna be joining me for Pillow Talk event and his wife. Uh, and that will be Friday, January 9th. That'll be 2.40 Pacific time. That's 5 40 Eastern time. So if you go to the show notes for today's episode, you'll be able to see where you can RSVP for that event. Like I said, free to join live. If you can't make it live, if you're in one of the supporter tiers, you can watch the replays for all of the live events. Okay, that's it for announcements.

Confession One: Stag Vs. Chastity

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Let's jump into this episode. Here we go.

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We have been in a hot wife stag slash cuck relationship for a few years now. And I am entirely turned on by her being with other men. But right now, she wants to put me in chastity 24-7 and deny me any access to her whatsoever. And as a stag, I'm like, well, no, no, I still want to do that. So, what do you think a couple who's been together? Well, we've been married for 30 years, she's had you know lovers for the last 12, and I'm like this new thing of hey, nope, you're gonna be locked up permanently and no sex with me. And I'm like, no, no, that's not gonna work for me. So, how do you resolve that issue?

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Well, thank you for sending in this question. And uh, before I get into it, I just wanted to talk a little bit about that uh label stag. Um it's been a long time since I talked about that label stag, and I know that there are some guys out there who really do get off on the compersion part of I want to say cuckolding, but okay, hot wifing, whatever. Um, where they really are just in it for like the amazing joy that they get by watching their partner be sexually satisfied by somebody else. And they really don't feel like they have that kind of cucky angst, or they really don't feel like there is any kind of like shift in power dynamic or anything like that, or any no teasing, no humiliation, no nothing. It's simply him just in awe of his partner who's getting sexually satisfied by somebody else. I know that there are some guys out there, and I I totally get that why that they would want to say, you know, I don't really identify with a cuckold label because I don't like to be teased and humiliated. I don't like to be, you know, made fun of and whatever. So I I'm a stag. Okay, yeah, I get that. However, over the last decade, I do know that there are lots of guys out there who don't like the cuck label because of the stigma that's attached to it, even though they're a cuck. And uh, so they just gravitate towards the stag label because it makes them feel better, or they have this like idea that cucks don't have sex with their wife, which is like so ridiculous. That's not the norm. Uh, the norm is that cuckolding couples have a very robust sex sex life together as it is. Um, it does not mean that the husband is denied sexually from his wife. However, some couples do practice that, but it is not the defining characteristic of a cuck relationship. So, uh so some guys think, oh, well, I'm not sexually denied, so therefore I'm not a cuck hold. It's like it's ridiculous. Anyway, you shouldn't be scared of the cuck label. Cucks are strong, they are fantastic, they're amazing, incredible partners, and I do personally feel like I could be fucking wrong, okay? I know this, okay, I could be fucking wrong, but I do feel like if a guy is watching his wife with another woman, it doesn't matter what he calls himself, I'm pretty sure he's gonna have that kind of like incredible, angsty thrill that's like really exciting and such a turn-on. And so I feel like this just goes across the board. It doesn't matter what you call yourself, you're gonna have those like feelings of like thrill and excitement and angst, and just like, oh, holy fuck, like just you know, you know what I'm talking about, that emotional strip tease of cuck holding. So I've said this in the past, I'll say it again. I always get in shit when I say this, but I really kind of do think that almost all stags are actually cucks, and it's okay, it's totally fine if you're a cuck, okay? It's fine, but anyway, um back to the question. So this guy who has been with his wife a long time, she's been sleeping with other with other guys for a long time, and she's decided that she does not want to have PIV, penis and vagina sex anymore. The reason why I say PIV is because all we the default is penis and vagina equals sex, but the reality is that sex equals so much more than just your dick and her pussy. Um, but anyway, so he's mortified, he does not want to do this. But what I'm missing here, what I'm missing in a lot of these questions that I get sent in is the why. So I have no idea why you feel like this is a hard no for you. You didn't say anything other than nope, I don't want that. I don't want full sexual denial. I that's not that's a no. So I don't have no idea why. Like you didn't give me any of that information, so it's kind of hard for me to know. Also, you didn't say why she wants it. That would have been some helpful information. Why did she, why has she said to you why she wants this? Or did you ask her why, what is the motivating factor here? What makes you really want this? I really hope that you asked her that instead of just saying a flat out no. Um, so those are two big things. You can't, I can't, you can't, no one can solve this what you call an issue or resolve this issue unless you understand why it's a no for you and why it's a yes for her. Um, but anyway, I will just give you a little bit of information just based on what I know, and maybe it's right, maybe it's wrong. I don't fucking know. But maybe she does not like the sex, the PIV sex that she's having with you. Maybe you guys have been together for a very long time. Women get bored of PIV sex way sooner than guys do. That's what the research shows. Uh, that women are the ones who to get bored of it before the the husband, the partner is. Um, and that's a real thing. So maybe she just doesn't, she's not really big on it. Maybe she doesn't give a fuck. Uh, you know, it's just like whatever. I don't really need that anymore. I don't know. But the orgasm gap is real. Also, it's no wonder women get bored of PIV sex. If it's sex that's centering around his dick and her pussy, and that's all uh the vast majority of women do not orgasm reliably from dick in pussy sex. They don't, they they need clit stimulation. So they need oral, they need toys, they need play, they need four play. All the all of that stuff, which a lot a lot of women, especially women in long-term relationships, don't get or don't get reliably. Um, so maybe she's just not not that excited about PIV sex with you anymore. It sounds like she's sleeping with other guys. She's probably having lots of creative fun sex with these other guys. Maybe she's just not that excited uh about same old, same old PIV sex with you. I don't know. Could that be it? But maybe this for her could be about centering her own pleasure instead of centering your pleasure through male-centered uh sex. I don't know. Maybe this is you need to ask her. That's that's the big thing. Uh, maybe she wants to just try something kinky. I'm willing to bet that back in the early days of your relationship, it was you that brought up cuckolding to her because this is 99.9% how it always goes is the husband brings it up to the wife. This is hardly ever her idea. So I'm willing to bet that you brought it up to her at one point. She, I'm willing to bet, was probably kind of shocked at first and like, oh my God, you want me to do what? And maybe was even a hard no. Like a lot of wives out are there out there uh regarding cuckolding, where they're like, fuck no, I do not want to do this. This, I do they're having the same reaction that you are having right now about sexual denial. No, I don't want that. Maybe that was how she reacted in the beginning, but lo and behold, look at your fabulous wife. She's out there fulfilling your cuckolding fantasies for you, and I'm sure for herself as well, she must be enjoying it. But she decided to be open-minded, I'm sure, and give this a try for you, I'm sure in the beginning, but now for her. And isn't that fabulous? And now that she's come to you with a kinky request that she really wants, now look who's being the asshole and saying, fuck no, I don't want that. Not open-minded, not curious, not willing to try, but a fuck no. Look at the tables turning here. Maybe you are the one who needs to actually be a little bit more open-minded about her kinky fantasy, even though it's something that you feel like it doesn't turn you on, it's not exciting, it seems like the shitty end of the deal for you. Have you considered that maybe this could be something fun that you guys actually explore together that could be beneficial for your relationship because it brings you together more emotionally intimately? I have several friends in the cuckolding lifestyle who've been married a very long time, cuckolding a long time, and they've actually decided to go down that road together to really play with sexual denial. And let me tell you, these couples are having the fucking time of their life

Rethinking Labels And PIV Myths

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together, okay? Not only are they crazy in love, but they are both so sexually satisfied. I know, shocker. Your dick is not inside her pussy, and yet you're sexually satisfied. Imagine that. There's other ways to actually have fun together in the bedroom. It's true. But have you considered that it could be something that actually will make her? Super happy and would therefore make you happy? And I'm not saying that you would have to like, okay, that's it, and we're never having sex again, but wouldn't you be at least a little bit willing to try it out for a short period of time and say, yeah, let's try it out for two weeks, two weeks with no PIV sex, or even a month. I've been listening to podcasts for the last year where the topics are constantly coming up where people are saying, we need to try to flip the sexual script. We need to make it less about PIV sex. We need to make it more fun about, you know, outer chorus. I personally in the last year have been having so much fucking fun with sex that's not PIV sex. Like, I can't even begin to tell you how much fucking fun I'm having, how many mind-blowing orgasms I've been having. Like, it's been fucking unreal. So I'm telling you, you are missing out on the opportunity to explore your wife's body, for her to explore yours, and for you guys to create something really special together. So you should be able to be like, okay, let's give this a try for a month. Let's figure out some other ways to have fun together, to turn each other on, to give each other orgasms that don't include you getting your dick wet in her pussy. It can be done. And you should do it. For fuck's sakes, you should do it. You should, even if you still keep PIV sex on the table together, okay, you should be expanding your sexual script with her. You absolutely there's no fucking excuse not to. All right, that's all I'm gonna say about that. I hope you guys figure it out, and you can always send me an update. I would love to hear it.

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Hi Venus, it's Mike from California, and I have probably a pretty common question in the community. Um, and that is how do I take the first real step to making my wife a hot wife? Um, more specifically, a BBC hot wife or Queen of Spades, such as yourself. Um I know my wife likes black guys, and we watch interracial porn. Um we have a few black toys that we play with, and um she's into it. I think she's just really shy about taking those first steps. Uh we've talked about glory holes, and she really liked that idea of looking at strangers kind of just using his so yeah, we've got we've gotten pretty kinky and we've watched a lot of uh pretty kinky porn. Um but since we've had kids, we don't really she's not very kinky at all. Her sex drive has really disappeared. Um and I was just wondering what I can do to help get us in that position to be in that lifestyle because I know she would really enjoy it, and I know I would really enjoy it as well. Um so yeah. If you could help me out, I'd appreciate it. Thank you. Love your show.

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Yes, you are correct. That is a question I get asked often. It's definitely one of the top three questions uh that I get asked all the time. Um, there seems to be a ton of husbands out there who are wondering how to get their wife into cuckolding, how to get them into hot wifing, how to get your wife into wanting to sleep with black guys. This is definitely something I hear all the time. First, I will say you cannot make her do anything, okay? So I wish the terminology would change around this because it's not about making her change or making her want to do this or making her sleep with a black guy. Uh we absolutely have to steer away from actually trying to make your wife do this for you. Instead, you have to go slow. You have to be okay with the fact that maybe she will never fucking want to do this with you. And for real, maybe you guys can talk about it like you have been. You can you can play with toys, you can role play, you can watch porn together, you can do all of the things that are fun together, but maybe she will just never want to sleep with another guy. And that's okay. You have to be okay with that. You just have to be okay with that. That's the way it is. Um, but if she is consenting to one day actually wanting to sleep with a black guy, then you guys can kind of work towards that with your baby steps, and that's what I'll talk about uh with you today. So um I understand the shyness aspect of it. Um, I definitely was not shy when I met my first cuck boyfriend and when we I started, you know, sleeping with black guys and uh into the cuckolding and queen of spades thing. And I the only reason why I was not shy about it was because I had already been involved in the swingers community for like a decade before that. So I had already, you know, been to sex clubs and enjoyed, you know, being somewhat of an exhibitionist and uh, you know, talked to all sorts of kinky people and done all sorts of group dynamics and like I was not, I was fucking super shy in the beginning. Okay, the first time I went to a sex club, I almost almost died of a heart attack because I was so nervous. But I went with the expectation of doing absolutely nothing other than meeting some people and watching, and that was it. And for that reason, I did not have a heart attack and it was okay. How but I, you know, it took me a long time to get comfortable to actually, it took

Practical Paths Beyond PIV

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me many times of going to the sex club before I finally actually played in a sex club in front of people. And so it's not something that you just jump right into. For women, this can be a really scary thing for guys too, but uh especially for women. But it is promising that she likes to talk about it with you, that she's open. It seems like she's open with it for you. But uh I do completely understand the fact that she's had you guys have had kids together and she's just not feeling kinky, she's not feeling like you know, sleeping with another guy right now. Like she's probably got a whole lot on her plate, and I get that. I feel like maybe men don't understand that enough because that is definitely I feel like if you're planning on having kids together, you can basically, in my opinion, spend the next five years at least of your life uh just completely fucking forget about sex being a sexy kinky shit being like a priority in your life because your your your whole world gets turned upside down when you have kids. And it's just a lot, and especially a lot for mothers. Um what I will say though, and this is really important for all of you guys listening right now, this is super, super important. I've never talked about this on the show, I don't think. Um, but this is so fucking important because at any time after the age of 35, a woman is going to start to go into perimenopause. So we between 35 and 45, she's gonna start to go into perimenopause, which is the eight to ten years before her last period. So it's basically a whole shit storm, fucking several years of her life where she's gonna have a whole bunch of wacky ass fucking symptoms where she does she has no idea what's going on with her body. And she no one's told her about this, and you don't know about it. You she's just like acting crazy. She's uh she thinks maybe she's got like cancer or she's dying, or like it's honest, she can't sleep. She like she's fucking, it's horrible. Let me tell you, it's fucking horrible. And it's just her hormones are starting to go berserk, and they go berserk for many years before the ovaries fucking flatline, and she goes into menopause. So anytime after the age of 35, this can happen. And one of the signs, one of the symptoms of perimenopause is a crash in libido. So low sex drive, low interest in sex, and also painful sex. Like I suffered with this is not fucking cute at all. And so the the low libido is a bit insidious. It fucking happens so slowly that you don't even notice it until you're like thinking, as a woman, you're thinking, God, I could go the whole rest of the year without thinking about sex, then I'd be perfectly fucking fine. And it's like it's crazy to think that, but that's how it happens. And so if she's not thinking about sex, she's not horny, she's not like it seems like low desire. That shit is fucking real. And this is the other thing. Listen up, you guys. I did not know this, and this is wild, okay. Hormonal birth control pills or patches or IUDs, anything hormonal birth control, it decreases her testosterone, it decreases her libido, it decreases her sex drive. I was on the birth control pill for um my almost my entire adult life, and I had no idea that that's what it was doing. It wasn't until I stopped taking that, that I was like, holy fucking hella. So, like, guys, if you're listening, it's 87% of my listeners are are dudes, okay? So, for all of you, 87% of listening right now, you have to know that if your wife is on hormonal birth control, that her sex drive is gonna be low. It's gonna be low because it actually takes away her testosterone in her body, it makes it so that she can't absorb testosterone naturally in her body. And it's fucked up. That's not what you want. You want her fucking fired up, you want her horny, you want her excited, you want her thinking about sex like you do, right? So be aware of that. And so um it was earlier this year I actually started taking testosterone, which women absolutely should because this is an age-related decrease, just like men lose their testosterone, women do too. And so women can supplement their testosterone just in a very small fraction compared to men. And I will tell you, it made, and I will tell you, I talked to a whole bunch of women at Splash Mocha um about this as well, because they were taking it, and I I would they were like, holy fuck, like this is for real, like a game changer. I will tell you right

Confession Two: Shy Hotwife To Queen Of Spades

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now, it turned me into a fucking horny horny ass feral cat or in heat. Like, I mean, the difference, I was like, shit, fucking goddamn. I'm telling you right now, hormone replacement therapy should include testosterone for women. It has been life-changing for me. So if your wife is going through perimenopause, if she is having low desire, it is worth having her conversation. She should have a conversation with her doctor about hormone replacement therapy, including testosterone. And that could be a fucking game changer for you. I'm telling you that right now. Um, the last thing I will mention about it is the mental load of motherhood is fucking real. That's a boner killer for women. And it's just very few men are even aware of the mental load that women carry when it comes to parenting and how unequal it can be. And there is somebody that by the name of Zach Watson. He is, he's got, he's on all of her social media, but he's got a website and he offers, I think, courses for guys where you can learn about the mental load and actually learn about how to take away a lot of that mental load for your partner. And in return, she has the time, the energy, the focus to be able to think about your kinky ass fucking fantasies. And she'd be a hell of a lot more willing to jump on board with things if she's not completely mentally consumed and exhausted with motherhood. So there you go, Zach Watson. Um, oh, I forgot to mention with perimenopause, the person who I learned the most about uh perimenopause and menopause from is Dr. Marie Claire Haver, H-A-V-E-R. Uh, she's incredible, she's all over social media, and I learned so much, everything I needed to know basically about all of this shit. Uh, you can learn from her. And I would highly recommend that you do that. Because wives would love to be supported by their husbands when they go through this fucking traumatic time of their life called perimenopause. Um, okay, last but not least, I will c I will give you um uh a tip of what you can do for uh your first steps if she's willing to go down that road and and wanting to actually try something for real. Um, this might sound kind of ridiculous, but hear me out. Hear me out. Splash Mocha, you've probably heard me talk about it before in the show, is a hotel takeover party. It's for interracial uh people who uh love interracial. Okay, so it's for single black men and uh couples, couples who enjoy single black men, uh specifically the wife. Um, and so they take over a whole whole hotel and they do this several times a year in various parts of the United States. I've been to the one in Houston many times. Um I do actually recommend that newbies go to this kind of thing, even though it could be really overwhelming uh because there's just a lot of there's a lot of guys there. It's for sex, people are going for sex, it's a lot of fun. There's, you know, themes and theme nights, and you get all dolled up and dressed up, real sexy, and there's actual playrooms that you can go. You certainly don't have to go in those areas. Um, but during the day, there's a lot of things to do. You can go to seminars, you can make new friends, which I think would be really beneficial for any woman who's thinking about doing this, but feeling quite shy, is to actually meet other women who and other couples who are in the lifestyle, and then you feel, okay, well, maybe this isn't so like abnormal. Maybe this could be fun, and it's just it's a lot better that way. Um, but it being for her to be able to dress up really sexy and be in this space would be really fun. However, I will say, probably not recommend go there for the entire four days. It's probably best to for the first time that you go, just go for one day. They sell day passes you where you can just go for the day and night on one day. And um, and that might be a nice little way to dip your toes into it. And you can avoid the playrooms if that's gonna be too much. But I will tell you, they do have glory holes there, a whole wall of them. So if that is something that she wanted to try, she could certainly do it there. Um, but I absolutely want to stress this point. If you do go that route, then I would make sure that you specifically tell her, we're going to go to this event, but you're not going to sleep with any guys. And it's important that you take that off the table because then she will not feel any pressure to be like, oh my God, I have to, you know, it's just she's if she's shy, it's really hard to go to a place like that. Even if you tell her, well, only if you want to. She knows you want her to. She's gonna feel that pressure of you wanting her to, even if you don't say it. Uh, so make sure you take that off the table. Say, you know what, we're not gonna, this is not gonna be a play party. We're just gonna go and have fun and get dressed up and meet some people, and that is it. And I feel like that would be a pretty good way for her to kind of dip her toes into it. And who knows? If she comes to you at the end of the night and was like, I met this guy and I fucking really like him and I really want to take him back to uh whatever whatever room, then hey, that would be just the bonus, but do not go into it with that kind of expectation. So that would be my advice is to just go and have fun, dip your toes into it in that way.

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Hi, Venus. I know it's been a while since you since you have uh done a recent or a new uh ways to humiliate a clock. But um I feel like you should I know two um real hot ways that my wife um humiliates me is um one of them she um like if we're ever like having a fight or if I'm being an asshole she'll uh and I'm out of place, you know, she'll um she'll have you put on a magnum size condom and I'll roll it all the way down where you know I'm average size of not even half the size of a magnum condom. So um I'll roll it all the way down to where the front the top half of the condom is just basically hanging off my penis, and um she'll she'll like you know as I'm doing it, she'll like she'll be laughing, taking a picture, and she'll make me leave it on for like the rest of the day. And like every so often, like maybe like every hour or so, she'll she'll check in with me and tell me like, hey, did did I learn my lesson? Do I uh understand stay in my place? Sometimes she even she's done it to me once, like while we were getting ready for a party, we were having a little argument, and she made me put the magnet size condom on, and we went to the party like that, and every so often during the party she'll come up to me and whisper in my ear that I learned my lesson and all that. I thought that was pretty hot. And a second one is um for her dildo. Uh we have a little name for it. It's called um his name is the man of the house. So, you know, sometimes during our sex, she'll tell me stop, and she'll tell me go get the man of the house. And she'll have me fuck her fuck her with her dildo. And she'll just be screaming, you know. He's better than me, bigger than me. That's why he's the man of the house. Sometimes I feel like for out having drinks with friends and all that. So like in a super hot way, so like so tell me like you know like my ears should be like let's go already, I'm ready to go see the man of the house. And um I have a penis leaf. And my penis leave um its name is uh my best friend's name. And um so every time like I I put it on so sometimes Tommy put it on so she can scream his name. She knows that he has a big dick. So you know, whenever we're having sex and all that,

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she'll be screaming his name and tell me that I can never like compare to him. And um I think that's pretty fucking hard. But yeah, that's two ways that my wife um you know does her act on humiliating me. But I um I would I think it would be cool if like other people like sent me their ways and you can probably do a video or like maybe like pick the top five, top ten or something. But yeah, thanks.

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I love this so much, you guys. I laughed so hard when he said this the the dick sleeve, the cock sleeve is is uh is called his best friend's name. Oh my god, that was so good, you guys. And yes, it has been a long time since I had Miss Kayla on the show, and she did her list of uh top ways to cuck or humiliate your cuckold, and that was such a savage fucking list. I will put a link to that show in the um episode notes for today's show because you have to listen to it. It was so savage, it was so good. Um, but I definitely need to add to that list. So I love, I love these suggestions. I totally need to make, but this is gonna be a goal for 2026. If you guys can send me your favorite ways to humiliate a cuckold, um, either that you've done it for real or it's just in your imagination. I don't give a fuck. Just send it in, okay? You can uh you can either email me at Venus at Venuscuckoldress.com or you can send in a voice note like he did. Just go to Venuscuckoldress.com and click on the link that says the podcast because on there is a little page called Ask Venus, and that's where you can send it in. So send me your list of ways to humiliate a cuckold. I want to have the best list ever. Send it to me. Also, I thought I recognized this guy's voice. He's actually been on the show, or he sent in a question or comment for the show earlier this year, and I think it was the one about uh his size queen girlfriend is really wanting his big, big dicked best friend. I was like, as soon as you said best, my best friend's name, I was like, wait a minute, I recognize your voice. Like you sent in that one. Oh my god, that was such a fucking great story, too. Um, I loved it. Anyway, send me, everyone who's listening, send me your top ways to humiliate a cuck and let's come up with the best list for 2026. Let's go. That's gonna be it for today's episode. Thank you so much for joining me. Make sure you go to VenusCuckoldress.com. That's where you can book a private chat with me. And you can also join the Queen's Quarters community and get all the amazing benefits like the private podcast and the helpful cuck tier, where you can get key holding for the private Snapchat group, monthly private chats with me, and weekly live hangouts and invites to special live events. Oh, and you can also submit a question or confession for the show. Just go to VenusCuckledjust.com and click on the link that says the podcast. Make sure you follow me on Blue Sky Social. Yes, I said Blue Sky Social. Fuck Twitter. My handle there is at Cuckledjust V. All right, that's it for today's show. You guys will see you next time.