Cuckoldress Lexie: Honeymoon Security Called Twice And He Still Says Thank You ❤️

Venus sits down with Cuckoldress Lexie Meadows—yes, the “soccer mom with a naughty side”—to trace how threesomes became solo overnights, how panic turned into arousal, and how a confident female‑led relationship emerged without breaking the bond that made it possible. Lexie opens up about the moment suspense became foreplay, why a short lockup and a key on her necklace can flip his mindset in minutes, and how “earned privileges” keep the flame burning hotter than automatic reclaiming ever could.

You’ll hear why one‑sided open relationships can amplify a woman’s confidence, how male submission can coexist with leadership outside the bedroom, and yes—the outrageous London honeymoon story that had hotel security knocking twice. 

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Transcript

SPEAKER_00 0:45

Here's what's coming up on the show. To um a sex club in London, and we met a few guys, um, brought two back to our hotel room, a guy from London and a guy from Russia. And um the guy from Russia was girl, he was big. And um, I am being very loud in um the hotel room, and got security called twice. I know, not my proudest moment, but also kind of cool.

SPEAKER_01 1:25

This is the Venus Cuckolders Podcast, a place to learn all things cuckolding for the curious, for the passionate, and for the sexually empowered woman who wants it all.

SPEAKER_02 1:51

Let's go.

Lexi’s Origin In Cuckolding

SPEAKER_01 1:53

Hello and welcome to the show. I'm your host, Venus. Thanks for joining me today. Today's episode features Alexi Meadows. She goes by Cuckold Dress Lexi. And uh in the beginning of this year, I mentioned on the show that I wanted to highlight some more of the ladies' stories on the show. And so that's what I have been doing. If you know of a woman who would like to share her story on the podcast, please send me a message. You can use the contact form on Venuscuckoldress.com and send me a message. But cuckoldress Lexi is here to share her story. She's been cuckolding for like 15 years. She has such a great, inspiring story. So I think you're really gonna love it. Um, she's also going to be joining me live in the Queen's Quarters community for a pillow talk event. These are always really fun, and it's kind of like um video and audio. You can just hang out, listen, watch whatever you want to do. You can ask questions. It's super chill, it's super fun. And we're gonna be talking about her and her story. So if you have questions or if you have comments or you just want to listen more about Lexi, you can join us for Pillow Talk. That's going to be in the Queen's Quarters community, which will be Monday, March 16th. So mark your calendars Monday, March 16th at 1.30 Pacific time. That's 4 30 p.m. Eastern time. And it is free if you want to join live. If you have a supporter tier membership through VenusCuckledress.com, then you get to watch the replays. But it's free if you want to uh join live and it's free to join the Queen's Quarters community if you just go to Venuscuckledress.com and click on the fan hub link, and that's where you can uh get more information. And also I'm doing another live chat. This one will be in the Queen's Quarters community on March 12th. This is the one that was supposed to be in February, but got bumped to March. I had a scheduling conflict, so it's going to be moved to March 12th at 12 p.m. Pacific time. That's 3 p.m. Eastern. And we're going to be talking about the blog post time to put down the megaphone and hush. And so that one, we're going to have a little discussion about that, is free to join live. So just go to the link in the show notes if you want to join that. And then, of course, I have my weekly live hangouts. This is these are private chats with only the Helpful Cuck group tier members who get to hang out with me once a week. And those are super fun. And um, that's just one of the benefits of that tier. You also get access to the private Snapchat group and a whole bunch of other benefits. So um, those weekly live hangouts are always super fun, very relaxed to talk about what's going on in my life, talk about the podcast, talk about all sorts of things. Plus, it's a great way to actually make new friends in this lifestyle because all of the people who are in that tier seem to be such great friends, and I love that so much. So, last but not least, if you want to connect with me, you certainly can by booking a private chat with me. I do offer those for anybody who's looking for advice, wants to share a story, wants to ask questions, whatever it is that you want to chat about. Um, you can book that through VenusCuckledress.com. Just click on the link that says private chats. All right, that's it for announcements. Let's jump into the show today with Cuckledress Lexi. Here we go. All right, joining me on the show. I have Lexi, known to many as Cuckoldress Lexi. She's your local soccer mom with a very naughty side. Love those type of ladies. Uh, she's been into cuckolding for almost 15 years and has learned what really works, not from fantasy, but from real life. She currently cucks her husband and they have a female-led relationship. Over the last year, Lexi started helping other men finally turn their cuck fantasies into something real through virtual and in-person cuck experiences. She's down to earth, confident and honest, and she loves guiding men who've wanted this their whole lives but never knew how to take this first step. Welcome to the show, Lexi. Say hello to all the listeners. Hi, guys. How are y'all? I'm so excited to have you on the show. It was your husband who reached out, and I was like, yes, more women voices, please. And I'm super excited to learn about what this whole journey has been like for you because you I you've been interested in cuckolding for like 15 years, right?

SPEAKER_00 6:53

Yeah, before I even actually knew that that was the name for it.

SPEAKER_01 6:57

I hear that often, yeah, where people are like, I was doing this, I didn't even know what the fuck it was. Exactly. So, how did you first find out like 15 years ago where you were just like, Oh, maybe I should try this?

SPEAKER_00 7:11

Well, um, I actually had a uh a partner then who had had brought it up. And I I was like, you know what, why not?

unknown 7:22

Why not?

SPEAKER_00 7:23

And um so yeah, I mean, we were we were together for a decade um and did that the whole time again, never mentioned the word cuck or cuck old dress or anything like that. Um we just that was just something that we did. Um and so when my uh now husband we first started dating, we were just barely out the gate, and he just threw it out in a text message and dropped a bomb. I was like, I mean, he really took took a swing for the fences. And um Were you like, what's up with all these guys who have this fantasy? That's that's what I thought initially because I had never been exposed to it before.

SPEAKER_01 8:11

So you were given off some cuckolders' vibes, maybe maybe he's picking up on something.

SPEAKER_00 8:18

No, but um, yeah, so I was uh it was surprising, especially because you know he's a my husband's a very manly man, you know, like he's in the sports and he works out and, you know. And so I just kind of um was a little bit surprised. Um, but I was like, actually, yeah, I've done that before. And I mean, he was basically hearing wedding bells at that point.

SPEAKER_01 8:39

Yeah, he was probably like, all right, let's get married.

unknown 8:42

Exactly.

SPEAKER_01 8:44

Well, good for him for having the courage to bring it up. And did he bring it up in like a gentle way or or weird way or anything like that?

SPEAKER_00 8:53

No, I mean, he was he was pretty gentle. I don't remember his exact words, but he he texted something along the lines of, you know, um, I've always had this thing about, you know, this sort of um thing. He didn't actually call it by name, of course, you know, like too scared to do that. But yeah, uh he he basically told me what he liked, and he told me, you know, and I like, you know, I've recently discovered, you know, like sex clubs and things like that, and I'd really love someone to go with me. And with do you have any interest in having that sort of lifestyle, not just the sex club, but you know, the what we now know is the cuckold lifestyle. And I was like, you know, I've done it before, why not? I'm totally down.

SPEAKER_01 9:36

Did he say that he wanted to like he didn't want the same privilege to sleep with other women? Or did he yeah, okay, so he was he was clear about it. It's a good thing, yeah.

SPEAKER_00 9:46

It's a it's a it's a good thing because um I don't share. I don't share well. I know, I know what you mean. Me neither. Exactly. See, you get it.

From Threesomes To Solo Overnights

SPEAKER_01 9:58

Uh okay, so that's interesting. Isn't that funny? So he brought it up, and you were like, wow, I've actually done that before. And so he was just obviously probably over the moon. Oh my god, I found somebody who's into this. Had he been like, had he done cuckolding with anyone before?

SPEAKER_00 10:18

No, not at all. Um, he had had the fantasy, I think since high school. Um, he'd been dreaming of this for you know 20 plus years. Um, just you know, hoping that maybe someday there's a chance, but I I think he'd almost given up on it. Um, he didn't think he'd actually find anyone. And so it's kind of cool to be his dream come true.

SPEAKER_01 10:41

And amazing that you had experience with it, although you didn't know that that's what you were doing before, but that you had experience. Oh wow, he really won the cuckoldress lottery. He got lucky, right? Like, what are the odds? What are the odds? That's amazing. So, did you guys kind of okay? This is so fun because it was this is all new for him, right? He's fantasized about it forever. Yes, and you have experience, so you kind of get to like pop his cuck cherry, right?

SPEAKER_00 11:11

Yes. I never thought about putting that term, but I love it. That's so fun. Well, you know, like yeah, and and at first, you know, he um was always involved, you know. We we were doing like threesomes sort of thing. Okay. Um, but you know, as time has gone on, you know, it slowly evolved to be, you know, sometimes he would do more of the watching and he would be in charge of, you know, more lube, give me lube, right? You know, and yeah, um, you know, eventually it it progressed into um we went to a sex club one time and uh we met a very nice looking gentleman and we had a threesome there at the sex club, and then the next day, I think it was, we decided you know what would be fun would be if I went and saw this guy on my own for dinner and an overnight sleepover. Yeah. Yeah, and he was all about it, he was so excited, and then not long after he like the gentleman and I had gotten to the hotel room afterwards, I think he started freaking out a little bit. Oh, he's as does happen, yes, yeah, yes, yeah. He he had a little meltdown, like I mean, we're talking like 20 some odd between phone calls and messages, like you know, he was like, Okay, maybe this wasn't a good idea. Actually, um, and I was like, relax. It's cool. I'm coming home in the morning, first thing. And he got over it, made himself go to sleep, and then he was hooked. So then, ever since then, he he loves for me to go do overnights. He's thrilled about it. He doesn't text me once, he doesn't message me, he doesn't call, nothing. And he loves it. He loves the suspense, he loves not knowing you know exactly what I'm doing at that moment, if I am in the middle of dinner or sex or what.

SPEAKER_01 13:15

So isn't that fascinating? This is what I love learning about cucks. I I love learning the way that their mind works because this is so typical. Like a guy will be like all fucking horny, and it cucks will be like, oh my god, I want to, you know, this is so exciting. She's going with this guy. And then all of a sudden he has like the breakdown of like, holy fuck, like, no, I don't really like this. I don't really feel like I'm in control, like, I don't know what the fuck. And he's having this like major angst, anxiety. And it's so funny because like I've had guys on my show who've said their advice with that is like just lean actually lean into it. Don't like pull back, just lean into it because what's on the other side is actually really enjoyable. It's hard to know that, it's hard to see that, but like it's actually really enjoyable. And that sounds like what he went through. Like, he was just like, Holy fuck, this is so awful. And now he loves it.

SPEAKER_00 14:10

Oh, yeah. He was over the moon the next day, and he said that I came, you know, he picked me up from the hotel and he said I was glowing. It's like he's like, that was the best thing.

SPEAKER_01 14:20

In the very beginning, when you guys were just doing like like threesomes and he was more involved sexually and stuff like that. Was that his preference or was that yours? Sorry, come again. In the very beginning, when you guys were just doing like threesomes and you in your husband was more involved. Um, was that his preference or was that yours? Both. Okay. Yeah. It's just more probably more comfort thing for both of you guys, right? Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 14:46

Yeah, definitely. I mean, he he wanted to still be involved, and honestly, I didn't want to be alone with a strange man at the time.

SPEAKER_01 14:53

Yeah. So it works that it works well that way when you have somebody there for sure. Exactly. So what's what how like how did it progress since then? Like, so you guys have I love how this happens because like he's usually starts more of like the stag vixen relationship where he is more involved sexually and like making a lot of the decisions and all of that stuff to it slowly progresses to her being like, you know, I think I want it this way, I don't want to do that way. And uh, and then he slowly like realizes like, oh, I can back off and I'm still in a safe space. Like, this is still hot and this is still fun.

Anxiety, Suspension, And The Hook

Evolving Into A Female-Led Relationship

SPEAKER_00 15:28

That is exactly how it progressed. I mean, you know, tail is old as time, apparently. Yeah, you know, we were we were stagvixen and um and solely that, and we we did that for a while and um we were totally happy with it, but it it did, it slowly progressed into him feeling um not just good about it being me and this other man alone, but it started to become he felt excited when I came home and he he wanted to um you know reclaim me, yeah, you know, as they say. Um and then after a while it got to be such a turn-on for him whenever I would come home that you know he he started to be more um on the submissive side, which is great because it's great to see a different side of him. Um you know, he's he's not really a submissive person, you know, it with work and really everything else, he's very much the the leader and it's his way and you know, all this stuff. And so um it was it was crazy seeing that slow transformation. Um it's still only that way with me. He's still you know, the hard noser everywhere else, but yeah, um yeah, you know, he started to become more submissive, and eventually he came to the realization, you know, I like feeling this way, I like feeling submissive, um, you know, especially in a sexual sense. And um, you know, he actually brought up the idea of a female-led relationship. He had he had heard about it from someone named Venus. I don't know where that came from. In a hat. Imagine that. Yeah. So um, so he started to tell me about it, and I'm all like, go on. I'm I'm all ears, honey. Um, you know, because we're both we're both kind of we're both like leaders, and it's hard to have two leaders in a relationship. Um, it can cause some friction. And so when he was like, you know, what if we tried this? I was like, you know, you twisted my arm. You're twisting my arm, but I I guess we can we can give it a shot. And um it's been it's been great, you know. Um, you know, we still, you know, he has say so and everything, and we have conversations. Um, you know, he gets to bring up concerns and we get to talk it out. Um, so it's not like I'm just like this dictator because I am not, but it's it's definitely shifted our dynamic in a positive way and a way that we're both happy with.

SPEAKER_01 19:22

That's amazing. I I think it goes to show it says a lot about your relationship and that you have created this very emotionally uh safe space for your husband to explore or lean into that submissive side or that side that's willing to kind of just like let go of those little strings of control and give that to you and he feels safe to do that. I think that's amazing. I I love when that happens because I feel I wish more men had the opportunity to have those safe spaces, but also to be loved and appreciated for that side of them. The fact that you said I would love to see see a different side of him. I think that's amazing because a lot of guys will think, no, I don't want to, I don't want to be submissive because she'll lose respect for me. And it's like actually quite the opposite. Exactly. Exactly. It it does not equate to that. Yeah. So okay, and so with the cuckolding aspect, how has that been different? Because now that you're he's kind of leaning into a submissive side and you're leaning into the FLR part of your relationship, I'm assuming that you guys are getting a little kinky.

SPEAKER_00 20:39

Um, I mean, we are so uh not too too long ago, um, we bought him a uh cage.

SPEAKER_01 20:49

I was gonna ask about chastity because I saw a picture with you with a necklace and a key, and I was like, I think there's a lock somewhere.

SPEAKER_00 20:58

That key happened to go to him who was wearing it while he took my pictures. He he was he was literally, I had him kneel down and hold my makeup brushes as I'm getting ready for the photo shoot. So whose idea was it? Was it yours or his? It was his. Okay, okay. It was. And I, you know, I I thought this, you know, this could be something that really adds some spice.

SPEAKER_01 21:29

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 21:30

And it has. It's it's been great, you know. Um, he says that whenever he's wearing it, he feels immediately just very submissive. Um helps get him in that mood, really. Um, after a long day of of being the opposite of that. And um, you know, I I use it more as punishment for when he steps out of line and I have to remind him of his place.

SPEAKER_01 21:59

But yeah, no, it's like how long does he stay locked for?

SPEAKER_00 22:04

I mean, it can be anywhere from half an hour to uh if he's been really naughty, maybe two hours. Okay. Yeah. And then, you know, what if he's been really naughty, um, I will also just randomly, if he says something that's like, if he's already been naughty and I'm already pissed at him, he's wearing that, and then he starts saying something that I'm like, uh-uh. I'll just start moaning and pretending I'm being fucked. And he's like, Ow!

unknown 22:34

Ow!

SPEAKER_00 22:37

And I'm like, It's so tight. Yeah, don't, don't, don't get out of point, you know, don't get online, and then there's all happen.

Chastity Keys And Playful Control

SPEAKER_01 22:46

There's a lot of fun little games that you can play with chastity. That's so awesome to me. And I'm sure he enjoys seeing you wear the key.

SPEAKER_00 22:53

He does. He and in fact, he was uh like his jaw pretty much dropped when he saw me wearing it. So, I mean, that was a nice response that I loved.

SPEAKER_01 23:03

And so, how do you go about finding bulls? And if have you had any challenges with that so far?

SPEAKER_00 23:10

I've had a ton of challenges. Actually, I'm very shocked and surprised. I did not think that, you know, us being women, that it would be that hard to find a decent guy to um, you know, have that sort of relationship with. And it's been very difficult. A lot of flaky people, um, you know, a lot of um guys with demands that you know I'm not comfortable with. I mean, you'd you'd be surprised some of these demands that they think they can ask. And I'm like, I know you're a bull. I get that, I get that, but I'm not doing this, and this is not safe. So I'm not doing that, you know. And so um, you know, it it's been a challenge. And I, you know, I find my bowls in a variety of places, you know, I find them on traditional vanilla dating sites. Yeah. Um, you know, as soon as they figure out and um realize that they can have sex without commitment, their years are pretty interested. Yeah. You know, but I mean some turn and run for the hills, and that's fine. But um, yeah, so I mean I do I do some of that. Um, we we go to sex clubs here and there. Um, we go to house parties, you know, we know a few people who are fine. Yeah, those are fine. Yeah. Yeah. So um we've we've done some of that. Um, you know, and then like, you know, sort of like sites in the industry, like field, you know, places like that.

SPEAKER_01 24:39

And what do you what do you look for in a bull? Like what makes for a good bull for you? Green flag, sexy stuff, all of the things.

SPEAKER_00 24:48

I think someone that um is very personable and seems to have confidence and not at all threatened by my husband. Um, you know, some I've met some guys that they're like, they can't stand the thought of me having a husband. You know, they don't want to think about him, they don't want me to say anything, they don't want to see a ring, they don't want him being anywhere near, they don't want him being like, you know, they're just like, can we just, you know, pretend? And I'm like, that would be such a boner killer for me.

SPEAKER_01 25:27

I'd be like, what the fuck?

SPEAKER_00 25:29

Yes. I'm like, have some confidence in in yourself. Like, you know, this we're not getting married, I'm already married, so you know, why why do we have to do this?

SPEAKER_01 25:43

Why be weird about it? Like, yeah, anyway, yeah. That's anyway. Do you are you a size queen? Do you look for guys who are like well endowed?

Finding Bulls: Red Flags And Green

SPEAKER_00 25:54

Um, I mean, that's always a plus, but I I'm you know, for one thing, you don't know until you like get in there. But um, you know, I I mostly look for a um guy that I find attractive. Um, you know, so a cute guy, um, you know, in decent shape. He doesn't have to be like a bodybuilder just in decent shape, um, and that has a great charismatic personality, um, someone that I enjoy talking to, and that seems very confident and dominant, but yet at the same time not an asshole.

unknown 26:30

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 26:30

Because there's a difference between dominance and and confidence and just being a dick, you know. So uh if they're a dick at all, I'm not interested. I don't care if you're Brad Pitt, like I'm not interested.

SPEAKER_01 26:42

So you don't ask for a dick pic beforehand or anything like that? Oh well, they usually supply them before I ask.

SPEAKER_00 26:50

I mean, let's just be honest, like I don't even have to ask. Um, but no, usually um I don't, but most of the time they just send it so I know.

SPEAKER_01 27:03

Have you ever because I have, I have definitely met up with a guy before where I didn't do I didn't didn't figure it out before with his size and got to it and I was just like, oh I this is not gonna work for me. Have you had that happen?

SPEAKER_00 27:22

Um I I have. I have had that happen.

SPEAKER_01 27:25

Yeah. It's so awkward because you don't want to say anything because you don't know how this guy's gonna react. And um and but it's disappointing. You're just like, oh damn, yeah, that's not gonna, that's not gonna do it.

SPEAKER_00 27:37

I think it's kind of yeah, yeah. I think it's kind of unfair, you know, because like with men, you know, we can't tell in your pants what you're what you're backing. Right. Y'all can't tell exactly how big our boobs are. And typically the bigger our boobs, the more interested you are. Right. But you know, um I have, however, I will say I have had several men in my in my history um of that were a little below average and they knew how to work that thing. Oh my gosh. They knew how to do it. And so it made up for it totally.

SPEAKER_01 28:13

Yeah, I think they have to learn really good skills.

SPEAKER_00 28:16

Yeah, it's like, you know, if you're a guy and you're short, you gotta be funny, you know, like yeah.

SPEAKER_01 28:23

Some of the guys who I know who have like are you know not well endowed, they have the best oral skills where you're just like, holy shit, like wow. That too.

unknown 28:33

That too. Yes.

SPEAKER_01 28:36

Does your husband speaking of oral skills, does your husband like to do anything like cleanup or just the uh like reconnecting sex afterwards?

SPEAKER_00 28:45

Um he he does like the cleanup. Um of course I always use protection, so there's no you know, that kind of cleanup.

SPEAKER_02 28:54

Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_00 28:54

Um, but um, he does like um tasting me and he could taste a little bit of the lube in the condom, which I'm like, okay, if you like tasting that's fine. But um, you know, he likes you know, as soon as possible afterwards, because he likes feeling that, you know, I'm not quite as tight as I was before I left the house. Yeah. Um, you know, he's like, that's how I know it was good. And um, you know, when we started off, it was, you know, re definitely the reclaiming sex all the time, every time. And often for the next several days, he would be just so horny, so ready to go that I mean, like, I would have to push him off me. Like, come on, okay, I get it, I know. Um yes, I'm your goddess. I did so well. You're welcome. But, you know, now we've gotten to a point where um, you know, I was as I have come into my my cuckoldress um, you know, skills and personality, and I've started to really develop that. Now he doesn't get the same rights and privileges that he used to. So he has to earn those. Um, you know, if I am away um, you know, with a uh a guy overnight, um, you know, I used to have to recite every detail to him in the morning, and now he has to earn that. If he doesn't, you know, if he's being cocky that day, if he's being like he hasn't his coffee, he's being grumpy toward me. I'm just like, okay, I'm not telling you anything about last night. I love that. Make him work for it. Make him work for it. Yeah, I mean, you know, so it's not it's not a guarantee. He doesn't get to just reclaim me. You know, there there have been times, you know, recently where as we progress again, he's had to wait a week before I let him in. Um, you know, I mean, he he was trying so hard. He like bought me chocolates, and I was like, did you really buy me chocolates? He's like, Yeah, and I was like, all right, come on.

SPEAKER_01 30:55

He can do better than that though.

Aftercare, Reclaiming, And Earning Privileges

SPEAKER_00 30:57

I know, I know, but I mean, it was so sweet though. I like cute. But you know, there we've we've come up with some rules since we have um come into this sort of um dynamic, and really I have I've just kind of naturally progressed and fallen into what apparently I'm naturally good at, according to him. Um and according to you know, guys that I have had virtual and in-person cuck sessions with. Um, so you know, like he doesn't get BJs uh unless we are shooting like custom content or something like that. Okay. Um, he doesn't get to see me in lingerie unless he's shooting, you know, we're doing photo shoots.

SPEAKER_01 31:39

Um, you know, things like that. So I love those kind of like unfairness rules, you know. Do you just make things this a little bit some people might say cruel or whatever? It's not, it's fun, it's a game. You just amping up the unfairness of stuff is super hot for a lot of cucks for sure.

SPEAKER_00 31:58

Absolutely. And I mean that's that's what the guys love, you know, that that I've that I've come across that I've um, you know, worked with. Like they they love it, they love the cruelty. And um, so it's it's a it's fun. It's it's there's a you know, it's fun in a non-sadistic way.

unknown 32:16

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 32:17

Well, you mentioned that you have, you know, become more confident in your role as a cuck cuckled dress. Um, why do you why is it that you think that this kind of relationship suits you so well? I know your relationship has evolved and is evolving, will probably continue to evolve. So what it looks like today might not be what it looks like five years from now. But how like how have you felt like this has been good for you or not good for you or helped you in different ways?

SPEAKER_00 32:49

I mean, I feel like it has helped my confidence level. Um, you know, before, especially if with there's when there's two leaders trying to bump heads and you know be the ruler of whatever situation, um, it can be a little disheartening and sometimes you maybe quiet yourself a bit, which is not natural for me because um, you know, I am I have a problem with authority. And I, you know, I just I naturally like, you know, I I don't like to be told what to do. I don't like to follow. And so since, you know, he decided, you know, what if we give this give this a shot? And I was like, not just what if we are, you know. Yeah, it's it's it's been wonderful. I I have more confidence. Um I I feel like I've really come into my own. I feel like it has um obviously done wonders and been the the bedrock of my ability to you know be a caculturist for others. Um, you know, I wouldn't be where I am today or have this experience or have this um, you know, my apparently natural talent, you know, exposed if it weren't for him. Yeah, you know, pulling it out of me. And once he started to pull the thread, I mean he didn't have to pull much for much more, I just did it. Like I was like, all right, I got this. Like, yeah, got it.

SPEAKER_01 34:12

So what is this thing that you do with these sessions that you do, I guess, um, for guys who have a cuckled fantasy, uh, you said in-person or um online session. Is are they sessions? Mm-hmm. Okay.

SPEAKER_00 34:28

Yeah. So like virtual sessions, um, you know, they can be 30 minutes, they can be an hour. Um, you know, it's just um, you know, it differs. Some a lot of guys want me to pretend that I am their wife.

SPEAKER_02 34:43

Okay.

SPEAKER_00 34:43

And that, and I I cuck them. I cuck them with um another man, whether it's my husband or a bull or uh, you know, whoever. Um they, you know, it's it's a it's really fun. Um, what's even more fun though is the in-person ones. Um they they get to enjoy from start to finish. Like I have them get all my stuff ready for me. They pick out my outfits. They, you know, are like like way that I do with my husband, they're they're holding my brushes at attention while I'm, you know, putting on my makeup and getting ready to be with anyone but them. You know, um they um, you know, go to the restaurant. They either sit with me in my bowl or they can be just watching from a nearby table. Um we have gone to sex clubs where they just get to sit there um a lot of times in their cage um under their pants and and watch me have sex with um a bull or um someone that I meet that night. Um usually it's a bull that I've already picked out ahead of time, but you know, those sort of things and getting to just tease them all throughout, it's so much fun. It's just it's it's a blast, you know, and they just have to sit there.

Coaching Couples And Curious Cucks

SPEAKER_01 35:58

There was years ago when I was still, I was trying to figure out, you know, learn the basics about cuckolding and stuff where I thought that cuckolding sessions through sex work wasn't real, well what I call real cuckolding. Well, the it's it's different, it's not entirely the same as like a couple, but I it's still valid, it's still a way to explore this kind of relationship. It it who am I to fucking say if it's real or not? Who gives a fuck? I think that's a great thing about cuckolding is that people out there can live it and experience it however the fuck you want. If you're a guy and you have, like many of them, have trouble finding a woman who's into this. Maybe you have a wife who's fucking completely never gonna do this for you. And you can ask her, like, you know, what if I what if I do a session? It's all make, it's all pretend, you know, like it's just it's just gonna be a way for me to live this. That's like totally fine. It should be fine. Having those options, I think, is really um important. And I think it's great that guys have their option to do that. I wanted to ask you though, do you ever get guys who are just ridiculous about it, who are who are like little mini Steven Spielbergs who want to direct the scene and want like you to do this and this and this, and like literally just like want you to be their personal porn porn star for that session or something? No, no, you're like, I don't I don't fuck with that.

SPEAKER_00 37:20

That's not happening, no, no. Um, I I have had a few try and pull that, and usually when they try and pull it, they pull it before we've ever even met in person or anything like that. Um, you know, and they want to like direct me in the bull and everything like that. And um I can pretty I can sniff them out pretty quickly when they're they're like that. And they're like everything has to be just this so and da-da-da-da-da. And all that. And I want this angle and I want that, and like, yeah. Exactly. I'll do it to an extent, of course, but um there comes a time where I'm like, I don't work with divas, I'm the diva. You know, so and you know, speaking of uh what you were saying, you know, like um, you know, these men that are like, you know, really hoping to have it and their, you know, maybe their spouse is just not about it, things like that. Um I've come across that so often. I've I've actually started like um doing basically cuckolding coaching um for men wanting to try and figure out how to talk their wife into it because it's delicate, you know, it's it's so delicate, you gotta do it right, you gotta take it slow. Otherwise, you're gonna blow it, you're never gonna get it. So, you know, I do like cuckolding um coaching for men, and then um on rare occasion, but every now and then I have um women that kind of come to me and they're like, Okay, so my husband talked to you, and I'm like, Yeah. And they're like, I mean, how should I feel about this? Help me walk through my feelings. And I'm like, absolutely, you know, like this this is something that you know you you maybe didn't see coming, but you know, this is a good way to look at it this way, and this is a positive way this way, and you may be feeling this way, but let's talk about that and see what the the deep-rooted reason why maybe you aren't quite so open to it might be, things like that. So and I do that as well. I mean, again, everything just kind of naturally just progressed. I kept I kept um having people need certain things, and I was like, I can do that, I can help you with that.

SPEAKER_01 39:26

Yeah, just yesterday I had an amazing private chat um that uh with a woman, a wife who her husband booked it for her. Uh, because she was struggling, struggling with some some aspects of this lifestyle or um and I love having those conversations with the ladies. I love being able to to talk to them about it. And and I learned so much for them from them. Hopefully they learn a few things from me too. But it's it's great to have um that as a resource. Those are options um where people can you know reach out and better understand themselves and the situation that they're in and get some tips and pointers and hopefully help help with all of that. So absolutely. So you said you would do content as well. So you are filming, you have like a fansly account, right? I do.

Content, Fansly, And Scaling A Hobby

SPEAKER_00 40:14

I just have a fansly. Um how's that going? Well, it's still new. Um, it's you know, it's I haven't been doing this for 15 years, like I've been cuck doing cuck holding. You know, this is uh this is still um very much a you know newer thing that's a work in progress. I'm still deciding how I want it to go, um, you know, different things I want to feature, but it it is centered around the idea of cuck holding. You know, a lot of my videos are um talking directly to my cuck. And um, yeah, so it's it's a lot of that. It's it's I'm mostly just focusing on talking to um my my audience who are who are wanting to be cuck holded and are wanting that dominant woman in their life.

SPEAKER_01 41:05

So you're doing a lot of stuff. Is this like a like a full-time job for you?

SPEAKER_00 41:10

Or no it it is not. Um not currently. I mean, I would love for it to be that someday, but um no, it's it's definitely something, it's a it's a um what's it called? You know, it's just a a like a hobby. Yeah, it's a it's a hobby that I love. Um, you know, and it's something that I would love, you know, if I could, um anyone who loves something and wants to turn it and it has it as a hobby and is interested in it, you'd love the opportunity to turn it into a full-time job. Um, but that's definitely not what I'm you know, that's not where I'm at right now. Um, and I I do have, you know, full-time work. I have other side gigs, actually, you know, just like random things or just random, but um yeah, no, right now, um this is um just a a favored pastime for me, but I would love to, you know, at least get more involved, focus on it more, um, be able to make more time for it and hopefully be able to, you know, reach more people and and uh help more people because you know it's my husband is such a great example of of these men, all these men, and and he's you know, he's talked to a lot of men that they go their whole lives and they never get to you know scratch this itch.

SPEAKER_01 42:37

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 42:38

They never get to express it, they never get anyone who understands. Um, and I think that's terrible. And I think that um it's a wonderful, beautiful thing. It's becoming more popular, it's becoming more um, you know, of a thing. And you know, I would love to, you know, be a part of that for for people, if I could.

SPEAKER_01 43:00

Why do you think that there's so few women who are uh aware of cuckolding or interested in cuckolding?

SPEAKER_00 43:08

Honestly, I have no clue. I do not know. It's I I was shocked to realize that there were there weren't very many. Yeah. Um it was I was I was very surprised because there's plenty of dominatrix. Yes. You know, there's there's lots of those. Um, so how can there be so many of those and so few, you know, of us? I just didn't understand. And I still don't to this day. I don't have a theory. I I mean, my my only theory, I guess, is that men have been scared to talk about it, scared to approach it with their wives. Um, and the ones that dared to approach it, maybe they did it a little too abruptly and on the nose, type like, hey, yeah, you know, I want you to fuck other dudes. Exactly, exactly. Yeah, and then that failed miserably, and so then they never talked about it again.

SPEAKER_01 44:04

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 44:05

So another exactly, exactly, yeah. I mean, that they were so excited, but they kind of they blew their shot, yeah. Yeah, yeah. So I think that's my only theory, but um honestly I am shocked by how few there are.

Normalizing One-Sided Open Relationships

SPEAKER_01 44:19

Yeah, so thankful for the guys who do bring it up because um I would not have known about it unless it was, you know, there was it was a guy who brought it up to me, and I was just like, What? Are you serious? Like this is a thing, and same with you. It was a guy, you know how many women I've talked to, of the few women who are into this, who've said to me, Oh, uh, it was my husband that brought it up. It was my partner at the time who I I found out about it from a guy who brought it up. And the fact that we don't see it on dating apps is ridiculous. Like it should, it's just a one-sided open relationship if you really fucking think about it. But guys are terrified to put it on their dating app because they're like, oh my god, no, I don't want anybody knowing that I'm into this. I'm like, if you were Polly or swingers or in an open relationship, that's not so taboo anymore. You can put that on your profile, especially on apps like Field or and stuff like that. It's not a big deal. What nobody's fucking scared of that, like literally, it's fine. So why can't you just put I'm interested in a one-sided open relationship where she gets extra fun and we both love it that way? Ask me more about it. Like, that's not fucking weird.

SPEAKER_00 45:35

No, it's not.

SPEAKER_01 45:36

I I agree entirely, and so we should try and normalize that somehow. Yeah, if more women were to see that, they'd be like, Oh, maybe I do want to ask about what this is all about. Why is it only open on one side? Do you really like it? When it's only open on one side. You know, all the questions.

SPEAKER_00 45:54

It works so perfectly for me because I don't share, but I mean, women, come on.

SPEAKER_01 46:01

Right? Variety. You're right. Variety. I know. I have had experience since since being given the gift of cuckolding. I have had sexual experiences that have blown my fucking mind. Where I was like, I never would have had that in my life if I just stuck to monogamy. I never I've had some shitty experiences too, which I'm sure you have too. Some bad sex along the way. Some really shitty sex. But I have experienced some things where I was just like, wow, I I never knew that that was a like a thing. I didn't know that sex existed like that, you know? So it is a privilege, really.

SPEAKER_00 46:46

It's a gift.

SPEAKER_01 46:47

It is.

SPEAKER_00 46:48

I wish, I wish that more women would would come to realize that. Like all the benefits and none of the drawbacks.

SPEAKER_01 46:55

Well, there's some safety shit, and there's like a lot of, you know, there's concerns around that. So I get it. But yeah, there's uh, you know, this really is something. This is all about like, and I've said it before in the show, but this really is about elevating women's sexuality and empowerment. This is about witnessing her becoming a confident fucking queen. This is about like being in awe of her sexual prowess and just being like, damn, look at my wife. Exactly. Exactly. That's a good thing. It's yeah, this is about celebrating your woman's sexuality. And I think that's as women, we don't normally get that. So, yes, there's a lot in in it for women for cuckolding. And I wish that there was more women who were aware of it and more in like curious to learn, at least. But anyway.

SPEAKER_00 47:50

Absolutely. I mean, they don't know what they're missing out on. I mean, I had uh, you know, I've had so many fun experiences, including on my honeymoon, that I mean Okay, wait, yes, we need to talk about this honeymoon thing.

SPEAKER_01 48:02

So, so exact okay, whose idea was it? How did it happen? And what was this all about? Come on, you already know whose idea it was. Well, I thought maybe, maybe, maybe it would be yours, but no.

unknown 48:15

Nope.

SPEAKER_00 48:16

But I I definitely was not um that opposed to it. Um, and you know, thanks to you know, the gift of alcohol, um I I was I was totally down for it. We went to um a sex club in London and we met a few guys, um, brought two back to our hotel room, a guy from London and a guy from Russia. And um the guy from Russia was girl. He was big. And um, and I, you know, again, I had had a few drinks, and so um I am being very loud in um the hotel room and got security called twice.

SPEAKER_01 49:03

I know, not my proudest moment, but also kind of cool. Hey, I had I had police called on me before for the same reason, and there were five police officers that showed up at the door. It was so embarrassing. Oh gosh, so I know I know what that's like. I know what that's like.

The Wild London Honeymoon

SPEAKER_00 49:18

Yeah, no, um, that's that's definitely much worse. But the security guard that was coming, I think there were two of them actually. I don't know why it took two, but um, they were coming up to the room, and my husband and the guy from London were leaving to go get some snacks because this took a while. We had a lot of time. Girl needs snacks, yes. Girl needs snacks. Um, I'm still getting fucked in the room, still making noise. And so they approached these security guards and they're like, um, are you are you going to that room? This room number, and they're like, Yep. And my husband's like, Oh, don't worry about it. Those aren't like, you know, screams of pain, they're screams of pleasure. It's just my wife.

SPEAKER_01 50:04

My new wife.

SPEAKER_00 50:05

So you know the security guard. Yes, the security guard is like, okay. So this man with another man is telling me that that's his wife that is currently getting fucked up in here. Like, I mean, that has to be one of like the stories that's going to be told from person to person that works at that hotel from now until eternity.

SPEAKER_01 50:26

Like, that's so awesome. You need to work that into some sort of content for a video. You need to reenact that because that is so awesome.

SPEAKER_00 50:34

Yeah. And then, like, when um the Russian at one point like takes a little short video and he like shows himself, you know, after like I'm getting, you know, spit roasted. And he like points the camera to himself and he's like, Happy honeymoon.

SPEAKER_01 50:50

Oh my god. That's so awesome. Life is short. So, what happened with the security guards?

SPEAKER_00 50:56

Were they were like, were they like, okay, like we'll just the first time they were like, oh, oh, all right. And the second time they were like, seriously, dude, gotta keep it down, okay? Keep it down.

SPEAKER_01 51:12

So how do you keep it down though? Because I can't. When the sex is actually really good, like I'm loud as fuck, and it's really kills the vibe to have to like mute myself.

SPEAKER_00 51:22

I know it does, it does. Yeah. I'm I I honestly gosh, I'm trying to remember the end of that night.

SPEAKER_01 51:30

I mean, I had to, but um did you get did you get pictures and videos and stuff from that night? I'm hoping that you did.

SPEAKER_00 51:37

No, that was the only one I got. That was it with a short little video because my husband was scared that if I took video, if he took video, you know, and I was, you know, um, maybe like I'd had enough that I might not remember it exactly, like that he that I'd be upset. I'd be like, how dare you take video of me? And so he didn't take any video, and I was kind of like, oh, you didn't.

SPEAKER_01 51:58

Oh yeah, because oh my god. I would definitely want video of that. Yeah, yeah. It was it was pretty epic, not gonna lie. That's fucking amazing. So, okay, that that's pretty amazing. I definitely, I definitely want uh a gangbang on my wedding night, if that ever happens, but that's been that's my like my ultimate fantasy. Um, are there some things on your like fan cuckled just fantasy bucket list that you're hoping to one day do?

SPEAKER_00 52:29

I mean, I haven't really thought that far ahead. Um, I'm pretty much one of those people that like I don't I don't plan well enough. I'm like, this is day-to-day. This is what I'm doing. Yeah, this is what I'm doing. Um I'm sure your husband has a whole fucking list. He probably does. He probably does. And not even know of half of it. He's been thinking about it making this list in his mind for decades, I'm sure. Yeah. The only thing I could think would be like getting to travel the world cuck to cuck. Like just, you know, go, you know, be flown out to wherever. I mean, Romania, Morocco, who cares, like the Bahamas, whatever. And getting to basically cuck guys on every continent and as many countries as possible.

SPEAKER_01 53:19

Hey, the caculdress tour. There that needs to be a thing. Right?

SPEAKER_00 53:26

Let's do it. We'll tag team it. Together, we'll be unstoppable. Oh my god. Everyone will want us.

SPEAKER_01 53:33

Oh my god, that would be fucking hilarious. But that sure, that that should be a fucking thing. It absolutely should. Hey, it should pass. That's awesome. Well, we uh we're running out of time, but I wanted to ask you, do you have any kind of like final thoughts on you know your cuckolding journey? Any final pieces of advice for people um who might be listening to this um before we wrap it up?

SPEAKER_00 54:02

Um Yeah, I I would say um don't be afraid of expressing you know what you're into. You may have to do it gently, bit by bit, piece by piece, just to you know ease people into it. But it doesn't mean that you shouldn't necessarily try. Life is short. You know, if this is something that you're really wanting and you have a spouse that, you know, loves you dearly, there's a chance that they may be willing to do this. And if not, there's uh always opportunities, like us, to you know, have that fun without crossing any boundaries with your spouse. There's still um, you know, a lot of opportunity to have fun, be in the lifestyle, enjoy the lifestyle um in in different ways.

Bucket Lists And World Cuck Tour

SPEAKER_01 54:53

Yeah, yeah, absolutely. And I absolutely love and adore the part of your story where you um were talking about how your husband was able to feel safe to explore his submissive side. I I love and adore that so much. I think that's fantastic. I think all couples should be able to create safe spaces for each other to explore different sides of themselves. And it just builds intimacy, it builds bond, it builds trust and gives you that kind of next level love. So I love that part of your stories. Thank you. Lexi, I just want to um ask you before uh we say goodbye, where can people learn more about you or find more information about you?

SPEAKER_00 55:33

So I think the simplest way is either to go to my website, um, Coculturist Lexi. That's L-E-X-I-E dot com. Um, from there, you can also, there's a link to my fansly. Um, and those are the best ways to find me.

SPEAKER_01 55:49

Awesome. Well, thank you so much for joining me on the show today. This has been a ton of fun, and I've loved hearing your story, so thank you. Oh, it's been such a pleasure and an honor. Thank you so much for having me. That's gonna be it for today's episode. Thank you so much for joining me. Make sure you go to VenusCuckledris.com. That's where you can book a private chat with me, and you can also join the Queen's Porters community and get all the amazing benefits like the private podcast and the helpful cuck tier, where you can get key holding, the private Snapchat group, monthly private chats with me, and weekly live hangouts and invites to special live events. Oh, and you can also submit a question or confession for the show. Just go to VenusCuckledris.com and click on the link that says the podcast. Make sure you follow me on Blue Sky Social. Yes, I said blue sky social fuck Twitter. My handle there is at Cuckledist V. All right, that's it for today's show. You guys, we'll see you next time!