Confessions: Rare Bull Humiliation, Declining Cleanup, & True or False Fantasy?

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Transcript

Soccer Joy And Quick Welcome

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This is the Venus Cuckolders Podcast, a place to learn all things cuckolding for the curious, for the passionate, and for the sexually empowered woman who wants it all.

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Let's go.

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Welcome to the show. I'm your host, Venus. Thanks for joining me today. Uh, on the last episode in the beginning of the show, I did talk about my love of soccer or football, whatever you want to call it. Um, I'm a huge fucking fan. And wow, shit has happened. I'm up here in Canada. Most people don't realize that. They think that I'm in the US just because I don't know, most of my listeners are located in the US. But no, I'm up here in Canada. And um, yeah, we are one of the host nations, and shit just went down with Team Canada winning their World Cup match 6-0. And it was so exciting. Holy shit. I watched it at a pub with some friends, and it was just wild. It was so exciting. I was, I almost like lost my voice afterwards because I was just like screaming the whole time. It was so fucking fun. But now I just found out I'm going to a FIFA World Cup match soon. And I am just like beyond excited. I am so fucking thrilled. One of my fans, so thank you. You know who you are, who was taking me to this match. And oh my god, I cannot fucking wait. So I'm gonna lose my mind in the next little while, completely, like fucking lose it because I'm so excited and literally can't sleep. Like I'm I'm I'm just freaking out. It's so much fun. Anyway, back to the show. Today's show is a confessions episode, and I'm always so surprised at how much you guys love these confessions episodes. I love doing them, I have a lot of fun doing them. Um, but yeah, you guys seem to really love these confessions episodes. Basically, I have my fans have the ability to send in a voice note. They have up to five minutes to record a voice note. It can be a question, a comment, or a confession. And sometimes I use these in the show. So this is like so much fun. Sometimes um they're funny, some are completely fucking filthy, and sometimes, like today, I learned something new, something I haven't heard of before, which is crazy. Um, and sometimes these confessions are completely fucking wild. Okay. Sometimes you guys surprise me. And sometimes these confessions are straight up bullshit. But whether they're real or not, I'll let you guys decide. Is it true? Is it false? Is it real or is it just fantasy vomit? I'll let you guys figure that out.

Live Event Announcement And Confessions Setup

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Um, all right, before we jump in, I have just one announcement. There, Emma and Ken were recently on this show to talk about their story, and they were so much fun. Uh, they're gonna be joining me for a pillow talk live chat event. This will be live in the Queen's Quarters community. And that is mark your calendars gonna be July 17th at 1.30 Pacific time. That's 4:30 Eastern time. It's free to join live. If you want to check it out, it's in the Queen's Quarters community at Venuscuckoldris.com. All you got to do is register for access, free access to the community, and then you'll be able to see the event and RSVP. You can learn more about how to do that at Venuscuckledress.com. Just click on the events tab and you can just pop in there and RSVP. But make sure you check it out, it's gonna be a ton of fun. That's with Emma and Ken. All right, that's it for announcements. Let's jump into the show today. Here we go.

Toe Worship Humiliation Power Play

SPEAKER_00 4:24

Hi, Venus. Um, I'd like to remain anonymous. I just wanted your opinion on um, you know, something that um obviously my bull and my wife were very um amazed, right? And so we kind of do this whole thing where uh he actually loves his toes and um you know by me as a sort of you know power play thing and just wanted your opinion on that. I love doing it, my wife loves watching it and the bull loves receiving it. Can you just give me a possible I know your opinion on this and what you think of it?

SPEAKER_05 5:20

I'm actually quite surprised that I have not come across this yet. It's been like I don't know, fucking 10, 15 years. I don't even know how many fucking years it's been that I have been in this lifestyle learning about cuckolding, talking to cucks, cuck talking to couples, bulls, all the things. And I have not come across this yet. I thought I'd seen it all. I thought that like I'd heard it all as far as like how to humiliate your cuck and and like I but I'm shocked. I have never actually heard of this where the cuck has to lick or suck the bull's toes while he's with the wife. Um, and I'm like honestly, I'm like, fucking go for it. I mean, I've I don't know that I feel any kind of way about it because I mean go for it. I mean, who who gives a shit, right? Like if you're all down and you all enjoy it, then fucking go for it. Um but I'm just shocked, I've never heard of it before. But I do think, like, I don't know if I'm gonna get in shit for saying this, but like for me, I think women's toes are can be quite pretty and like sexy, and they take good care of them and they like paint them all pretty colors and get pedicures and all the things and like look great in heels and stuff. So I get why like so many guys have foot fetishes, and I I you know I personally love guys who have a foot fetish. I love having my feet worshipped, I love all of that, but like when it comes to like worshiping a guy's toes, I don't know. I don't know that they're on like the same level of like sexy, pretty, like I don't know. I just and I hate saying that because like I'm sure there's lots of like gay guys who love like foot stuff with each other. And I like hate saying that, like maybe guys aren't as sexy, but I'm just saying like my own my own feelings towards it. Um, I'm not sure that I would feel the same way about like worshiping a guy's feet, but anyway, I I fucking go for it. Like, and it's the the thing that makes this really unique is that you guys are doing it as part of power play, which like is hilarious because like I said, I can't believe I haven't heard of this. Like that it would be something humiliating for the cuck to have to suck on the bull's toes while he's fucking his wife. I just think that's like great. I don't think that like I would particularly enjoy that. I mean, there's things, some things about like power play, power dynamics within cuckolding um that I think are really hot and I really like a lot. And then there's some things that like just don't do it for me. And I think this is probably one of the things that just wouldn't do it for me, but that's just me. I'm not like who gives a shit. Um, but I say go for it. If this is something that you guys have fun with and everybody likes it and you get off on feeling very cucky because you have to suck the bull's toes, then fucking go for it and have fun.

SPEAKER_02 8:47

Hello, Venus. I'm a

Cleanup Anxiety And Label Stress

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cockold, but I do have a question. I was just wondering what everybody's opinion is that I have no problem. I get my wife ready dressed to go out and the guy she's with. But and we do have sex when she comes back, but I do not um have oral with her when she's been with someone else. Um does that change me from being a cuckoo or is that a lot of cuckoes do that, that they don't have oral with me when I come back? I have no problem making love to her afterwards and that, but I don't I don't clean her after, but I do dress when I get her ready. I arrange hotel rooms for her, dinners everything for the guy she goes with. She does have a couple of regular guys, and it's been really great for her, and it's been rewarding. Um, our sex life is not as busy as it was, but it's more intense when it does happen. I'm just wondering what your anyone's opinion might be of it. Is uh am I doing it right there? I realize everybody has their own way of doing things, but about once a month she does get dressed up, goes out. I help her get ready, buy her outfits, uh, set up hotel rooms and pay for them, pays for dinner, uh basically anything she needs for an evening of pleasure and sometimes even an overnight. But uh one thing I don't do is ever clean her afterwards. I just wonder what everybody's feelings are about that. Thank you.

SPEAKER_05 10:30

So I think it's absolutely untrue that you have to do cleanup to have some sort of cuckled status or use the label cuckled to describe yourself. Like, I don't know why we get like in this lifestyle, lots of people myself, I have done this in the past too. I've been guilty of this, is like just like getting hung up on the labels and what's like the definitions are, and if you fall outside of that in some way that like it's not valid or it's not real or whatever, it's not true cuckolding or whatever. Like it's just fucking ridiculous. You can do cuckolding however the fuck you want, you can do hot wifing however the fuck you want, you can play with it as a little spice for your marriage, you can dive right in and live it 24-7, you can involve all sorts of kinky play, or you cannot. And in lots of cases, she doesn't even have to sleep with other guys for you guys to have fun with cuckold fantasies together. So, I mean, there's like a gazillion and one ways to do cuckolding. Doing cleanup doesn't have to be included. It can, it doesn't have to. I would say probably most of the couples who I have known over the years don't actually do cleanup. It's not part of what they do, but they do usually, I would say the most common thing is what you guys are already doing, which is that reconnection sex afterwards. And I will say that probably the number one most in-demand kind of cuck rituals is the getting her ready for the date with her bull. Um, that's what drives cucks crazy, that's what they love the most and they have the most fun doing, and that's what a lot of couples do together, and that's how they part of a big part of how they do their cuck holding fantasies together. So um, and you're already doing all of those things, and so that's pretty normal, and I think that's pretty typical. And so don't worry if you don't do um cleanup. One thing though that you didn't mention was why you don't do cleanup. So I was curious about that, and I was like wondering, you know, which is fine if you like I said, fine if you don't do cleanup if you just like don't like to. I mean, that's fine, but it would have been nice if you just said like I don't do it because like I get the ick from it, or my wife gets the ick from it, or whatever, it's just high risk for STIs or whatever. Like, just I don't know, just it would have been nice to know what the reason was, just because people who are listening might be able to relate to that and not feel like they're the only ones that feel that way. But anyway, there's lots of reasons why you might want to not want to do cleanup, and that is totally fine if you don't do it. You can still be a cuck, you could still live your best cuck life with your wife who loves to cuck you and have fun with herbs. Personally, I fucking love cleanup. I think it is, I feel like it is the pinnacle of cuckolding. It is one of, for myself, one of the most like bonding, connecting, most intimate experiences that you can have together. But I get that it's not for everybody. Um, and there can be, you know, a lot of really practical reasons around not doing cleanup, like birth control um and the risk of pregnancy, the risk of STIs and stuff like that. So, hey, if you don't want to do it, that's totally fine.

A Hotel Date Story Turns Dark

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Like uh many of your listeners, I was uh massively turned on by the cuckle fantasy, and my wife and I had been swinging for several years, and over that time, swinging kind of developed into cuckoldry. Uh my wife never liked the idea too much of the performative aspect of cuckoldry, and she decided she wanted to have an experience on her own with another guy. So I was tasked with finding an appropriate bull. I was on a swinger's website and I found a guy that seemed really cool. He had a list of verifications from wives who attested to his physique and his manhood. And I set up a coffee date for my wife and this guy, and it went really well. After I picked my wife up from the coffee date, she was she was gowing. And she was still really nervous about meeting him for a play date. So I would go down on her every night and get her, ask her to think about him, to fantasize about him while I had her out. She would come thinking about him in my mouth. So eventually the time came for the date. I booked a room. I remember the day I booked a room in the hotel. I paid for it on my credit card. I felt so sick. I felt sick with jealousy. I was thinking, what the hell am I doing? Um I had to sit down and read all the verifications from the Hot Wives again. And yeah, on the night of the big, big day, I spent the whole day pampering her, shaving her pussy, uh, helping her pick up some clothes. I bought her some new lingerie, I took her out for dinner, um, bought her a few cocktails. We went to the hotel and got her, she got settled in. Um surprised me by asking me to take a few photographs to send to him. This is so uncharacteristic for her. She prepared me for the date by telling me to get on my knees and she'd kick me in the balls in the room, the room where she was going to play with her new bull. I lay her down in the bed and I whispered in her ears. I thanked her for kicking me in the balls. And I whispered in her ears that the next time she would be in this room to be with another man. Then we went. I took her to the bar, I dropped her off at the bar. I waited outside. And then eventually she called me, she said the date was going well, and that they were gonna go back to the room. It was just around the corner from the hotel, so I watched them walk around like a peeping tom, like a voyeur, and I watched them disappear into the hotel together, hand in hand. And I knew the next time that I saw my wife, I would be her cook. I waited at home anxiously for her to call me, and eventually she I got the call to come and pick her up. I waited outside, but the both taxis still hadn't arrived. I felt a taxi pull up and he left. Uh and he waved at me, smiled, he looked very, very satisfied with himself altogether. I practically ran up the stairs of the hotel into the room. The smell of sex hit me so hard. I looked at my wife and she had such a cheeky and nervous smile on her face. I knew she was gonna drop a bomb. I she said, Baby, I've got something to tell you. And I said, What is it? She says, We didn't use any condoms. My heart sank to the bottom of my stomach. And she says, Is that okay? And I said it was okay with me. I jumped onto the bed, I got between her legs. I uh asked her if his dick was bigger than mine. She said it was so much bigger. I I asked her where he came. She said he came on her stomach. I asked her if she came, and she said he she did. She came on his fingers. And uh I slipped inside her. I asked her if she could feel me, and she said she could barely feel me. Needless to say, I didn't last long before my gum joined us.

SPEAKER_05 19:04

This confession is so funny because uh I I definitely believed everything with the swingers part. I definitely believed the part where you guys sort of decided to move into the cuckolding part because that's very typical, okay? But I and I definitely believed it when he said that his wife was not, she said she's not into the performative aspects of cuckolding. So she wanted to go and have this experience by herself with this bull, with this guy who she doesn't know. Um, and so I believe all of that. That's that sounds absolutely legit. Okay. I believe that you found her a bull. I believe that you were really turned on by that. I believe that you got this like super high-level angsty, what the fuck have I done thing when you when you actually found her this well? Like that's I get that. That is uh I believe that a hundred percent. I believe that you were nervous about or that she was nervous about meeting him. I believe that you guys, you know, talked about this during sex because like this really turned you on, and and it was fun to pillow talk that in the bedroom. I believe all of that. I believe even that you got her ready for this date. But everything after that sounds like bullshit. There's this moment, right? When you're telling the story about like when she decided to come out of her comfort zone and take photos, that's when I started to like kind of question the legitimateness of this. Like, I was just like, I don't know. And

Calling Out Fake Confessions Online

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then, and then I really, I really this began to feel like something that was a script made entirely in your fantasy mind. When you just started basically rolling into this story about her kicking you in the balls and you know, degrading and humiliating you and all of the details after that. I just thought there's no fucking way. First of all, she said she's not into the performative side of cuckolding. I know exactly what she means by this. And she came from the swingers' world where you know humili humiliation and degradation is not a thing. Like the real kinky BDSM shit is not really a thing so much in that world. And then, and then for her to like flip a switch like that just so easily and just dive into context. Of like a level 10 humiliation, I call bullshit. Like, there is no fucking way. If I'm wrong, I'm I'm apologize, but I feel like this is bullshit. And like I feel like this is just your fantasy script that you got really excited thinking about. You've thought about it a million times in your mind, and in your mind it all played out that way. But in reality, only part of it did. And like at the end, it really does sound like you're jerking off, like you're wanking your wiener as you're spewing all of this fantasy vomit in this confession. Um, which I think is hilarious. Anyway, I call bullshit. For all of you guys listening, I am curious to know if you think that this is legit or if this is bullshit. Like, do you what do you think? What track is this? Is this true or false? And I find it hilarious that I keep getting these confessions because um I feel like I'm pretty good at like figuring out what's real and what's not, just because like I just I can't I have that, I can, I can sense it. I understand. I've listened to so many guys' fantasies over the years that I kind of like I know, I know when when this is just fantasy vomit, but I think it's hilarious that the last confessions episode it featured a total bullshit fantasy confession as well. I don't know why you guys are trying to pass this off as real, but you see this happen often on online forums and especially put anywhere where there's conversation around cuckolding, whether it be in the Queen's Quarters community, my community, um, I'll get people, what do you call one-handed typing conf or confessions or stories posed as a question, but really they just want to jack off to the, you know, talking about this this fantasy in there that they're trying to portray as real. It happens in there often. And I clamped down on it because like I can't stand that shit. Don't fucking this is not your wank space. This is not for that. Like, it's just it's fucking ridiculous. But you also see that the moderators on Reddit in the um cuckold psychology thread there, they have to deal with that all the time, and they have to clamp down on it as well because like it is it's a thing. I don't know why there's so many guys out there just trying to make it seem like they're living in this like crazy, amazing, cuckolding marriage when most of it is just like bullshit they're making up, like it's a nice little porn fucking script that they've got going on in their brain that they're trying to sell as real. I don't know why guys are doing this, they're just wanking their fucking little wiener, um, thinking about it and involving everybody else online try by trying to make it seem like it's real. It's fucking stupid. Stop doing that. Okay, these last two one is a confession, one's a question. And I find it hilarious because I get these often, and I'm just gonna call it the wank bin be and include them in this show because um they're funny. Um but both of them sound like they're jerking off as they're saying their thing, whatever. And um the first one is talking about uh how well they're both about black dicks, but they're the first one's talking about like confession about how he's white and British and he just can't stop thinking about like white girls with BBC. Okay, but just the way that he talks, and I was like, he sounds like he's he's out of breath, like he is just done like a marathon porn bender, BBC porn bender over the weekend or something, and he's just like, I gotta, I gotta make this confession to Venus. He sounds like he's out of breath, like he just rubbed out 14 times, like and the second one, oh my god, it's just like the most basic asked question about BBC. Probably if he listens to my show, uh the episodes where I've talked about black guys, they would answer all of that. But um his accent is just makes him sound so funny in the way that he says black cook. Anyway, here is a couple submissions that's going straight into the wank bin for today.

SPEAKER_04 27:01

I'm single, I'm British, and I'm white, and I absolutely love watching white

BBC Submissions And The Wank Bin

SPEAKER_04 27:08

girls write a BBC and imagining my future relationship when I'm in the corner and sitting in the corner seeing my wife or girlfriend enjoying a black.

SPEAKER_01 27:30

Why do you like black cock so much and not the white cock? And how many black cocks can you take in a time?

SPEAKER_05 27:43

That's it for confessions for today. If you want to send in your confession, go to Venuscuckled.com, click on the link that says the podcast, and you'll be able to submit. Yeah, you have up to five minutes to submit your question, your comment, your confession, and it might be included in the show. So that's VenusCuckledress.com. Click on the podcast link. That's gonna be it for today's episode. Thank you so much for joining me. Make sure you go to VenusCuckledris.com. That's where you can book a private chat with me, and you can also join the Queen's Quarters community and get all the amazing benefits like the private podcast and the helpful cuck tier, where you can get key holding, the private Snapchat group, monthly private chats with me, and weekly live hangouts and invites to special live events. Oh, and you can also submit a question or confession for the show. Just go to VenusCuckledist.com and click on the link that says the podcast. Make sure you follow me on Blue Sky Social. Yes, I said Blue Sky Social. Fuck Twitter. My handle there is at Cuckled Just V. All right, that's it for today's show. You guys will see you next time.